Friends Mom Is A Porn Star And It Ruined His Life?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend who has a porn star mom. No I will not tell you her name and also I am not trying to fuck my friend's mom, I am a gay man.

My friends mom became a porn star when he was 14 after his parents got divorced. He found out when he was 15. It ruined him. People at school found out. It ruined his Teens, he got bullied. He became sexually confused and he doesn't even watch porn anymore, he avoids porn because he is scared he might see one of his moms videos because he has seen some of his moms videos before. It also created weird daddy issues seeing his mom with other men. Classmates have attempted to call and visit his house to talk to his mom. It ruined him completely. He even attempted suicide a few times. Once he turned 18 he left home and went to live with his father and lost contact with his mom.

Now we both go to college. He is younger than me. Currently, he is 20. In college, we were having a discussion about feminsim and sex attitudes in the USA. He decided to open up about his mom being a porn star and his problems with it and the students defended the mother. They accused my friend of slut shaming his mother, of being sexist. They said "if your dad was a porn star you wouldn't be complaining" which actually is not true. They said his insecurities are his fault alone and that his mom is an independent woman who is expressing her sexuality and that it's natural. My friend left, that discussion re-opened old wounds and he has to go home.

In these students mindset, people should just be fine with whatever get's thrown in their faces. According to them if your Mom came home one day telling you "Hey child, I'm a porn star now and I'm ganna get fucked my tons of men and women online for money" YOU should just be ok with it because if that makes you uncomfortable then you are slut shaming your mom and judging moms decision to be an independent woman and express her sexuality.
Thoughts on this?

[hellionthesagereborn]

Yep that's the society we live in. Its self absorbed, obsessed with short term gratification and has no concept of personal responsibility or consequence. A mother is absolutely responsible for her actions especially if those actions negatively impact her child. She chose to not care what her actions would do to her son, that is extreme negligence and narcissism on her part and those students just feed it. In those students defense however they have been brain washed with this mentality to the point where they are note even aware of how screwed up it is, they have been conditioned to accept what they are told and not think about consequences or how their own actions can adversely affect others. As for the claim he wouldn't care if it was his father, that's just the extreme feminist victim mindset talking, of course he would care because it has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with the behavior. I'm very sorry your friend has gone through that, I would suggest he seek counciling for it because that can really mess you up.

[Sasisen]

Dude I'm absolutely on his side. I get that the mom has her own opinions and it's her life. But that kind of thing has a really big effect on a childs life.
Growing up and being bullied and then having his opinions completely invalidated being a young adult, it messes you up.
So I think that the guy needs support too.
Nowadays people are all "me me me" without any consideration whatsoever on how their decision can impact another's life.

[Essengiles]

I've always kind of wondered what life would be like for someone with porn star parents. I don't agree with what those people said... that's his mom and anybody... male or female... would be affected by that. I could honestly only imagine the kind of sexuality problems he faces. Everybody knows that their parents have sex but when a parent is basically a sex symbol for the entire world to look at... I can't even say because it's not my situation so I don't know. I think it'd probably be a whole lot easier to deal with if his dad was the porn star because of gender roles yes and because men get praised for the things women get talked down about. It's the way it is. Plus, moms are sons first love... right?

[pusyok]

what?

[loqks]

It's not sexist for him to be upset by his mother being a porn star - I'm sure he'd be just as upset if it was his dad.

I dunno, it must be kind of traumatic for him to be honest. I get the whole slut-shaming thing, but that is a social issue not a personal one! If he had been judging some random girl, sure but this is his MOTHER. He is allowed to feel upset about it, it would be kind of weird if he wasn't?

I do wonder though if she was financially struggling after the divorce? They can be expensive.

But yeah, either way, disregarding someones hurt over something like this is fucked up.

[Asker]

"I get the whole slut-shaming thing, but that is a social issue not a personal one" exactly, I have no problem with prostitutes for example but if I had a SON I would rather my son find 1 woman to marry and have a family with than to be a porn star.

[Warmapplecrumble]

The bullying ruined him.

If his mum was a toilet cleaner in his school he will still get bullied.

