Guys, would you ghost a girl after you she told you she was a virgin?

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Being_a_good_Indian · Accepted Answer

Honest Opinion.

It would be one of the criteria for decision.

A woman’s worth is the totality of who she is. We are more than our bodies. We are more than our age or beauty. We are more than our sexual allure. A truly empowered woman knows how to love herself and love another, completely. Her heart has no limits. Her choices have no limits.

A woman’s worth is measured by a life fully expressed. The courage to be her own person and create her own vision of life — regardless of what society says.

In life, there is evolution; the evolution of new ideals and greater options. Each decade creates more choice, extending the realm of who we are and what we can be in the world.

An original life is one that walks against the crowd. The rules of society are broken — not in defiance, but in the need to create new rules that allow for greater expansion and growth.

We are free to create a new definition of our worth, one thought at a time. We are free to enter all professions and follow all of our dreams. We are free to see ourselves through a wider lens that captures the totality of our being. And we are free to love the person we want regardless of age, gender, race or economic standards. The freedom to love should know no boundaries. The barriers that limit love are crumbling in our expansion.

As women continue to see themselves as powerful, deserving and worthy, they enjoy a greater participation in all the world has to offer.

As long as we live our truth and express our lives fully, there’s no limit to our worth. We are servants only to our dreams... not to society’s expectations. To live in complete freedom is to live the life we choose. Without limitation, shame or justification. The freedom of choice — to be who we came here to be, pursue our dreams, and love whomever we choose to love. To know our value exists far beyond the parameters of social determinants. To see ourselves in the big picture of life and live the big version of whom we are, already.

Still I am happy Single and No plans to Mingle in near future.
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philipph · Accepted Answer

I would hug her, look in her eyes, tell her she is fully ok the way she is, then thank that she is careful with her body and kiss her forehead.

ZaraMohammed · Accepted Answer

I ain't no guy butttt why will I ghost something that's solo pure and untouched and someone I can teach? If I am with this girl and she's great as in personality and she a virgin too? Amma wife that hands down... Amma put a ring on it and be like no bitches she's mineeee... again that's me...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

But if she's a virgin doesn't that mean she is less likely to cheat? I mean if she could keep it and live without sex for a time then it means she can stay without it when you are not there for any reason.

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

Although ghosting is just plain rude, I think some will. but that's a good thing. Nobody is wasting anyone's time if there is a perceived lack of compatibility.

MrOracle · Answer

Whether or not a girl is a virgin has never been important to me. As long as she was willing to have sex with me, her virginity is/was irrelevant.

windknowsmyname · Answer

Nooooooooooooo! Hell no! she's a keeper.

goddess87 · Answer

Wow no. No man in his right mind would do unless he waited for you forever and you still never had sex

babykyyyy · Answer

i feel like a lot of guys actually get more turned on knowing they have the potential to take a girls virginity

Pyrofox · Answer

Yes, the needy attachement issue that is often added onto the idea of being a virgin is probably is what is giving him bad signals. As for women and girls loosing their virginity often comes with a lot of chemicals and emotions that guys often. Dont want to be apart. of as its in the catagory of what could be called "baggage."

(I'm being honest here not trying to cut corners.)

snowshy · Answer

I haven't been ghosted for it but I've had guys freak out over it which is a turn-off

Johnbadman · Answer

Nope but it does give you certainty when going all the way with this girl in my opinion.

lainee12 · Answer

i'm not a guy, but if you really like her then ghosting her because she is willing to share a part of her innocence with you is messed up.

Dustmop · Answer

I would never date a virgin girl or guy again.

MackFreeze · Answer

I want to wait for marriage so I would do the complete opposite!!!

OlderAndWiser · Answer

At my age, if a girl told me that she was a virgin, she would either be a nun or she would probably be making a joke. However, I have never ghosted anyone and I even break up in person if I have had at least three dates with a lady. That is just the respectful thing to do.

loveout · Answer

It makes no sense to ghost her for that reason.

Zer0Ghost · Answer

Personally? No. Would someone? Yeah

rafaelalmada240 · Answer

I don't ghost people even if they were just a one night stand. So I don't see why I should ghost her. If anything considering most men, they would probably give her too much attention

Barrabus_the_Free · Answer

Only if she said she was waiting for marriage, or said something else that basically meant I wasn't going to be able to fuck her.

Definitely · Answer

My fiancee was a virgin before we met and I had no problem with that. As a matter of fact, I prefer someone like that because it tells me that she is actually a serious person, rather than one that would just sleep around with others. It tells me about her personality, it tells me that she knows what she wants, it tells me that she prefers a man for his qualities rather than his "performance".
So no, I wouldn't leave a girl that is virgin. Whoever does that is not in love with that girl.

hunterzoloman655 · Answer

No it doesn't matter to me as long as she loves me for me that's all that matters

normalice · Answer

Depends on context. If she seemed interested in dating, I probably wouldn't "ghost" her, but I would make it clear that I wasn't interested in dating her, and I would make a conscious effort to avoid doing anything that might be perceived as flirting.

The thing is, usually if a girl tells you she is a virgin, it means she intends to remain that way. I'm too old for a sexless relationship.

TheIceCreamQueen · Answer

If they're a little bitch then yeah

someho · Answer

Umm it would turn them on, it would boost their ego if they were able to make a girl lose it WITH them.

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