He lost interest cause you didn't give him what he was wanting or expecting. He did the 3 day/date challenge and once he saw he was getting no where with you, he left. Honestly he did you a huge favor, if he can loose interest that fast in woman then he was never truly interested to begin with and was only seeking sex anyways. Even if he did have sex with you, he could he still bounced out as soon as he got it. Let the ghoster drift off somewhere else, you'll find the right guy..
I sure as heck wouldn't have sex on the third date, but I would let him know when he can expect we'll be having sex together if we're still together at the time. I'd also be talking to him and be seeing him more frequently than once every two weeks. We'd be together a least every weekend. Maybe you need to be more proactive?
Probably. Or he's realizing it will take more effort to "get in there". Or he may have gotten to know enough about you, and he doesn't like you as much as he thought. Or he has other options and he's exploring them to find his best fit.
I look for a connection (mutual!) and momentum towards sex. If there is no momentum, then I don't want to waste a lot of time and energy on her.
I have lots of conversation on my dates, so we'll have talked about it by then, but I don't use an automatic 3-date cutoff.
Some guys do, though, especially if you don't talk about it and set other expectations. Guys don't want to be used for attention, free meals and entertainment anymore than women want to be used for sex.
Not sleeping with him after only 3 dates isn't wrong.
Did you at least cuddled/made out during those dates/3rd date?
If he stopped talking to you... then he was only there for sex... and didn't have feelings for you so you saved yourself from a heart break/wasting sharing yourself with him.
Yes, we cuddles and kissed. I think so as well, but the weird thing is that he didn't pressure me to have sex with him
You should have called him then if he was suppose to and didn't. Something could have happened (sick relative, etc) that he couldn't/got distracted. asking out/communication is a 2 way street. Don't expect the other person to make the first move... BUT if you ALWAYS have to do it... then something is wrong. The same way when a guy has to ask for sex from a GF/make the first move... I'd leave her... as it shows me that she's not really interested.
These are great truths. May the force be with you sister.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Two weeks? My guess is that he's lost interest.
most guys want a blowjob by the 3rd date for sure
I think he's moved on, and so should you. Sounds like the chemistry just wasn't there for him.
3 dates is not long at all.. If he's like that I wouldn't bother
Maybe he just wanted sex? Maybe he just isn't that into you. I don't pay any attention to the number of dates before sex. It doesn't mean anything. If he won't wait he isn't interested in you and you shouldn't have done it anyway. Try and Trust your instincts with this stuff.
Guys who want cheap and fast sex are like this, but most will stay and show interest for weeks. I wouldn't blame the sex right away either, maybe he got to know you and simply lost interest in general.
Men mainly lose interest because you're not interesting, I hate these dumb questions. Girls think they dump you because they think you're easy, that's what he might say because it's easier and kinder than saying you suck and aren't special.
Did you give him enough signs you like him?
We, guys are not that smart so we need clear signals
You said guys are not taht Smart to pick up signs when a lady likes them. Well I met guys who are like girls. They just give signs and hints and never comes forward, so what can you say about guys who are like that?
Yes, I'm kissing him, agreeing on dates, texted him...
Maybe text him and just ask how he's doing? I wouldn't ask for a date yourself, he doesn't deserve that. It looks like you did everything right tho
In my opinion he lost interest, but it's really hard to know for sure without knowing the person.
I wouldn't lose interest per se but I would question the fact of where this relationship is going but just because you're not having sex doesn't mean it's not going in the right it's just taking the long way to get there
I think he lost interest.
the guys told the truth. Thanks guys.
2 weeks is too long. He probably lost interest.
No tall guys are the same.
that particular one lost interest.
Do you think it's because I didn't have sex with him? He didn't pressure me or anything though...
It's impossible to tell because I don't know him. if it was sex you probably would have notice him pushing for it beforehand.
So you mean to say you made no contact with him for 2 weeks 😬
How come though?
Well I had sex on the 7th date (first time) and we've been together for over a year haha
If she sleeps w a guy on the third date just cuz it's the third date I lose all respect for her. Don't put a time requirement on your pussy. Just feel out the guy and take it case by case. Don't jump into bed cu of some arbitrary "rule."
I rather marry a girl first than have sex with her after getting married.
Only if I thought she was being cold to me and wasn't interested in me anymore. But otherwise, no, I would just try harder to get what I wanted.
He just wanted sex, yep. Good riddance
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