Or if his music taste is different he'll still be bullied.

Bullying happens due to differences.

His Mum and Dad are different to most. His Mum isn't a bad person.
He should be angry at the bullies.
He can be angry at the divorce.

[wankiam]

totally agree on this point

[Warmapplecrumble]

@wankiam thanks :-)

[pusyok]

are you porn star?

[Warmapplecrumble]

@pusyok yeah do I look like one x

[pusyok]

yeah I would like to take part in your movie haha. How many guys have you had?

[Warmapplecrumble]

@pusyok lmao I am not a porn star :-p was just joking

[pusyok]

damn, but I still got a boner for you lol. What do I do now lol

[Warmapplecrumble]

@pusyok lmao wank of

[pusyok]

can I keep thinking of you as a porn star? I want to cum to your pic lol

[Warmapplecrumble]

@pusyok lmao go for it :-)

[wankiam]

its the teddy bear he likes really lol and you thought i was a perv ;)

[Warmapplecrumble]

@wankiam lmao :-p

[Asker]

"The bullying ruined him" It played a part but the porn star thing also ruined him and sexually confused him and created weird daddy issues. It's a nuanced thing not black and white, there are MANY reasons why his mom being a porn star ruined him, not just one or the other. If bullying wasn't a thing he would still be ruined for other reasons. Trust me I have talked to him about every angle regarding this.

[Asker]

@wankiam thisty af bro

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ Asker if his mother was in a different era, and porn stars were viewed highly then he wouldn't feel that way. The reason why he feels bad is because society views pornstars as a bad thing. Women that are highly sexual are put down because it doesn't allow monogamy and chastity. I really feel like its a umbrella effect of being born to parents that aren't accepted by society. One of the reasons why I don't want children is I feel like the way I view life is very different from others, I understand if I don't conform my future child will be bullied. It's just my hypothesis

[Asker]

"Asker if his mother was in a different era, and porn stars were viewed highly then he wouldn't feel that way" And How would you know how he would feel in a different era? At one point most of America was racist towards black people, it was the norm, but that didn't stop some white people from feeling bad about slavery. Just because the majority have a mindset that won't affect every single individual. Trends don't speak for people only groups. And even that is limited. "The reason why he feels bad is because society views pornstars as a bad thing. Women that are highly sexual are put down because it doesn't allow monogamy and chastity" He said he would feel the same way if it was his father. Also there is a bilogical reason for why a person might not want his mom to be porn star or even simply date another man. I mean the porn star thing has MANY reasons not just simply Society is sexist and slut shaming

[Asker]

there's a bioloigcal reason why human offsprings don't wanna see their mothers with someone who isn't their biological father or vice versa, it's hardwired into us. So a porn star makes that biological reaction even worse

[wankiam]

thats not biological... its social conditioning and what makes us different to the animals

[Warmapplecrumble]

>>> how would he feel if porn stars were highly valued about his mother, if all of his friends looked up to him because of that? >>> how do children feel about parents who are hated by society e. g. his parents can't afford the latest gadgets or clothes, etc. I know this. I have been bullied like crazy. I was only Asian girl in a African school, I was different. What is exactly wrong with the job title of a pornstar? Do you know many people have sex with their bosses at work to get promotion? How does anyone even know she's a porn star... they must have watched porn. ?

[Asker]

@wankiam It is biological what are you talking about? There are tons of things that are biological. Also we are animals also. The difference is we are highly sentient animals who can form thoughts and opinions, and we can even work against our biology. We aren't a slave to our biology. There are biological things that drive us but also we are adaptable to change, nature and nurture. But biologically there is a reason why humans wouldn't want their moms to be with someone who isn't their father. That drive is more natural than a person wanting his mom to be a porn star. But again, humans are adaptable and it's possible for nurture to affect biological drives because humans aren't black and white. BOTH Nature AND Nurture drive humans.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Monogamy is not normal but it ensures best care for children, and society.. hence its highly recommended. Also it means high output from society.

