Do girls actually enjoy Anal?

[RayhanRoy]

Well I've been in many relationships and we had sex and we did include anal ( I don't actually ask for anal, it's generally the girl who asks for it. Kinda weird though ). The girls seem to enjoy it but for some reason deep inside I feel like that shit just hurts ( Well it actually hurts because umm my thing is little too big ) Still I don't know. So any girls out there who'll care to help me out?

[Anonymous]

Some do, some don't.

There's plenty of reasons physically to enjoy it. There are nerve endings there to be stimulated and the "g spot" (yes it's real) can be stimulated from a different angle then through vaginal sex. The g spot supposedly is made of the same type of tissue as the male prostate.
There's also plenty of reasons not to. Anal Tares and fissures are a real concern. Infection from not washing in between acts or using a condom. Guys not using enough lube or not adding more will make it hurt. And then there's the over anxious guys (jerks) that think in that moment it should be just like the porn they saw and start pounding away. Sorry guys we are not professionals and we don't keep numbing gel on hand in advance for this 😒
plus I think every girls fears pooping lol I know it's not part of your question but I'll put the info here so if any girl was wondering here it is. the chances of that happening are very slim. The rectum does not store poop. It's stored in the colon until it's ready to be passed, it moves into the rectum then you feel the urge to go. as long as you make sure you don't have to poop about an hour before hand you should be fine. If your extra worried about it being sparkly clean about 8-10 ounces of plain warm water will rinse out any little bit that might be in there. Plus he knows what your butt is for, it's not a secret. If he gets a tiny bit on him it's not like he didn't know it was a possibility.

[RayhanRoy]

Thanks for the opinion 🤗

[Opinion Owner]

I seen the other comments, lube is important! Use a lot of it, then add some more lol in my experience there's lots of them made specifically for this but I prefer natural coconut oil for anything sexual where lube is needed. You can get it at the grocery store and it tastes delicious 😋

[RayhanRoy]

Thanks for the help 🤗

[MercySoleil]

Yess, coconut oil (unrefined).

[kikikat95]

Then how do u explain me feeling something in my rectum when I tried fingering myself LOL

[Opinion Owner]

@kikikat95 there's a chance it was poop but that stimulation should of made you feel the urge to go and eliminate it. If not what you felt was probably the wall of the rectum itself. Your intestines feel (to the touch) much like your vagina with bumps and groves.

[kikikat95]

Nah it was definitely poop because I forced myself to poo afterwards but after I pooed I still felt more poo so I guess I didn't eliminate it all I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

@kikikat95 I feel you had to force it you probably need a change in diet to include more fiber and water or stool softener.

[kikikat95]

Yeah wel I mean I just didn't feel the need to poo so I forced the feeling of that makes sense you know when u gatta poo but it doesn't come out? It wasn't like that situation it was like I didn't need to poo but I did? I don't know lol

[CoffeePossum]

I think it depends on the girl, i would never do anal (find it really disguisting) but if you stretch her out enough she can start enjoying it.

[RayhanRoy]

Thanks for the opinion 🤗

[MercySoleil]

I'm just starting to like it, my husband is big and it's taken a long time and a lot of work to get to this point, but my orgasm is intense.

[RayhanRoy]

Ask your husband how he feels cause for me it just hurts because I'm just too big.

[MercySoleil]

It hurts him sometimes when I don't relax enough or if there's not enough lube.

[RayhanRoy]

Oh the lube. Fuck how can I miss that. Thanks a lot.

[MercySoleil]

Oh dear😯

[RayhanRoy]

FML 🙃

[MercySoleil]

Better question is how did you get it in? 😵

[Anonymous]

Personally the thought of doing it makes me wanna vomit. That’s not what that hole is intended for. What’s wrong with a vagina? Anal is just not necessary

[RayhanRoy]

To be honest I hate anal too but the girls I've been in a relationship with made me do it. It actually hurts lol

[Opinion Owner]

I would refuse lol. If they’re not satisfied with foreplay, oral and vaginal sex then they want too much

[RayhanRoy]

Not always though. I've been in situations where they literally skip vaginal and oral sex cause they want anal that bad.

[Opinion Owner]

Then i’d say bye bye. Get yourself off

[RayhanRoy]

K whatever mate.

[Cuteusernamehere]

Your young. A lot of young girls are under the impression that they are still virgins if they are not penetrated in the vagina (whatever makes them happy I guess) . And many think it eliminates the possibility of unwanted pregnancy or STDs (it does not). things still run and drip and sperm can swim fast... that may not be the case with the other girls you've been with but I have noticed that mind set in younger girls lately.

[AustinMan]

It shouldn't hurt you even if you are big. Where does it hurt?

[RayhanRoy]

Basically the shaft.

[AustinMan]

Are you bottoming out so it's trying to bend or maybe is she clamping down when you hit a certain depth and is so strong it's a problem?

[Madison11]

Apparently girls don't have anything in their anus that could actually give them pleasure. But its a no for me.

[sodaflipper]

*we don't*

[AlienChickk]

Some girls do, some don't.

[VirginiaBeachBum]

I've only had one girl ask for anal, which represents less than 5% of my sexual partners. So in my experiences, no, most don't want it.

[MercySoleil]

Many are too timid to ask for it.

[VirginiaBeachBum]

@MercySoleil I like to perform anilingus and digital stimulation, so most have had the opportunity to ask, knowing I'm comfortable playing down there. About 2 out of 3 are OK with just tongue and/or fingers, but most seem uncomfortable with it at first until I convince them I'm really OK with it and it's not gross. I bathe or shower with my partners before sex so hygiene isn't an issue. I'm willing to do anal intercourse, it's just not something I pursue unless I'm asked. But none of my longer term, more serious partners (including my wife) wanted anal intercourse, even after discussing it. I really don't do timid in bed. A partner needs to be free and confident in sex in order for things to work between us physically.

[Fakeintrovert]

A girl who loves anal is like a guy who is gay!

[RayhanRoy]

Oh ok lol

[Fakeintrovert]

No disrespect intended!

[RayhanRoy]

None taken 😊

[chloehatespeople]

It depends on the girl

[Wesley_5577]

I find that a lot of women tried it with men that didn't know what they were doing, so they close themselves off because of one bad experience

[RayhanRoy]

Oh ok thanks for the opinion even though I still haven't faced that situation lol

[Wesley_5577]

No problem

[bjones420]

Some do. Some dont.

[Sespinn]

Depends on the chick. Does everyone like their feet licked? Or being tied down? Nope. But some do. If there's a porn for it, people like it.

[RayhanRoy]

Thanks for the opinion 🤗

[raghukumar]

Some doing some girls no

[Anonymous]

It would depend on her partner's skill at it.

[Anonymous]

The immense majority do not enjoy it. I'll say about 1 out of ten random women will like anal sex.

[Anonymous]

I love it. If done properly in the right position, it is very satisfying and never hurts.