Nobody can make anyone do anything if they don't want to. Ever tried to get a stubborn small child to eat something they don't wanna? Good luck. But if you don't enjoy swallowing cum, then your selection in guys may be limited. In my experience all the best guys, the ones you want to attract, will want you to enjoy it and won't consider you to be marriage material if you don't. Why in the world would a girl not want to swallow cum anyway. Don't over think it. It's just water, some proteins, sugars, vitamins and minerals. There's nothing in there not to like. It's even low cal. It's literally made to be swallowed. Not liking the taste or the texture is silly and childish. If that's the case, if you think you don't like it, the solution for that is to swallow more often, not less often. Don't just roll over and give up right away after the first few swallows. Keep right on going. Swallow every time. Continue swallowing every time and you'll very quickly get used to the taste and texture. It will cease to be an issue, you can start enthusiastically enjoying it, you'll be much happier and of course so will he. :)
It's a turn on because of porn.
In a normal man's mind , no where else apart from the vagina should be the best place. Other wise he has obviously got problems because the woman won't get pregnant.
Simple.
If you don't like something. Don't do it.
We know it's not normal, that's why it's attractive. The woman in this case is doing something at least vaguely disgusting (oral sex itself comes under this), because of how much she's attracted to/loves the man.
@SashaTheBiochemist but shouldn't the man want to ejaculate inside the woman biologically ... makes sense
There is not enough difference between the sensation of oral sex and vaginal sex for the male body to distinguish between the two. Thus the only reason a man wouldn't want oral sex but would want vaginal sex would be a disgust for oral sex or a desire to produce children. All the basic components of the sexual anatomy of humans predate oral sex. To a penis biologically, any warm, wet place is like a vagina.
Spit. I've been with two guys. One I didn't swallow, my current one I do.
I guess it turns them on because they feel like they like dominance. Also if you wanna get biological, they want to see their sperm in you xD I don't know.
She could just stop as he starts to cum and continue jerking him off. It just feels nicer if shd continues giving a bj through the orgasm. There's also an attraction to cumming into someone and a girl that swallows can be a real turn on for a guy. If you don't like the taste get him to drink lots of pineapple juice or eat pineapple
Depends on the guy. I personally don't care at all.
So you wouldn't mind it if she spit it?
Not at all, if you don't like it, you don't like it. Simple as that. I can understand a little bit how the actual act of spitting it out could be a turn off, (kind of like you think we're "gross" so it's hard not to take that personally kind of), but no if you don't like it, I don't expect you not to spit it out lol. It would be all in how you do it. And if she swallows, it does nothing for me either way (not a turn on or off) but I've heard the people that do find it a turn on (women to) that it's very intimate and they feel closer to the person.
Yeah I know that it's a very intimate act and I can understand if a guy feels bad if a girl spits it out but it's not it's like it's chocolate syrup lol it's cum. I don't think guys should take it so personally. If a girl is willing to swallow then that's good but if she's not, then I don't think they should take it personally.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What should she do then? Don't give a blowjob. To me, I just don't like the mess. I'm not a fan of gross stuff.
I agree. It's gross and I don't understand this either.
I was with a girl for a long time who simply did not want to swallow my cum and I respected her wishes. she always let me cum in her mouth though and when I was done ejaculating she would move up to give me a kiss and give my sperm back to me. I was fine with that.
I always thought it was easier than pulling out and getting it all over the girls face.
They like the bige cumes
Seriously tho it's a sign of submission and dudes like that
Its a thing turning us on, we for sure enjoy it and its a nice view
Why is it a turn on?
Hard to explain, basically works like with licking a pussy. You would be turned on if he would lick it all, all the parts/
Yeah but swallowing cum is a different thing lol.
It's kind of like a turn on to see them selling something that came from you. It's also nice to know they like (or can tolerate) Your taste.
i consider that if girl want to swallow then let her swallow else dont force her...
It isn't a turn on for me at all. I think guys like it due to the influence of porn showing it all the time.
She better swallow it or else
No she shouldn't
Because it feels fucking amazing have the cum sucked out of your cock. And spitters are quitters...
Bj me and I won't even cum in your mouth
its just what girls like
Porn results.
If you don’t like just tell him.
Porn results?
Most of wired behaviors come from watching porn.
So guys really don't get any pleasure out of it? They're just like "well that's how people do it in porn so that's how she'll have to do it" ?
It looks so good. And guys think if she does that she realy trust and loves the guy. I don't know why but If I see that it's such a hot thing and a different feeling
Firstly, It feels great to cum while she continues to suck..
Secondly, if feels more dominant for a guy to have a girl swallow his cum..
And thirdly, i prefer she swallows it rather than having to clean the mess..
Thats my opinion😉
If you don't like the taste dribble it out
I personally find that sexy
to feed her with some good proteins.
A woman swallowing is a very intimate experience that she would accept your semen in that way. However a woman spitting it out I find to be fun also. It is kind of like saying "this is taboo and we really shouldn't be doing it". So either way is fine. I'd say ask the guy first if it is OK if you spit it out.
I guess for me personally. Its her way of saying I want it in me just not in there yet cause we arn't ready for kids. I've never forced her to do it she has always done it voluntarily.
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