[wankiam]

so what of tribes that developed far from our own social conditioning and where your vision of right and wrong doesn't apply? not every human is hard wired to live like us

[Asker]

There are BOTH monogamous and Polygamous Drives in humans. Polygamy best chances for most offsprings but lower quality, Monogamy best chance for focused and smaller quantity but better chances to focus on quality. Again NUANCE, not black and white. NUANCE NUANCE NUANCE Why do you think many human beings want to fuck a lot but at the same time desire traditional love, feel deep heartbreak at things like cheating, fall for only 1 person and feel guilty if they cheated. Because humans have both things inside of them that have drives for both monogamy and polygamy. Many tribes in africa have been mostly polygamous and then mostly monogamous. There is a pro and con to both of these.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ Asker my views on sex are very different to other people, I am very open minded. I don't care if this gives a negative impression. However, I can understand his right to be angry with not having a complete family. But who his Mother has sex with is her choice. He might not like it but in essence its her womb and she allows whoever she wants. Like I am sure you wouldn't want your future children telling you... who you can or can't have sex with and do with your career.

[Asker]

"so what of tribes that developed far from our own social conditioning and where your vision of right and wrong doesn't apply? not every human is hard wired to live like us" Which is why I said human beings are a nunaced mixture of nature and nurture. We have drives but also affected by nurture, experience, etc. For example, Empathy is a biological drive, it's been shown when humans work together they survive better. Same thing has been observed in animals etc. But obviously some society have also worked againts empathy like conquest and slavery. Again look at the words, NUANCE, NUANCE NUANCE

[Warmapplecrumble]

His mother is her own person. He should respect she's different and not necessarily going to do things he likes. The same respect is needed from his mother for her son.

[Asker]

@Warmapplecrumble As long as it's between 2 consenting adults I don't care, but that doesn't mean it won't affect others. I am ok with incest for example, as long as it's 2 consenting adults, who aren't ganna have kids, so gay incest especially like 2 cousins or 2 brothers, technically if they are consenting adults, they should do whatever they want as long as they don't hurt anyone. Incest is a thing that has both been a part of humanity and worked in our favor with mutations and many things but also corrupted genes has negatively affected humanity. Genetic sexual attraction is normal. Not for everyone but on some level for SOME people incest instincts still live on. like homosexuality you also see incest in nature. BUT at the same time, just because I think incest is ok between 2 consenting adults, there is also a biological reason why the parensts of the 2 gay brothers for example would be grossed out because there is also a drive to reject that. incest is also a nuanced

[bekkesmash]

It's far worse when the guys in his class can show him videos of his mom being fucked. far worse than his mom being a cleaning lady. And he can't escape it, it's there for the whole world to see, and it always will be.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@bekkesmash society bullies you for anything @ asker But in reality the mother is a individual and we can't forget she has free will. Pornstar is not a bad job. Many people watch it. She hasn't harmed anyone physically by doing that job. She should have a free will to do whatever job... be a housewife, cleaner, doctor, Pornstar. I can understand this upsets the child a lot. Because his mother isn't the same as his friend's mother and he gets bullied for it. But how can the bullying be stopped? By conforming? Or just saying I don't actually care and this doesn't affect me

[bekkesmash]

she had to of known he would find out eventually and she had to of known he would realy hate the fact. It's incrediblly bad parenting to do porn if you have a fairly young child. She took the easy way out because she knew she couldn't make that money at a "normal" job. And it's not just the bullying, just the kid himself knowing is bad enough. Even if nobody else but the son knew, he would still be crushed, as would 99% of kids.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@bekkesmash I don't actually understand... what's wrong about being a pornstar

[bekkesmash]

It's prostitution and the fact that everyone can see it at the press of a button makes it worse.

[Asker]

@warmapplecrumble nothing is wrong with being a porn star, just like there's nothing wrong with consenting adult incest that won't produce offspring, but that doesn't mean that there aren't reasons why it can't hurt someone else and the response is natural. If a father finds out his 2 consenting sons are in a gay incest relationship, well guess that there's a reason, a biological reason why it would affect him. But since they are 2 consenting adults, it's ok, but still, the fathers feelings and reaction would be quite normal also

[Asker]

Being a porn star is prostitution to be fair. They should make prostitution legal because like it's the same thing

[Warmapplecrumble]

I would not hate my child if my son was gay... he is his own person. In fact all I can do is love and teach him what I know is the best. And I'd expect my child to understand I am my own person, far from perfect and someone who is not greatly appreciated by society.

