Good argument I probably have used that myself in the past. That does not make it valid. You don't want to get pregnant your first time having sex.
Sex is special with or without a condom. He is letting his little head do the thinking on this. Don't get pregnant until you are ready for children. The odds are too high to take the chance. Suppose you did get pregnant? Maybe you should ask him that question, sounds like no one else has. There are other methods of contraception. And yes it does feel better for him without a condom. But like one of my teachers in the past said, if you can get a hard on from your lady rubbing you through your jeans why do you think that a condom is a problem?
You need to find a huge condom to put over his whole body, cause he sound like a huge dick. Tell him no condom, no sex. If he pushes back, dump him, because he's totally selfish.
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If your man is saying that it "doesn't feel as good" he should not be getting to have sex with you in the first place. Sex feels good, regardless if you're wearing a condom or not. And your first time should be special, WITH THE CONDOM. Ask him if he wants to be a father. I bet that won't turn him on at all. If he refuses to wear a condom, run for the hills honey, cause that boy is not worth giving your virginity to. And he's had sex before. If he did this with a previous girlfriend (no condom), you're putting yourself at risk of contracting and STD. Always. Wear. A. Condom. Period.
You should do what YOU are comfortable with. It may not feel as good to him but it will be less than special to you if you're in your head worried about if you get pregnant instead of in the moment with your boyfriend and enjoying your first time.
If you've voiced these concerns then your boyfriend is kind of being selfish. You need to make him understand how you feel and if he can't see and can't respect your feelings then maybe you shouldn't be giving him your virginity.
Amen
He said if he uses condom then it won't feel special and it doesn't feel as good.
He wouldn't be as turned on with a condom on = he's controlling manipulative
ill-informed and doesn't care if he fucks up your life . shut him down .
he wears a condom or you dump him
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Only go for things you're both comfortable with.
Compromise. You get yourself on birth control pills AND he wears a condom. Take no chances!
Either that or do oral sex instead. It's better anyway! :)
I totally agree and you don't get pregnant from oral sex. :)
Condom, condom, condom, condom. Must. Non-negotiable.
You know what else doesn't feel good if he doesn't use a condom? Kids. Either he wears a condom or he doesn't get sex. Simple as that.
Yes, you should be very worried. If he wants you to run a pregnancy and STI risk because he doesn't want to have reduced sensation he's being selfish and inconsiderate.
He needs to respect that you want to wear one... if he can't even deal with that, a small thing on him during sex, then he is very immature. Also, birth control pills don't mess with your hormones. They regulate them, and can be very helpful with many things including acne, pregnancy of course, heavy periods, and irregular periods.
There are the other methods that are less talked about that can help reduce the chance of pregnancy. But they aren't cheap...
If you can't both be comfortable with sex then I don't think it's a good idea
There are lower dose pills with far fewer side effects. See your MD. unless you know the guy and his sex history really well you should still insist on a condom to protect yourself from STI's. There are ultra thins out there that make the diminished pleasure argument total rubbish.
The first time that I had unprotected sex with my husband was on our wedding night before that it was condoms all
Its your health, Is he concern just sex pleasure with you? That means he doesn't love or care you anymore. Try to prove his sexual health , for yourself not for him. If he ignore let him go.
Use a condom, while it may be true that it doesn't feel as good, tell him that he's not gonna be the one shoving out a baby. If he loves and cares for you then he will respect YOUR decision.
If you aren't comfortable having sex without a condom tell him you won't sleep with him unless he wears one. Or you could both look into different mothods of birth contol like the sponge
Yes, make him wear one. PERIOD.
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well it's either a condom or he getting a piece of you! God I can't believe some guys have the nerve to do that I swear.
Put your trust in yourself. Do what you're comfortable with not him. Don't trust he'll pull out or trust him to stay if you get pregnant.
Either u tell him to wear one unless he is ready to be a father then fine or just won't do it with him... he has to respect your opinions but since u told him u never had sex before he will keep telling u lies to make u believe everything he says which are totally untrue and until u give in.. in other words again he needs to respect your thought on condenser or u don't do it with him... unless he is ready to be father then let's do it w/o a condem
Does it feel better without? So much better. But don't let this kid. Dont let him fool you into letting him pull out. Just dont without a condom. Kids are great but not too early
Tell him no
Don't let him pressure u he should understand that there are somethings you aren't willing to do
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