How to tell if the guy I am talking to has a daddy kink?

[kitty9089]

Hello everyone, so I have been speaking to this guy for around 5 months. I have a daddy kink myself and I would like to know if maybe he had one as well. He is two years older than me. We have had sex and I have met his family. I really like him and I think he likes me. During sex he sometimes chokes me, and takes the lead. He has also called me babygirl, sexy, little one, little boy (i call him little girl) and has been shortening my name. There was also one time where we were biting eachothers fingers to the point where it hurt really bad, but he initiated it and we both had very visible bite marks on our fingers. I've also called him daddy while sending him nudes and he obviously likes it by saying 'I wanna fuck you'. He always takes the lead and always gives me kisses and cuddles and rolls my joints for me. Can someone please gives me signs if he is into it or commenting on the things I have said, how to tell and how to tell if he wants me to act like it more. Thank you

[Zebadee88]

Once you are having sex YouCan call him douche bag and it won't stop him banging you. Guys can be shallow. Just tell him you want to roll play. Pretty sure he will.

[kitty9089]

no, daddy kink is not roleplay.

[Zebadee88]

How is it different?

[kitty9089]

role play is when you act a certain way. having a daddy kink comes natural and is sort of a lifestyle. read about it.

[Zebadee88]

Sorry. Don't believe pretending your girl is your daughter is a lifestyle.

[kitty9089]

no. you don't pretend your girl is your daughter. read about it please and stop being immature.

[Zebadee88]

Oh. So daddy link is simply a dominant role male. So why call of daddy kink for fucks sake.

[kitty9089]

yes it is, but im not even going to explain it because you obv dont get it

[anonyettas]

Be straight up and ask him if he likes it.. maybe start off by saying something like " i like it when you call me babygirl, do you like being called daddy?"

[kitty9089]

but i'm just not sure of the right time

[anonyettas]

In person when he calls you baby girl, you could be like i like that then ask ☺

[kitty9089]

yes that is a good idea, but is it me or is it easier to talk about those things on social media

[anonyettas]

It's easier on social media lol bc you dont see the reaction and you can think of what to say next

[kitty9089]

but im shy its just a bit hard for me to say those kinda things, i neeed the right moment

[anonyettas]

I get you, I'm shy too just have to find the day when you're feeling a little more confident

[kitty9089]

yeahhh, but i feel he does, i mean when i called him daddy at first he would have replied with wtf or something if he didn't want me to call him that right?

[anonyettas]

Yeah he would've said something, it seems like he's into it

[kitty9089]

i really hope he is

[Samurrr]

If he calls you daddy its clearly a sign

[kitty9089]

No i call him daddy lmao

[Samurrr]

Ok im stupid lol im tend to turn off my brain while listening to music and writing :) well i guess you ask him? 'Do you like when i call you daddy' or smh

[kitty9089]

while im sending him nudes tho, but what kind of hints do boys drop to show they have a daddy kink, we are both shy, or any sort of kink

[Samurrr]

i dont do the daddy stuff but i think he'll go harder and choke you when you call him daddy

[kitty9089]

does it turn boys on?

[Samurrr]

I would say, yeah

[kitty9089]

how can i tell if he's into it?

[Samurrr]

Ask him, i dunno

[Insanyx12]

Yup he's definetly into that

[kitty9089]

what makes you sure?

[Insanyx12]

he's Dominant and male he's one of thosr

[Insanyx12]

E...

[kitty9089]

but just because he's dominant and male doesn't mean he has a daddy kink? or does it?

[Insanyx12]

I think so but if you don't that's ok too

[kitty9089]

no but i would love it if he had a daddy kink, but how can i tell if he does?

[Insanyx12]

Well what do you call him during sex?

[Insanyx12]

Does he make you call him daddy or something?

[kitty9089]

well i don't really say anyything im shy lol, im gonna say daddy next time we have sex tho and no he doesn't i call him daddy when im dirty talking with him online

[Insanyx12]

Yup he is in happy for you

[Insanyx12]

I gtg tk❤️

[kitty9089]

thank you for the advice!

[Anonymous]

Ask him

[kitty9089]

But that kind of question is awkward...:3