GUY SAYS HE WANTS TO CUDDLE WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?

[laurenheart]

So I'm a senior in Highschool and I've never dated anyone let alone kissed anybody and this boy who was in a few of my classes and I kinda had a crush on admitted to me recently that he had a crush on me too last year, he was hugging me and joking around and stuff in class last year but I was dumb and didn't know what that meant, because again I have 0 experience with talking to guys and I thought it was maybe just a way of wanting to be friends or something? I'm an idiot. Anyways so he started skyping me first with his group of guy friends and then by himself, always late at night. The chats generally consisted of goofing off listening to memes, etc, and he would sometimes call me cute. He would also text me late at night saying he wants to cuddle and that he misses me (but at 1 am) and obviously I kept responding that there was literally no way to go to him even if I wanted to because he keeps texting so late. So here's when it gets weird. Last night we skyped for a bit late at night and had casual conversation, he said he wishes he had someone to cuddle with and said I should come over (again I coudn't because it was way late) he even admitted that he had a dream about me. I asked about it and he said reluctantly that we dud more than cuddling in it. I kinda laughed it off but I'm honestly really confused. Does he just want to be with me for sex? Is he just really horny at night and looking for somebody to say yes to talk to? Or does he actually care about me? Keep in mind that I actually really like him but I'm really not into having a relationship if its just about sex. ALSO it gets even more complicated because he briefly dated my old friend for a while before he said she just "ignored him" even though I saw them alone together on his snapchat a few days ago. He claims he's not dating anyone. So maybe he's only talking to me because she's not responding so easily? Please Help!!

[georgespr]

ur in a situation girl. the late night calls unfortunately are probably 4 sex if he's not doing it all day. if a guy generally likes u its not going 2 be just late at nite or on social media. he honestly tries. its not a bad thing 2 be inexperienced in situations or sextually. its nice but onley if it means something. at least 2 me. keep ur selfworth ur a good find. any man should be happy 2 have u

[Matt-G]

Sex is just sex dude, feelings matter sex really doesn't. Clearly you haven't talked to him about your feelings, even though he's showing feelings for you too. At 18 he knows as little about sex as you do and probably wants to try it, horniness is like a function of puberty it doesn't make you or him "bad". Deal with your feelings, if you have sex so what.

[Elliegirl]

He likes you, babe. Maybe you should talk to him early and hint that you want him to ask you out. Don't read too much into his dream. Sex dreams are normal, but you should definitely make some time to cuddle.

[ogg996]

That kid dont care about nothing but sticking his little weiner in something. Not worth your time

[SnapTsch]

Dont fall into it
He is playing you
For him cuddling is a cute Segway to sex.
You'll regret it, please don't.

[Matt-G]

Wow have you posted her a ring? How many times does she have to refuse cuddles before she qualifies for a cyanide ticket to your space ship? Kreepy fucker!

[SnapTsch]

Are you alright? Or trying to be white knight when there isn't even an issue?

[SnapTsch]

@Matt-G She has already said that she doesn't want it if its just about sex. Read the entire post before posting your brain farts here and accusing someone of being a creep.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

why don't you ask him?

[phaggot]

HE WANTS TO TOUCH YOU OH MAH GAAWD

[onebadword]

Just a nice way if saying he wants to get u naked and hopefully score.. it's like a 50/50 chance. . us it's time to actually be sensual to you and get that much closer to each other