Does It Diminish A Man's Interest If I Say No Sex Before Marriage; But Agree To Handjobs and Blowjobs?

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Does it diminish a man’s interest if I mention to him that I do not believe in sex before marriage? But is open to giving him blowjobs/hand jobs during the duration of our relations? I ask this because I’m a firm believer in no sex before marriage due to fears of unwanted pregnancies and just sharing that very intimate part of my life with someone in which I do not see a long term commitment or relationship with. Sex is very emotional and bonding to me therefore I only want to share that part of my life with someone who is willing to commit their life with mine. Anyhow I have been reflecting upon this and was wondering how much this will be seen as a deal breaker to any man that shows a potential interest in dating me? I’m currently a university student aspiring to be a lawyer in the future and I’m an introvert with a very small group of acquaintances. I’m still on a journey to finding myself and developing my identity but this is a part of my life whereas I have come to a decision on and would appreciate some input?

I’m 20 years old turning 21 later this year and I'm a virgin.

Thank you very much
Does It Diminish A Man's Interest If I Say No Sex Before Marriage; But Agree To Handjobs and Blowjobs?
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