[Asker]

The example there was INCEST since incest is FAR more condemned than being gay

[Asker]

GAY incest was the example, 2 brothers being gay with eachother

[Warmapplecrumble]

I see prostitution as something normal and that it should be legal and monitored in a healthier way

[bekkesmash]

All I can say is prostitution is fine until your mom does it. Whores have always been looked down on, she new that, she knew her son would eventually find out. I am not criticizing her for being a prostitute (directly), I am criticizing her for doing it while knowing how badly it could potentially effect her son.

[Warmapplecrumble]

@bekkesmash why they get looked down upon?

[Warmapplecrumble]

@ asker I wouldn't care of someone is gay and in relationship with their sibling... they are their own individual and they haven't done anything wrong... However, it doesn't mean I would practice it because its something that doesn't resonate with me, I have no interest in it

[bekkesmash]

I can tell you why women get looked down in general for having a lot of sex ex is far easier to get for women, this is because of simple reproductive fitness dynamics. As in a man can knock up 5 women in a day, but a women can only get knocked up once in 9 months, so you only need a small percentage of men to knock up all the women. This makes men more sexually driven and women more selective. A man will need a lot going for him to have the same potential sexual success as the average women. This is why male promiscuity is celebrated (because it's hard to do) while a women will just be considered a slut (because all she needs to do is open her legs). A man also doesn't know if a child is his while a women will always know, thus a promiscuous women is subconsciously seen as a risk that a man will waste his time and resources raising someone else's genes, it is a risk to male reproductive fitness. Getting payed for it is worse, as it is abusing power.

[bekkesmash]

And that person being your mom? fuck

[Warmapplecrumble]

@bekkesmash I would accept my mother as pornstar and not give a fuc* about society... A woman who gets pregnant is giving birth to a child.. that's a big responsibility and that should be respected. A sexual woman is as valuable as a sexual man. I couldn't care less about who opens legs to who.

[bekkesmash]

If you would accept your mom as a pornstar you are part of a very small minority, 99% of people wouldn't, and rightfully so. "A sexual woman is as valuable as a sexual man" haahhaha... No

[ajf04]

I think those students missed the fact that he was a very impressionable kid when all this happened. That is key to the whole discussion. If she had become a porn star when he were already an adult then that's something else. But for a kid, so much can potentially cause trauma. I'd recommend you try and advise your friend to see a therapist to help him through his issues and try to get over them :) Good luck to him

[Izumiblu]

The mom is wrong, the people at his school is wrong. End of story.

[Asker]

lol I was expecting a long ass rant and sass haha, well short and sweet is good also

[Izumiblu]

People are stupid... what can I say

[Asker]

personally, what would you do in his shoes if your mom hypothetically became a porn star? How do you think it would affect you and how woudl you handle it, I'm just curious

[Izumiblu]

I don't know... it started when he was just a kid... he didn't have the tools he needed to deal with it... his mom being the selfish unthinking bitch she is just decided that he had to live in the sewer she made. Now... if its affecting him that much go see a counselfie or something. It is not always best to open up and talk about shit but a counselor might be needed.. I don't know.

[AlphaGhost]

He could have easily answered them by calling their moms porn stars too,
and when they try to defend this and become angry then tell those shit heads its not normal to have pornstar mom.

[Poppykate]

That poor fella. I get it. It would be hard on him. You see your parents as protective care givers. It's hard enough when they get divorce, and start dating other people. But to have sex for money, and have it filmed for the whole world to see... it would be really hard. The boy would be feeling like he failed to protect his mother from 'these creeps', as he became the man of the house, when his dad left. It's a sad situation!.

