How long do girls want sex to last? Apparently I last too long?

[Glimpee]

I usually start with giving head until they come, then usually I like a little foreplay gone my way cuz after 10-20 mins of head I'm usually not hard anymore - and while I find bodies and the idea of sex attractive - I'm not like "boing-oing-oing-oing" at being around them.

This is where many girls throw in the towel, say theyre done or tired and dont wanna help me out

Sometimes they give me a few minutes of head or just touch my peepee and I get hard, and we start fucking.

Lets say another 10-30 mins and they cum - I likely could have at one point but I want her to cum first

At this point they push me away and say they're done

So should I just let myself bust? Even if we didn't start with giving her head and having her cum? I've always been told "make her cum first" but they never, and I mean almost never, help me cum.

Its like the stereotype has been reversed. I care so much about their pleasure, and once they get it they dont care about mine.

Given - I've only been with 7 people, but only one of them has cared every time. Another I dated for a year and a halg would care occasionally

So do I just last too long? Should I let myself cum before they do and then just eat them out? Are they lying about cumming to just make it stop? Are they actually unable to keep going, or you think they are just unwilling

(when me and my ex were open for example, she told me how she was fucking this dude for two days straight and just getting continuous orgasms. After I made her cum once from vaginal shed say she's sore and can't go any longer.) Whats the deal here? brutal honesty if you got it - even if it means Im simply fucking wrong and hurting them

[Anonymous]

I'll tell you something, if I get satisfied, I'm usually done, even with him. When it comes to me giving a guy oral I can only focus on him for a little bit before I have to have him do stuff because I'll be too excited to not get anything.

He will give oral and if he's good I'll most always orgasm sometimes twice and that's usually incredibly pleasurable as it is even without intercourse but it does take some time.

When it comes to is fucking, if he's taking too long for me to orgasm again in 10 minutes I get bored and usually end it even if he doesn't cum, don't want it anymore. Just how I feel

If that's the case with you and you feel girls are getting bored, you can always just make yourself cum fbefore like you said and just focus on giving her oral.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you can get to where you need the guy to just get off - you're dry, you're bored, you're oversensitive from orgasms and the stimulation turns painful. All those things can happen to women. If she already came before you started fucking, then cum when you're ready. And get more assertive about asking for the sex you want like "Baby, I would really love some good head for a while." Don't be a jerk about it, but communicate.

This kind of thing happens all the time to women - being left hanging with no orgasm.

[Glimpee]

I always let them know what I want. I bring it up cuz they literally say "no" or "if you ask i won't give it to you" but then never reciprocate anyways I know it happens to girls a lot too but Im the type that makes sure it never does - it would be nice if a girl did the same for me. Spending 10-20 mins on oral and then fucking her while she doesn't really move and then without warning she's done, and thats usually soon after she cums again I tend to hold back because I want her to have that second orgasm, but if I cam for example and the girl didn't id immediately start giving her head

[Opinion Owner]

I think you just have to get more experience and maybe more maturity and learn how to negotiate for sex you like.

[MissMonstaz]

Seems like you just were with the wrong girls. God, I wish I could find a guy like you lol but anyways, they just sound super selfish. It doesn't even matter if you last long, they should still try their best to make you cum just like you did for them. Sorry you went through that. I know how it feels when you care so much about someone's pleasure but they don't care about yours after they got it. It sucks but it isn't your fault at all!

[Glimpee]

is it just college girls or some shit? Cuz I get with people who tend to seem aware of their place in the world and what to do oh wait no thats just how they seem at first... shit

[Jo1991]

I always found that getting head from her 1st before eating her pussy works better. Most girls can last about 25 to 30mins of you eating her out or fucking her so I'd suggest getting her to give you head before you do anything to her

[Glimpee]

hard part is that i have a hard time staying hard after 20-30 mins of head. Im super into it but my mind is in my mouth and hands Sadly I can't just get head and still be hard enough to start fucking her wait how do I ever fuck anyone then

[Jo1991]

Haha need to work on your stamina bro

[Warmapplecrumble]

2 hours vaginal intercourse, don't require foreplay

[Glimpee]

I ain't got the physical stamina to be doing crunches for 2 hours

[Warmapplecrumble]

Lmao

[kikikat95]

Sorry to hear you've been good to your women but they haven't been good to you. I don't see why women don't get off on their man getting off. To me it's like a compliment or an award. It's selfish to just get all that pleasure and none in return

[TripleAce]

10-20 mins is the sweet spot

[Glimpee]

I just wish I got some warning on them cumming or just letting me know when theyre close to done so I can finish up

[Anonymous]

If she's getting off. As long as she's getting off, that's what she wants

[Glimpee]

imagine fucking a girl for 5 months and making her cum multiple times a day when you see her and other than four times you have to jerk off when she leaves and one of those four you jerked off while she was there into a towel she gave you Then imagine that with every girl youve been with, even the one youve dated unless she was REAL excited