Why does my boyfriend ask if im okay often during sex?

Me and my boyfriend been having sex for months now And whenever we have sex, he always ask me "are you okay baby?" During sex He ask me this often Why does he ask this often? Do all guys do this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Its just his concern about you. he cares n don't want to hurt you. maybe he is sensing that u r in little pain because of your reactions. or he thinks that sex is always little bit painful for girls.
    If you try to show some more signs that you enjoying sex like sexy words or tell him how good it feels maybe he will stop worrying about it.

  • Unlike my boyfriend when I try to get it out he push it even further

  • Because he want you to feel good and he to represent well

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you are new to sex then he wants to make sure your not in pain.
    I know that I ask that occasionally because I am not a small guy. 6' 3" and 300lbs. So I try and keep myself lifted off her but I don't always and it has to be weird having someone lay on top of you while they fuck you.

  • Impaling another human being with a part of yourself, can be quite unnerving. So when you're reeling with the feeling, a moan, gasp, basically her sounds. Are all you have to gauge, yourself. Try communication during sex, tell a grown man what you want

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  • Nope we all dont but at times ya depending on the situation... well for " those"" who ain't trushy aaaand just hitting anything that moves

  • What a sweetheart, marry that gentleman.

  • Most of us do it probably. And what do you mean why? Because he wants to know if you're okay. Lol why else would he ask it?

  • he probably asks because he cares about you a bit too much. He wants to go "further", because that's what he's into, but is afraid that this isn't something you like. Tell him that you think it's annoying and maybe he will cut it down...

  • Nah. Thats ok. Some guys do this to make sure if the girl isn't getting hurt or something. It is cute!

  • Sounds like you are not giving enough feedback so he is trying to figure you out.

    • Yeah... sounds to me lack of communication. I don't think I've been asked that unless it was my first time. Perhaps just be a bit more open with each other in bed. Just enjoy being silly, that's what sex is all about. 😆😆

  • Maybe he thinks he's hurting you? Sounds like he has a big penis.

  • Maybe your sex face looks like you're in pain

  • He just wants to make sure he’s not hurting you. I do the same thing... I mean we are thrusting something inside someone so we want to make sure it’s all going good...

  • No, that's weird...

  • Maybe you sould like someone is clobbering a seal.

  • he trying to make sure you like it or not.

  • He is looking for feedback. To know if what he is doing is making you feel good.

  • Do you just lay there like a dead dog 😂😂😂😂

    • No i dont. I softly moan here and there

  • He, s a considerate lover, I dont lol

  • Most likely seems like you’re in pain in his eyes

  • He does that to make sure that you are okay or not.
    In short, he don't want you to get hurt

  • Your probably doing something unattractive

  • He asks you this because he has no idea what you're feeling as he enlarges your interior reproductive system. He only hears you making bodily sounds with your mouth, which in other cases implies pain or discomfort. If he asks, it is his way of being considerate. Sex is no fun if it involves pain.

  • Nah.. He's just a bit insecure maybe.

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