[Asker]

What is kinda fucked up is that the first video he ever saw of his mom was a orgy where she was getting sex from 4 guys at once. So he got a full impact of seeing 4 men and slapping her and stuff. I could only imagine.

[Asker]

One big reason he trust me is because I'm super gay so he doesn't feel I look at his mom that way or watch her porn. I only watch gay porn lol

[amel23]

Libarals r ruining everything if u have a kid its not about u anymore it about him too if I r too selfish don't have one and put him to misery

[NerdInDenial]

What did he expect in a feminism class? They don't care about men and there's no sympathy for men. I would advise that your friend go talk to a counselor or a therapist so he can close that chapter of his life.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

You guys are from USA?

[Eugene]

Poor lad. He should visit psychologist (proper one, not with (((liberal arts))) degree) to fix his insecurities, however.

Students at the college that defended the mother are absolutely retarded.

[Asker]

Serious question bro, what would you do or how would it have affected you if your mom was a pron star, if you were in the same shoes. I would probably be messed up. I'm gay af so I'm already messed up lol jk. But seriously a porn star parents seems tough

[Eugene]

Well, folks are different; You see, I have a well-developed trait that I call "healthy dont-give-a-fuckness" (I stress "healthy", not "absolute"); ie I typically have less emotional reaction towards something than most folks, and I generally skip process of chimping out / freaking out and immediately jump to analysis of a situation in order to find the best solution as quickly as possible. It's been like this since early childhood. Hence it's EXTREMELY unlikely that with such nature and mentality I'd get emotionally broken as this guy. Therefore, in his situation I would: 1.) Opened up to a real psychologist (proper one, not some libtarded one); some libtarded students are not exactly well-developed people to discuss important matters -- or any matter that requires brains to begin with. 2.) Being scared of porn is silly -- just don't open porn / don't seek type of porn where his mother may get involved. Find a specific actress you like and jerk off to her.

[Eugene]

3.) Find a hobby that puts mind at ease. A good hobby that one enjoys really helps to switch attention! It also may help some actual sane folks to talk to. 4.) Under no circumstances would I become a homosexual or even bisexual -- that's just disgusting. 5.) Stay away from mom for a few years until all the mess clears up.

[Asker]

"Under no circumstances would I become a homosexual or even bisexual -- that's just disgusting" oh no my faggot little heart, lol. Jk bro , I see where you're coming from. Actually funny enough one of the reasons he trust me to talk to is because I'm gay so I ain't ganna look up his mom and jerk off so he trust me not to be weird about his mom like that. But yeah I appreciate it's very well ironed out and reasoned.

[Asker]

"Stay away from mom for a few years until all the mess clears up" That's a lot of sperm to clean up, the camera probably looks like a snow globe. LOL that's fucked up I'm contributing to his pain but the edge lord in me came out

[Eugene]

Is his mom good looking though? An easy way to avoid porn with his mom is by NOT searching MILF videos.

[Asker]

She's good looking but since I'm gay I'm not into that. Apparently, he has ran into her a few times on porn sites. He's only watched porn like once or twice this year but he said he watched black girl porn website to avoid the possibiltiy

[Eugene]

Additionally, I do genuinely believe that homosexuality can be cured (as it can be developed as well -- prisons are an excellent example of that). Sure, some methods are quite brutal (shock therapy, as far as I know, DID "cure" -- or more like "changed" -- some), but there gotta be some other, more humane ways too. Ironically, homos, libtards and other types of SJWs actually make it worse for homos by constantly screeching like an African vuvuzela whenever a topic about helping homosexuals to become normal again appears. It completely eludes them that secretly there are definitely homos that want to be normal and with proper research a solution with nowadays medicine and technology could've been found.

[Asker]

I'm not one of those gays who believe sexuality is 100% determine, I do think sexuality is nuanced and nurture/experience CAN affect it. Basically both nature and nurture. Of corse the LBGTQ doesn't like it when I say that LOL. I know Milo Yinnapolis who is that gay journalist who worked at brightbart said he wants to cure his homosexuality and if they come up with a cure he would use it. One some level I would probably want to be straight because the straight married life with a woman and kids seems nice, but like seriously, women are bitches these days. I just feel I connect with men more, if I tried to date women it seems like a disaster, so many of them are entitled, they are getting greedy with penis size, they seem to have a weird complex about equality but still wanna be treated like a queen and taken care of

[Asker]

I mean I don't think being gay is 100% born that way like the lBGTQ thinks

[Eugene]

Whenever I hear such stuff about western women, it makes me love my country even more, since such problem is rarely found even in large cities.

