Why does my boyfriend always get horny and get "hard" when he's with me?

Why does my boyfriend always get horny and get "hard" when he's with me? We would cuddle and kiss and then he would just get a boner/hard on.. and then we end up having sex Are all guys like this with their gfs? Or with ANY girl? Does this mean he's really attracted to me? Is this a good or bad thing?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It happens with my boyfriend pretty often. To begin with, just holding hands got him hard. If he's never been with someone, it'll be a lot more than other men. Now its not as often, but kissing, cuddling, or touching his thigh seems to do it for him. It depends on the guy, but it does happen. It means he's sexually attracted.

  • He is very physically attracted and aroused by you. Isn't that a good thing?

    • it is a good thing, right now I am hard

Most Helpful Guys

  • A few things:
    He is very attracted to you. He's into you. He cares for you. In some cases, which this one sounds like, arousal can often be a way to express and show love to one's significant other. It's primitive of us to do this.

  • Yeah, that's standard male programming right there. Think of his dick as attraction meter, the harder it is the more he wants you and is attracted to you.

    • Lol is that true😂

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  • Well if you enjoy sex and want him to be sexually attracted to you, then it's a good thing

  • Its a good thing no I guess he really loves u

    • *and I guess

  • Of course it means he's attracted to you. And yes it's good (if you are as well). And it's normal. I have never not got hard with my girl next to me.

  • Where's the common sense?

  • You can't be that stupid that you don't understand that surely?

    • Im stupid coz im asking these questions? Wtf.. im a female.. i dont know whats going on a guys head.. geez

    • It's simple... He's sexually attracted to you

    • Yea it is stupid lol you should be asking if he didn't get a Bonner when kissing. If he gets a Bonner he's obviously attracted to you. Guys are simple creatures!

  • Yes to all your questions. If he wasn't you should be worried.

  • Dont worry, it is normal 😉

  • Oh LOL. I thought he was just getting them from being with you. During kissing and cuddling is completely normal,.

  • How young is this boyfriend of yours? Because it sounds like he's 14 and you are his 1st & No we are not all like that

    • Lmfaooo we are older than you 😂 sit down mate 😂👊

  • Do you like fucking him? Then its a good thing.

    • Ofcourse i do

    • Then its a good thing :)

  • Probably because you might be very sexy?

  • Thats good thing it means he's attracted to u girl. U would want him getting hard around other girls

    • Do guys get hard by any girl?

  • How is this a question youd possibly not know...
    Does it breathe fire would be better...

  • You should feel bad if he doesn't!

    • Why?

    • He is really attracted to you. What's bad in it? There is trouble when you are around and there is no bone Dear. It means he doesn't find you that attractive. It also depend how new your relationship is.

    • Enjoy the love

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  • It's a good thing it won't last forever

    • It won't last forever?

    • Well yeah it just means you excite him a lot. Like a happy dog. When your older though sex is like ice cream it looses flavour

  • Nice questions

  • All guys are like that

  • It's a good thing xD

  • Its not bad. His "friend" tried to said to you that you is the best.

  • If that's the case then the reason is he lusts u not loves u