What does it mean when a guy cums fast?

So I recently had sex with this guy for the first time and it was our second time hanging out, fourth time seeing each other in person (idk if that matters). But we had sex; he went down on me for like 5 minutes and I went down on him for like 3 minutes. Lol. But when it came to the penetration he lasted about 5 minutes. What could be the reasoning for that? Why did he cum so fast? Did I do something wrong?
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  • Just means he was very excited and of course you didn't do anything wrong. You did everything right or he wouldn't have lol. This was only your first time having sex, he actually did pretty well. As you have sex more and he gets more and more comfortable with you (combined with having sex more often), he'll last longer. And if not, then just don't let the sex end when he cums, get that first one "over with", and while he's recouping, he can work on you (oral etc) until he's hard again, the second time will be much longer.

  • On the contrary... He may just really be into you. Or he may just need practice.. Have him go down on you again or play a bit until he's ready to go again he either will eventually get used to it and last longer (in case he doesn't have that much experience) or if he is really that into you the only way he's not going to cum that fast is practice being with you... So the answer either way is to continue xP and by the way 3 min? Good job xP you are not doing anything wrong xP

Most Helpful Girl

  • My man cums quick when it feels great so I would say you didn't do anything wrong

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  • sexual tention. tte more he thinks about having sex or having to perform decreases his stamina. basicly he's way too horny which should be a compliment. he can't help it. there are a LOT of ways you can totally make him last longer. oh and don't be mad, chances are he feels shitty about it. but he couldn't help it.

  • Inexperience... and does'nt have control over it.

    • Yeah he seemed inexperienced by the way he was kissing but with the crowd he hangs around i was doubtful. Lol

    • Its all good, good luck to you both, take care.

    • Thank you

  • That he fucking sucks

  • That's actually around average time! Did u cum through the oral? If not then he should have stayed there longer to ensure u came.

    • Yeah I came through oral. 🙂

    • Ah well he's not a total waster then lol

  • Statistically speaking, a 2005 study found that sex lasts 5.4 minutes on average, although that data does not take into account foreplay, female orgasm, or non-heterosexual pairings. For historical perspective, Alfred Kinsey's 1948 research found that 75 percent of American men ejaculated within the first two minutes of sex. Progress.

    • Well MY averages are 15 minutes. Lol. I've never heard of a guy lasting 5 minutes during penetration sex. I know the Kinsey study but I've never known that to be true. Lol

    • There was also the 2005 study of 5.4 minutes, sad but true. Also sad is 90% of white dick is only 5.5" bone pressed through the fat pad. Obesity is on the rise. If both partners had 2.5" of pubic fat pad, that would only leave 1" of actual penetration. No wonder why the divorce rate is 90% in some demographics, 70% initated by women. More and more women prefer sex with black bruthas guys as a result.

    • Asker your "averages" were not averages. they were very desensitised and trained stallions that learnt how to edge constantly. or they were inspired to cum faster. your current guy's duration is normal for most of them.

  • it means basic human physiology lol

    • Yeah. Not to sound like a bitch but that wasn't helpful! Lol

    • 5 mins is not bad lol... sometimes it goes like 2 mins no joke hahah... like before it even goes in it's ready to burst... it's just made that way because nature is smart and it wants to sustain human life - so it made it pleasurable and very easy to have babies... all it takes is 2 mins and voila... baby time

    • Oh. Okay. Now that makes sense thank you!!

  • Nah he just needs to work on taking longer it's not your fault at all.

  • Nope. He was too highly aroused to control it.

  • It means you were doing something right.

    • It means they have no self control

  • Means you excited him and he’s horny fuck him again

  • I don't know what you've been reading or watching, or who you've been talking to, but the average penetration time is actually less than 5 minutes. Sometimes, some men, under some circumstances, can last for quite a while longer, but if it takes longer than 5 minutes, it becomes work, not pleasure... You should have to work at an orgasm, you should welcome one!

  • No he liked it quit over thinking it

    • Okay okay. Good!! 😊

  • He needs lot of practice to hold the cum and get erected during sex. I think he would be over excited during sex. Ask him don't constrate more on sex during sex

  • Good ass

  • 5 minutes is really normal tbh

  • 5 minutes fast? guys can come in 1.

    • Can you really make any guy cum in 1 minute? :D

    • @Gramer had it more than a couple of times. 1-2 mins.

    • @Opinion Owner You must feel proud and desired abou it, right? :D Was it with sex or blowjob?

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  • 5 minutes is quite long

  • Not everyone has stamina, and even those that do can get thrown off if its good and tight. Especially if you got him really turned on with head before putting some tight pussy on him.

  • You did nothing wrong, just guys can sometimes get to excited and cause quick Cumming