[Asker]

Eugene what do you think of the idea that the reason SOME guys go gay is because they are sick of dealing with women or they find woman too complicated?

[Asker]

Your profile says Russia so I have no idea bout how women in russia are.

[Asker]

Many times I feel like this about women
https://youtu.be/wlb-HWpDDx0?t=71

[Eugene]

When it comes down to homos, my personal view is the following: It's disgusting. Literally. I once saw 2 guys kiss and almost vomited upon seeing it -- I believe I was 16 or so when I saw it. Cult of homosexuality (like in EU/NA) is outright harming to society, as it "feminizes" men and lowers birthrates. Therefore I do NOT support any laws that cater to them (adopting, marriage etc.) and I fully support ban of exposure of minors in regards homosexuality in my country. However, I do separate homos in 2 groups in my view: 1.) Faggots -- those that screech, bitch, make it "in your face" obvious and love "shock value", typical shit. I prefer them being shipped to some California (being an atheist I support the decision of Orthodox Christian church to pay them for one way tickets). 2.) Homosexuals -- who are quiet about it and just do their shit behind closed doors. I do NOT support physical violence towards any of them, and DO support seeking a humane cure for them, not catering.

[Asker]

I understand your views. I was curious if you thought the reason more and more men are bcoming gay is because more women are becoming complictaed and it's harder to have a relationship with women? basically guys become gay due to relationships with somen being more complicated than ever before and woman being different?

[Eugene]

>> Your profile says Russia so I have no idea bout how women in russia are. Around 95% of women are "I'll support my man so that he can carry us both in life" attitude, ie traditional one. 5% unfortunately are exposed and infected by Western degeneracy. >> Eugene what do you think of the idea that the reason SOME guys go gay is because they are sick of dealing with women or they find woman too complicated? Quite possible; we even did a research on this (something that wouldn't be possible in the West, I guess). I personally find such men weak-chinned. There are other solutions than taking a dick into one's ass. I mean, if we (men) would give up so easy every time, we'd still be living in grass huts.

[Eugene]

Why there are more homos? (((Social engineering))). I once made a long and explained response as to why it's done here on gag somewhere, but since work for today at the office is done and it's time to head home, maybe I'll find a full response later.

[Asker]

What's your thoughts on women when it comes to sexuality like lesbina or bisexual women? Similar thoughts or is it a bit different

[Eugene]

Found it!
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2460438-why-does-homosexuality-have-to-be-jammed-down-everyones-throats-today

Check MHO.

As for lesbians -- Milo did an explanation on them.

Bisexual women... well, considering that I absolutely love women and completely fail to understand what women find visually attractive in us (men), I do suspect that women just also simply like visually pleasing things just like men do.
It's harder to discuss lesbians, as typically one can see they are clearly nuts, while observing bisexual women is harder as at the end of a day they always prefer a cock over a pussy.

[Asker]

Thank you I read all that, and when did milo explain lesbians? Also I've seen many people go as far as to say straight women don't exist and that ALL women are either lesbian OR bisexual. And basically, girls who say are straight haven't explored what is already there. I honestly don't know if there is truth to that or not but I have questioned if the LBGTQ is lying to make all women bisexual and wash away straight girls. Here is the USA literally every single girl I know my age is lesbian, bisexual of if they are straight they HAVE had a lesbian phase or done lesbian things or if they haven't they are curious enough to want to try it. I have question if it was indeed true that all women are bisexual of if they are just getting brainwashed by lesbian women propaganda.

