Do you agree with the above? What are qualities and traits do you think are the MAIN attractors for both men and women?
Men use their status, success, and confidence to attract women, and women use their appearance and showcase their maternal nature to attract men?
What Girls Said 13
Disagree. I think men think that's what they should use, and women think that's what they should use. I think when you know who you are and what your values are, you tend to use that to attract people more often than not.
The whole point of attraction is that you want to attract people to you that fit into a sincere vision of how you want to live your life, and so if a man does not place value money and titles, why would he use that to attract someone? likewise, if a woman is not vain why would she rely only on her appearance? It's important to know I've met many wealthy men that never talk about their status and I've met absolutely drop dead gorgeous women who never wear make up and both can have 1 million charms that have nothing to do with their appearance or status. It's about what you want.3
Hmmm... that doesn't apply to me. I think I use my... weird sense of humor more than anything. As for appearance- generally, both sexes want to look good.3
Generally speaking, yes, I agree with what you stated. But I believe many men I know seek a woman who is just as successful and confident as they are. A woman who knows how to hold herself together, is considered as attractive rather than intimidating. I personally also find it rather attractive to see a man with maternal/nurturing characteristics and believe that many men care to look goid to attract the opposite sex.3
I am attracted to a man who matches me morally, ethically and has a similar level of work ethic.3
Intelligence and emotional intelligence and a good IQ from a man or a woman is what wants to be in a relationship with them immediately.1
I don't know how true this is. All I care is that they're getting life together and they're a good person.
I don't attract guys who want relationships so who cares about my maternal instincts?1
Both use personality and looks...1
I don't care about what they got. I care about who they are on the inside.1
Women don't show maternal nature if it shows it shows1
What Guys Said 22
Agree to some extent. But you need to add in attractiveness and personaliy for both genders.
The total package for attraction is like a pie chart, take any slice away completely and you won't have a whole pie. You can change the sizes of each slice, depending on what you personally value more, but you still need every part.2
Young women sell on looks and fertility, and are looking for resources and security.
Young men sell on resources and security, and are buying the looks and fertility.
Of course, in reality, it gets more complicated but that's the basic premise.2
Women with confidence and upbeat personalities are more attractive than others. I have seen such women attract every guy around while dressed in tshirt and jeans while women without the confidence and personality need to go overboard on looks to get half as much attention.
But you won't believe this till you see it irl.0
Women like strength. Men like boobs.2
More or less yeah.1
I would say yes1
I have a 1 bedroomed flat, low wage job and I'm not massively confident... I use my looks, intelligence and wit to attract women.0
The hallo effect has to do a lot with it.0
Yeah you are right.0
Men use what they have to get sex. Women use sex to get what they want1
Actually it isn't what we should this is what we have done for centuries you showing these qualities without knowing, even animals do it0
No , I don't agree.0
usually people are attracted to somebody with their own traits. like if you have an outgoing, energetic, athletic, and comedic personality, you're most likely gonna be attracted to that same list of traits you have in another person cuz nobody is gonna be attracted to the total opposite person of themselves0
You are definitely not wrong.
But Here are the formulas how men and women attract each other.
Men attract women by: Being tall, good looking, muscular, having a fancy car and making big money.
Women attract men by: Being young and not fat.
I know. It's not fair but we can choose to either deal with it or bitch about it.
The rest of us0
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Both genders use their looks only.0