I'm getting more and more obsessed with the idea of female domination in bed. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Since before I hit puberty I've been fantasizing about me being dominated, humiliated and used by women in a sexual manner. I am OBSESSED with the feet of women, I can literally be hypnotized into selling my property just by controlling me with feet. I can disregard all self importance when it comes to being dominated by a female. I want to be controlled and made to service my woman my whole life. But my girlfriend doesn't have any such desires, rather she likes me to fuck her brains out like a whore (her words). According to her I'm extremely good in bed, she says I satisfy her more than any of her ex's, and we've been in a relationship since 5 years. And till now I myself do not feel satisfied. Due to this unfulfilled fantasy, I am drowning deeper and deeper in porn... I've been a hardcore straight guy my whole life and now this addiction for more n more female domination porn content has made me start looking at cuckold porn (in which a girl humiliates her boyfriend by making him watch her get fucked by another guy, and probably even makes him lick her pussy after that). It's disgusting but in the heat of the 'moment' I keep watching it and actually get off on it. What should I fucking do to save myself before I ruin my own life? Help!

[badboy666]

Tell your girlfriend you have fantasies you'd love to act out with her, and in exchange you would will be glad to fuck her brains out like a whore.

But really this needs to be a two way street, and she should cater to your whims just the same as you will cater to hers.

Or, alternately (though this is a worst choice) tell her you are going to come all over her tits like the whore she is, then lick the cum off while fantasising about being forced to do so. Or sucking the cum out of her pussy, etc.

Though honesty would be better and more satisfying.

[Asker]

I need something slow to start with. If I did something like that, she would just start questioning everything she knows about the world and she'll probably slip into depression. It would be a trauma for her, in all seriousness. I need to slowly get her to that level.

[Asker]

To be honest I am also scared that if I push it too much, and she DOES accept my fantasies... What if it backfires and she gets used to it. This is not something i can figure out just by thinking it through, at some point i might need to 'act normal' again. I just need it as an occasional role play... But I'm afraid if that role play doesn't feel like in real life as it does in my fantasies, it might impossible to delete it from her mind as well.

[TheDolphinofDeath]

First off, there's nothing unusual about being into femdom. I'm into femdom too. Seeing as you've been together 5 years, you have the level of trust to be able to talk frankly about it. Tell her how you feel, how important these desires are to you and that it's something you'd like to try together. Tell her how much it would mean to you. Explain to her that you have your own desires too, not just her.

[Asker]

I have, and she understands... By which i mean she would sometimes 'let me' feel a little inferior by 'ordering me' to kiss her thighs or something. This is her version of being dominating. Yeah, I want at least 50 times more than that. And expecting her to even come close to understand what I need, not happening. She's too sweet for that.

[TheDolphinofDeath]

That's trickier.. But still, if you're straight with her, and tell her something like "don't worry about going too far" surely...

[Asker]

I've even showed her a little bit of the kind of porn i watch. Not the cuckoldry or humiliating ones, but a little hard facesitting and femdom ones. She didn't seem like she got hot from watching it. FML.

[TheDolphinofDeath]

She doesn't need to. If you do something you don't find amazing for her pleasure, she should be willing to do the same for you.

[Cammy137]

Get your girlfriend involved, man. My girlfriend is a Domme and I have never had better sex in my whole life

[Femdomworld]

Men should have to serve women permanently as slaves