Does having sex outside of a relationship make you a bad person?

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*not cheating on your SO, just having sex without being in a relationship
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HEY. By outside of a relationship, I meant NOT IN A RELSTIONSHIP PERIOD
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  • If your not in a relationship, no its not something that will make you a bad person. However it is unhealthy as the more partners you have the more likely you are to cheat, divorce (1% chance with 1 partner, 16% chance with two etc.) be unhappy in long term relationships and even increases the probability of finding sex unsatisfying. Its not healthy but its not a morality issue. I equate sleeping around with being morbidly obese, your not evil, your not bad but your also not healthy either and it is kind of repulsive to a degree.

  • Marriage or at least a committed relationship is what I consider a requirement. So yes, outside of that it makes you a bad person (by your own choice), in MY opinion. I know I am in the minority given the generational difference.

    • Why do you believe it makes someone a bad person?

    • It would take a very long time to explain. And you’d have to want to understand. As for now, you asked a yes/no question and I gave you an answer.

    • I'm asking for comprehension

Most Helpful Girls

  • Making a choice about your own body and sexual expression holds absolutely no moral weight one way or another. Doesn't make you a good person or a bad person.

    Only thing that makes you a bad person when it comes to sex is doing something that hurts another person - sexual assault, harassment, cheating, etc. Which as you said, isn't the topic of your question.

  • No. You're not a bad person. As long as you are safe and know what you want then you're perfectly fine. Live your life the way you want. Peace and love baby.

  • No but spreading STD's around and being irresponsible about it, does.

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  • If that's what you want to do don't be in a relationship.

  • absoloutely not if you want to fuck single guys go for it aslong as you explain your just in it for sex cheating however does make you a bad person and yes i know you mean if your single

  • if you think it's ok for your partner to do also, then it's ok... some people ask for a period during a relationship, and would go fuck around but later be angry if their partner does same ! that's bullshit otherwise no worries

    • I'm talking about when you're single

    • I know ! when you both are single, if it's ok with you that he does the same then you're on the right route !

  • If you are single there is no story

  • no it doesn't

  • Nope

  • I don't care if people think I'm bad. I don't think it's bad. I don't do relationships anyways friends with benefits is the way

  • No. I wish that you had that in the description, haha.

  • Nope

  • No at all... exploring your likes and dislikes... enjoying yourself

  • Causal sex does exist whether it's a one night stand or other. It doesn't make you a bad person in anyway, others may see it differently but what matters is how you see it as.

  • Depends.
    How did it happen?

    • *not cheating on your SO, just having sex without being in a relationship Oh, well, no.

    • what is the difference then having sex outside the relationshop and that is not cheating?

  • No but I wouldn't date a woman who did that.

    • How come?

    • Don't feel comfortable committing to a woman that has casual sex. I can and did do better.

  • I don't know about bad person but bad SO for sure. Unless it's allowed

  • Yeah cheaters are pieces of shit i have more respect for thieves and gang bangers

  • your question is not clear. you have a boyfriend and have sex with another guy? or you have no relationships and just have hookups...

    • I explained in the updates

    • well if you are not in relationship the word cheating is not approriate. the word cheating is used when you are commited to someone, so obvously in a relationship. if you are on a brake... or broken up... there is no cheating. unless agreed otherwise with SO in case of short break (wich is dumb in my opinion but happens)

    • I never said anything about cheating. Other people did.

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  • No but it still means you cheated!

  • As long as you are being safe and both agree. No

  • Nothing wrong with it. Its probably better to enjoy yourself now, so that when you do end up in a relationship, you don't feel like you're missing out.

  • I won't judge

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