[Asker]

Also I know plenty of men that have dated women and then the woman cheat on them with other women. And also a lot of men are worried about dating girls because they don't beleive straight girls don't exist anymore. So they loose interest in marrying women and resort to only fucking them and possible threesomes. It seems most guys I know think bisexual girls are hot to date and sleep around but not wife material. I understand that. If someone is bisexual it's easy to be insecure and wonder if you're enough for them.

[Asker]

Also I found something I commented on a while back. It's a question this girl asked.
Basically this girl claims she's straight but explains she felt pressure to be bisexual because people tell her she's bisexual. I read it a while back and you even see the user amphet11 trying to tell her she is infact gay.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2149488-popular-youtuber-science-says-all-woman-are-gay-or-bisexual-is

So like I said I don't know what truth there is to the claim "all women are bisexual"
Or if this is just people desperate to bi-wash women

[Eugene]

I doubt that "research", as if it would be true, then humanity would've been extinct long time ago, when it was underdeveloped to rely on logic rather than instincts. Something else is in there. As I mentioned before, there's a very strong propaganda in the West in this regard for the reasons I've already stated. Also, get a girlfriend; if you're in NA, seek Asian one -- they're typically much more traditional and feminine.

[Asker]

I don't know about that to be honest. Asian women are basically like white American girls over here. Besides I'm black and Asian women don't really date black guys. Asian women don't even date Asian men a lot, more and more they are dating white men. Not saying that's wrong or racist, but it does seem to be a trend.

[Asker]

Maybe this is an American issue and russian girls are more humane than American girls. like seriously if you look at the dynamic between American girls and American men, it would seem like men and woman aren't even compatible. But maybe the dynamic between russian men and woman is very different and much more compatible. Wait I guess that's what that "Order russian bride" thing is? because russian wives are bettr than americna wives? Cause I have heard of American men ordering russian wives or soemthing

[Eugene]

"Russian mail bride" was a trend in 90's after the collapse of USSR, when things went so bad (not only economy), American Great Depression looks like some child's nonsense in comparison, thus some girls would simply seek survival. Nowadays this trend (due to miraculous improvements of quality of life thanks to Vladimir Vladimirovich) is long dead and only scams exist. Typically foreigners that have spent some time in my country would always express jealousy that overwhelmingly our girls are much more traditional (ie prefer so called "gender roles", where girl has a mindset of "I'll support my man so that it's easier for him to carry us both"), much more beautiful and significantly less obese, more submissive, HOWEVER if pushed (provoked) too far -- hell hath no fury: some women even go to war to avenge their fallen husbands, for example. Just because they're nice, feminine and submissive doesn't mean they don't have a backbone!

[Eugene]

I personally know some girls that are ruthless and cunning bosses and own their businesses (and won't take shit from anyone -- trust me on this one!), yet back home with their husbands/boyfriends they turn into purring kittens and a when she's off work, then most of them prefer to have a man in charge. Only very close circle of their friends and family know how much different they're at home though.
Take a look at our female politicians, for example, like Maria Zakharova or Natalia Poklonskaya:
https://i.imgur.com/qiJMItg.jpg
First one is a ruthless, no-nonsense Director of the Information and Press Department of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and often calls foreign journalists out on their bullshit, always has a response ready, well-spoken and highly educated, trolls dumbfucks and stuff, yet in her facebook often talks about her happy family life.

[Eugene]

https://i.imgur.com/eTX6YGR.jpg
Second one is a General Prosecutor of Crimea, who put some of the most dangerous gangs (no, not the kiddies like MS13/Bloods/Crips in the USA, far more dangerous ones) behind bars, back in her youth was kidnapped and tortured (thus she has problems smiling nowadays and sometimes talks "through her teeth", as her right cheek is still paralyzed), takes zero shits from anyone and apparently forgot what "fear" is, and was the only one with balls to take charge of Crimea after it separated from Ukraine after nazis took over Kiev. Known to be an excellent mom (although single -- ALLEGEDLY her husband was killed as a revenge for putting high-ranking criminals behind bars) and off-duty has been noted being a typical girly woman.

You got the picture.

