Lesbian Sex Is Better, Men Aren't Needed Anymore?

[Anonymous]

I go to a liberal arts college. The article above was being spread all over my college. I'm all for LBGTQ rights, but honestly as a man I feel inadequate and useless.

I see this type of thinking from a lot of women in my college. And this isn't just lesbians. A lot of bisexual and even straight girls say that lesbian sex is better.

That on average women look better than men, vaginas smell better and are prettier than penises. You can choke on a penis. A strap on and dildo can replace a penis. A woman knows how to give a woman better orgasms than men. Most women are also bisexual and more liekly to be bisexual or lesbian. There are even studies that suggest that Straight women don't even exist.

There have been studies that show women can't get orgasms with penetration alone, and that lesbian couples have more orgasms than straight girls.

Most girls I know say lesbian sex is more intimate and sex with men is sweaty, grunty and gross. Even straight girls I know say Lesbian sex is better and more asthetically pleasing to them. Many women fake orgasms. I never heard fake orgasms from straight guys, or even gay guys.

I often ask myself what's the point of men and women then? Like How the fuck are they even compatible? It feels unfair, evolution fucked up, or God fucked up somewhere. I'm not trying to insult lesbians, they should do whatever makes them happy. But I just feel men aren't needed anymore. I just often feels what's the point when I am compteting with women and since generally speaking it seems women can fulfil everything a man can in the bedroom and in a relationship. At this point it seems women are better off being lesbians and men are better off being gay. I honeslty struggle with this and whenever I try to talk to someone about how I feel and my insecurities they think I'm being sexist or homophobic, I could use some advice. Sometimes I wish I was gay. I just don't feel men are losing their place.

[DarkWasTaken]

"10 reasons to change your sexual orientation"
What?

"Straight girls says lesbian sex is better"
What?

"You can choke on dicks"
You can choke on anything if you act stupid and do things you shouldn't do.

"A study suggest straight women don't exist"
Is it that same study that says that everyone is actually a bisexual deep down?
That's just a far fetched social generalization.

"women can't get orgasm from penetration alone"
That's a given for any human body, there's condition to be met for an orgasm to happen and a simple action isn't always gonna be the trigger.

"sex with men is sweaty, grunty and... gross?"
Alright who made that article seriously? That's one hell of a generalization.

I'll leave it here, but man you gotta stop believing everything you see or hear so easily.

[HGG3805]

Ok Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. But there is something magical that can happen if you put the two together. It has been happening for 1,000's of years. And yes it may not always make sense and is one of the mysteries of life but there are women that want to be with a man, and men that want to be with a woman. Strange as that might sound.
Last week my wife said that she needed me to be her protector now that both her parents have passed away. That I am the only person that understands her and she has no one else to turn to. I hope my shoulders are big enough for the responsibility, but I feel the same about her.

You think God fucked up? How about giving guys their sexual prime as teenagers+ and women reach their sexual prime about age 35+

[azzntittiz]

If you were close-by I'd fuck you on my birthday so you can snap out of this shit. Yes a lot of girls swing the other way but I don't think men will be replaced, we need you to do stuff for us okay?
Plus we feel kinds safe with you around, and whatever whatever, men are useful for something.
The girls who mostly orgasm with girls like myself have trouble doing it through penetration, men just have to find a way but it's not impossible.
Most girls are bi, but I think straight girls exist. Men have sperm, they are stronger, their brains are built for more complex thinking and they give us money. You are not useless, so don't turn trans.

[Asker]

Well I have no idea if we are close by or not but I never said I don't get girls, I do and I have but it just seems that most women I know have been with woman, or that more and more they start to prefer other woman over men. I'm saying it's harder not impossible. And most women in my university don't care about sperm

[bekkesmash]

That paints women as prostitutes.

[tinyclit]

Don't believe it. Not all women like women. At least some of us like men. And even in my case, whereas I do not do sexual intercourse or anal sex, I still like men and only men. I'm just an oral sex fan is all. Oral sex with my man, not with a woman! :)

[bekkesmash]

The women who like men are sexually attracted to them through non gender specific traits, so they can't really be considered heterosexual anyway.

[tinyclit]

@bekkesmash You're a guy and you don't know anything about me. Nothing at all.

[bekkesmash]

Are you sexually attracted to a man by looks alone?

[Laura_Marx]

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[Asker]

I'm confused what does this mean?

[Shadowlily]

I see what you did there. Pretty good way to fix the problem ;P

[CactusJuice]

Not sure why feel this way. Nothing you wrote was particularly convincing or even thought provoking. believe in yourself.

[Asker]

Becuase I hear it all the time from women in my college and each year more women are either bisexual or lesbian and straight girls seem to be less of a thing

[Underduress]

I have a lesbian, on off come around when she needs to feel dick girlfriend. She has absolutely no feeling for me she says and she on occasion needs to feel me in her and that filled sensation. She hates that I give her an orgasm where her girlfriend can’t. So there you have it; she can get her emotional sex from her girlfriend and come see me once in awhile when she needs man penis, assuming I am not preoccupied. So many of them might need you more than they let on.

[DinaM]

Is "whining about how all women are lesbians" the new guy thing or something?

[Asker]

I don't know to be honest. I'm just trying to express with ideas I am stuggling with and the stuff I constantly hear. But it comes from a place of a mixture of what my college proffesor said and what many on my campus think. Well I go to a liberal college so I know opinions there are different but scientist have also concluded the same in several studies so it's hard not to feel insecure

[Redheadmatch]

Omfg... lesbian sex may be better... for lesbians. Heterosexual women probs won't feel the same way. For gods sake, grow up!

