Because men are already perverted about sex. There is no underlying tone. With girls, we're more subtle. While a girl may love sex and be super perverse, she could easily not show that attitude and act and dress in a way that does not allude to it whatsoever to an audience. That distinction between public, outer life and how you act in private is what makes many a things hot.
Also there is a stereotype that men who have sex toys or use them on women have small dicks and feel the need to compensate (I'm not saying being small is bad, but that men who are might feel as such).0 1 2 7I don't talk about sex ever with other guys i just do what i do in private so this isn't true for all of us
Generalizing! I hardly talk about sex unlessed asked but I know plenty of girls who do make it a common subject of conversation. There's also plenty of girls who dress less then modest but know when calls them perves. Why would a guy who uses a flesh light have anything to do with his penise size. About using sex toys with your partner it could be just to try something new or spice it up. Like using butt plugs, vibrating dildos on her clit, cock rings etc. Doesn't nessacrly mean they're trying to compensate.
Well as with the majority of those who voted it is totally acceptable for men to have male sex toys. It also has to be fairly popular or there would not be so many readily available.
It would be creepy for a guy to have a drawer full of female sex toys as for most of us they are somewhat of a private toy that we generally don't want others using.0 0 0 0I couldn't answer the question with a yes or no... but guys are creepy because they don't need them. But as a girl, I find it literally impossible to get myself off without some kind of aid.
There is also the fact that men will always be gross and women always seen as clean.1 0 0 1
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It's not creepy or weird, loads of men own sex toys, and so do many couples.
There's a small minority of women who use this fact to shame men, probably because they feel bad that men are using toys instead of giving them attention. Remember that any time a person does this, what they're really trying to do is to get people to change their behaviour, be wary of these people, they're manipulative.0 0 0 0I agree that there is a double standard but it's only from guys to other guys. I've never met a woman who has found it odd that I have a sex toy. I think it mostly stems from this idea that masturbation is for pathetic losers and instead "real" men should be out "slaying pussy"... which of course is not the case as sex toys can enhance solo masturbation but also sex
2 0 0 0Well what I find stupid is that the majority of guys do jack off. everyone knows it but if you decide to buy a toy to make it even better then it's pathetic and you should be fucking enough brods to not have the need for that.
Yeah, it is completely ridiculous that it exists. Why would making something more pleasurable be a bad thing?
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12 14Where did you get the idea this was a problem? It's not a problem. You can have all the sex toys you want. But the fully functional robot woman is a bit over the top.:)
0 1 0 0Society
Maybe you've been associating with a bunch of uptight fundamentalist church people or something. You can change that. :)
I don't think its weird - I just don't think there's much point? Men are much easier to get off. Penile stimulation can be done for free, but hey, get a sex toy if you can afford it. Lol
0 1 0 0Yea put I'm sure a flesh light will feel better then your hand
I think there like 70$
Nope. I tried it and nothing beats my hand (pun intended.) Yust to clarify, nothing beats my hand FOR MASTURBATION. I also have a dildo. while a finger is better, it's just to hard to reach back there and jack off.
I have a friend who has a fleshlight. He also got an escort once. I didn't really judge him, like it's his choices who cares?
0 0 0 0Right!
by the way the sex bot thing is indeed hot
Honestly Its not weird, we all have needs! and sometimes we dont always have someone around to do us sexual favors, do what you gotta do to get by man!
0 2 0 0Fleshlights are fine and better than a hand but sex dolls reek of desperation.
1 0 0 1I mean, it's not really this way in reality. In reality, no cares man.
0 0 2 0Tell that to the guy who made his very own sex robot which he uses in a threesome with his wife and was condemned on the television ( it was in a UK talk show if I recall correctly)
Look i put its weird, meaning for me it would be weird. But common everybody has sexual moments that they just need to handle so I guess it's alright
0 0 0 0Ya right on
Girls have a butt load of toys and nasty things. Girls be always finding fuck buddies and they do it so much that they literally get sick of it and then tell guys 'im not looking for that anymore, looking for a real man'
Ya bitch cause you slept around too much and abused it to the point of getting sick of it
And we're the sex dogs right lol
Right0 0 0 0i think that if a woman was using a robot then i would be just as creeped out- i dont think its cause its a guy using it, its just what your using
0 1 0 0What if it's a flesh light
did you mean to say flesh? cause if you did then i duno what that is and if you meant a flashlight then that is kind of strange
Lol not a flashlight a flesh light is like a new better quilty pocket pussy. It's a sex toy for guys
If it's your thing, then it's your thing. I don't cast judgment.
0 0 0 0Ever heard of 50 shades of grey? With that being so famous with women and men I don't think anyone should find anything weird anymore when it comes to sex
0 0 0 0Never seen it I think the vast majority of fans are femals tho
Ya but I've heard of a couple of men who loved it and tried r with their spouses.
Those films are an awful representation of Dom/sub lifestyles and the kink community in general
Sex toys for both males and females is fucking creepy. Get a real person instead.
0 0 0 1If you're a dude using sex toys, i pitty you.
0 0 1 1Do you jack off?
Nope, but nice chest my man.
There are sex toys for both men and women. It's not creepy!
0 0 0 0You've got a point to be fair.
1 1 0 0High $$. High maintainence.
0 0 0 0Men aren't worried about a woman using toys, but women are terrified of men getting sexual gratification from anything other than pussy. Women realize that sex is the only thing they have to offer. They know they are soon to be replaced by sexbots. As soon as realistic sexbots are commercially available human women will find themselves starving on the street, desperately trying to trade a blowjob for a can of beans.
0 0 0 1We have lots of sex toys. It is weird and we like it that way.
0 0 0 0I have a fleshlight, love that thing.
0 0 0 0There is a definite stigma around straight men owning male sex toys (strokers, pocket pussies, etc), but there doesn't seem to be the same stigma around women owning female sex toys (vibrators, dildos, etc). When a women admits to owning a sex toy it's fine. When a man admits to owning a sex toy, they are viewed as perverted, creepy or lonely.
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