[Asker]

Thanks dude, this is very insightful. And yeah based on what you said it does seem russian women are more traditional and probably easier for a man to get along with. Honestly if you see how American women and men get along you would think they aren't compatible lol. Seriously gay people get along better in America than a straight couple. In my opinion I do think women are at fault and feminism played a role in this. And of course other SJW stuff and LBGTQ stuff also. I know you don't agree with my life style but I still enjoyed talking to you and we do see eye to eye on a lot

[Asker]

By the way what russian gangs are these? Cause the MS13 are pretty cruel and murderous. So shit these russian gangs must be even worse, what are they call? I'm curious to know about it

[Eugene]

Considering that I attended university in the UK and hang out on this website for 7 years (thus spoke to a lot of folks from North America and Western Europe), I pretty much got the picture. Yet I've also met some quite sane girls from EU and NA, thus the cause is not lost yet. So get a girlfriend :P Also, what is nowadays feminism/SJW originally was actually work of our KGB (google "Bezmenov") in 50's, 60's and 70's.

[Eugene]

We don't have "gangs" in a sense of American "gangs", where a group of morons wreck shit around them. We have more of a mix of Italian mafia and Japanese yakuza. Thus typically it's much harder to distinguish them from ordinary folks: they're well-educated, more careful, more planning, more strategic, more ambitious, tend to recruit former special forces / excellent doctors / engineers / hackers / psychologists and so on and on for criminal activity (hacking something, faking signatures, creating devices for some operations, sometimes using brute force etc.), are spread into "organizations" (sorta like "clans" in yakuza, ie they aren't a single organization with sub-divisions) tend to upkeep legal background and positive public image etc. I mean, in 90's some of them stole fucking submarines to transport cocaine to the US and even tried to sell a stolen nuke, thus immediately they became the worst nightmare for FBI in US.

[Eugene]

They also tend to exhibit so called "Disproportionate Retribution";
tvtropes.org/.../DisproportionateRetribution

ie you steal something from them, they'll bury you, your gang, your relatives and your gangmembers' relatives alive under the ground and burn your houses in retaliation.

[AngelLily]

I'm so sorry for your friend your friend should tell those people to shut the up they don't know how it feels like to know your mother is being Swang around by everything and everyone he's in the right and it's all her fault for destrouy her child's life.

[Extazye]

Before judging this guy. Would you guys want your mom to be a pornstar? That answer it all. Doesn't it?

[TheFlak38]

this is one fucked up situation.

[bekkesmash]

That's worse than your mother being a prostitute on the side of the street (pornstars are prostitutes too anyway) as the whole world can see his mom being banged at the press of a button. Honestly that is piss poor parenting, she must have known he would have eventually found out. Has he confronted his mom about how negatively her doing porn has effected him?

[BeyondCuriosity]

I don't think his mom should be ashamed or feel bad, but he also gets to choose how he feels about it. He doesn't have to be comfortable with it. He gets a choice just like she does.

[WinterBlaze]

He should learn to just learn to ignore what others say and he should just stop over-thinking about his mom being a pornstar... even after thousands of things she is his mother...

[bekkesmash]

Over thinking it? How would you like it if everyone could view your mom being fucked by multiple men at the press of a button.

[WinterBlaze]

If it's by her will... I don't care even a shit whatever she does...

[bekkesmash]

You would be in an extremely small minority in that. 99% of guys would be crushed if they found out there mother does porn, and rightfully so.

[WinterBlaze]

It would hurt a lot.. but guys need to have nerves of steel if that happens.. being crushed isn't gonna do any good...

[grega239]

Tell these cunts to fuck themselves with a blender

[Asker]

Ha and also ewww, I imagined their cunts looking like an exploded hot pocket

[Jakeofalltrades93]

its always easier to tell someone else to live with it when you don't have to.

[haremhan]

cool story brother...

[Anonymous]

Life becomes difficult if you are bullied... has he discussed how he feels with his Mom?

[Anonymous]

If i were with him that day, i would throw every bricks i have to those people in the discussion who said those awful things.

I can't even imagine living his life with his mom as a porn star. It must be so bad. Being bullied and else.

[Anonymous]

Yes, his life is ruined.