[djkracka]

Dude number one you went to a liberal college there is your first mistake second mistake you listened to the bs that the liberals are trying to spread feminazis are not feminists they are nazis im all for feminism but this new radical form is dumb asf also if you are believing this stuff you need to up your pipe game man im not big in the pants and let me tell you after i do my job i usually get a few texts the next day from several of the girls friends asking me whats up for the weekend its been awhile since I've been in the game considering im busy with my buisness but im sure with 1 or 2 rounds ill be right back in the saddle dont listen to everytjing you hear because ill tell you this much most people dont know what the fuck they are talking about

[Emily_Frazer]

Never had sex with a girl but my boyfriend knows how to satisfy me, our sex is always amazing.

[Faith18letsgo]

I’m a bisexual sophomore.

I go to a liberal college. What are you good at?

I think theoretically yes but I’m guessing most women are still mostly having sex with men. Lesbian sex is better most of the time in my opinion. But there are things you can do to mimic those good things, cuddling, intimacy, long foreplay, giving head with her direct instructions.

I think women work harder on their appearance. You can also mimic that, good posture, clothes that fit, clothes that are tight in all the right places, lotion, chapstick. I don’t think any genitals are very pretty. Yeah I definitely wouldn’t bring up blow jobs. If she brings it up W, but then just tell her how good it was and wait for her to initiate that again. Strapons and penis’s don’t feel the same but it is nice that they can’t get you pregnant and are pretty unlikely to give you an STI. Read lots about giving girls good orgasms and ask for lots of guidance/instruction with each girl. Most women are more straight then gay. Yes men do have to compete with women, but y’all can rise to the occasion.

Definitely head and hand stuff is a good way to start not penetration. Be attentive the way women are.

Moan softly, make sure you’re clean and smell good, smile and say sweet things, men are capable of the same level of intimacy. Do not make your sex orgasam focused. Not “are you close” but “is this good”.

The main problem with men and women is the power dynamics, distrust, and resentment. Evolution wants matches that make babies, hence men and women. And women fucking women who also fuck men means kid is made and is raised with lots of people who care for it. Men who fucks men is just someone who’s not going to have a kid. Yes there are more people to compete with. Men are not needed but isn’t it better to be wanted then needed? Have you ever experimented with other guys? It might help you. Both because you might like it more then you expect or if you don’t you might understand what some women prefer about other women.

[Stacy77]

I'll stick to men with penises.

[QueenofCups]

Guys can be good at sex too.

[Asker]

They aren't saying guys are bad at sex, only that women are better , that's what I constantly hear

[QueenofCups]

Women are better sexters. I've never slept with a woman for real, so I don't know if they're really better or not.

[bekkesmash]

You sext with women? Please don't tell me you think you are straight.

[QueenofCups]

@bekkesmash sexuality is a continuum. Most people fall somewhere in the middle.

[bekkesmash]

Even the kisney scale which attempts to describe sexuality as a spectrum, accepts 0 or 6 as straight and homosexual. Studies have shown men have hard wired sexuality and can be straight (most are) while women have fluid sexuality and are all bisexual. At least you aknowledge you aren't straight.

[QueenofCups]

@bekkesmash I prefer men for real sex and women on the rare occasions I want to sext. Like I said, they tend to be better at it.

[bekkesmash]

So you are still bisexual.

[bekkesmash]

You prefer women for sexting because you are more aroused by the female body, which would make you closer to lesbian than straight.

[QueenofCups]

@bekkesmash I am bi, but the rest of what you said is not what I said.

[bekkesmash]

You are more aroused by the female body than the male body aren't you?

[QueenofCups]

@bekkesmash no. That is not true in my case.

[bekkesmash]

Like in a picture or video, I am sure a naked women arouses you more than a naked man.

[QueenofCups]

@bekkesmash never mind...

[bekkesmash]

I am right aren't I?

[QueenofCups]

Have a nice day, hon.

[bekkesmash]

I take that as "yes I am more aroused by the female body in pics and movies". Why else would you respond like this.

[DermalPunch]

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[simpleman20]

Well for lesbian sex from what I have read ladies know ladies want and they know what spot to hit but with us guys we do whatever we can to pleasure our ladies but for some reason I have read we either don't know what we are doing or we just don't know the spots like other girls do and unless u have a 9 in cock it will pleasure them than guys who has a 7 or 8 in cocks... it's the nature of the beast and of the world

[dwiller943]

For me, men just have to act right for me to interested in them.

[FunkyMonkee]

You can't make more potential lezzies without us!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Contrary to what gays/lesbians and bisexuals will tell you, most men and women are in fact straight, and you can't simply change your sexual preferences, you are born with them.

The reason that they even felt the need to write such an article, is probably because Kristen can't find another gay/bi woman at college that she likes, because of how rare homosexuality is, and she is now desperately trying to turn straight women gay, which is impossible.

[getrealnow]

It's just a trend because of all the social engineering, the media, liberal colleges etc. Don't worry women will remember how much they despise one another soon enough it can't last long hehe.

[asdfdude]

Time for you to get a sex change, then!

[Triggering]

Hell no

[AtomicMuseliBar]

Women can't become lesbian, they're born that way. You have nothing to fear lol

[Xaviers]

It's a freaking choice for some lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

@Xaviers it's not a choice, people who change from straight to gay and back were already bi.

[Browser101]

Learn from this. Penis doesn’t do as much as fingers, tongue, and tenderness. Your penis can’t massage her after a long day at work or truly listen to when she wants to be heard. Penis is such a small part and women can receive much more satisfaction from a lesbian relationship than one focused on your penis. Penis gives you way more pleasure than her. If you love her like a girl would, she will want to please you too.

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

Lmao hipster conservative?