How to confess you are a lesbian?

I've been facing the problem since i was 15. Please help me out.
How to confess you are a lesbian?
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  • There's nothing to confess, Confession implies that your are guilty of a wrong doing. There's nothing wrong with being gay! Love is love and we need more of it in this world in every form ❤️

    I'm not sure who you want to tell. If it's family I would just tell them outright. I'm not gay or bi but I am a mom, if one of my children were I would hope they would be comfortable enough to tell me as soon as they figured it out. I've always been very open about sexuality with my children and we have many gay/bi family members. My girls love having a drag queen for an uncle to do thier hair and makeup for events!

    You are still the same you that you've always been no matter who you choose to love. If whoever you want to tell doesn't understand that then they don't deserve to be in your life anyway.

    • Thank you mem. You made me proud about who am i. My country doesn't like yours. Here they being judgmental and very narrow minded. Thank you so much. :')

  • I’m not lesbian maybe a little bi curious but that’s about it. But I really think you should not feel the need to confess it’s your choice and nobody else’s and you are the one living your life not others. Hope that helps...

  • Who are you confessing this to? If you're making some friends, you could like play a game of truth or dare and I guess if the question is asked, it can all come out?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Hi sherrx well there's your first mistake.. stop looking at it as a problem.. because its not id its truly who you are like they say the truth will set you free so free yourself smile again if somebody doesn't like it then let them deal with their problem not yours good luck buddy smile be free

    • Thankssss. You the bestttt

    • No matter what we do in life there's always going to be somebody who is unhappy with themselves I'd love to hear themselves talk who's a negative person who wants to and everybody else's business but their own... if you know one of these people and you don't want to deal with that's why you are a little bit afraid to be yourself well don't be because they are just miserable individuals anyway so smile smile and smile and if somebody says something to you to say well I thought I would try this because I tried being a dick like you and that just didn't work out LOL no good luck don't worry about it be free now everybody's going to have an opinion the only one that counts is yours

    • Agree with every little things you said. I wish i have friend like you. I never had a guy friends that know im lesbian

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  • Any lesbians I have ever known or talked with about this simply said when they had confessed they were an actual lesbian they would say they really liked to lick and suck on other women's Tits and enjoyed very much sneezing in the Brillo of other women...

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  • List of people who need to know:

    1. Intimate/romantic partners
    2. No one else.

    You've already confessed to yourself, that's enough. Everything else is declaration. Which is totally unnecessary.

    • Okay, sure your parents are gonna ask you about kids at one point and that's gonna make things a bit harder. But really when you tell them that you don't like men, it is their obligation to understand and accept it. Furthermore if we're talking about lineage, you can always adopt a child.

    • I need to screenshot this. Thanks ivaneh. You helped a lot. I wish i have friends like you.

  • Just invite your girlfriend to a family thing, introduce her then give her a big kiss in front of everybody and say "yes, I touch butts with her."

    • This is cute. We are holding hands below the table

    • Aha nice, I really don't see why people make a big deal out of it. You love who you love.

    • Yes. Love always win. Great to have supportive friend like you

  • Are you actually in a relationship with another lady as of now?

    • Nope. But i had once

  • there's really no other way except to just tell people

    • Thankss.

  • Who are you confessing to?

  • This one's so easy it's not funny, it's a 2 part answer:
    1. "Hi, I'm into girls!".
    2 "why? Because girls are attractive whereas guys are ugly, smelly, badly dressed, hairy cretins.

    Problem solved. Also why I don't understand Gay guys.

  • Walk out of a closet and scream "I'm gay"

    • Oh Christ let it go who cares

    • @SammiSausage Uhmmmm... what?

  • My favorite method is to sit in a physical closet and ask for help coming out.

    • Hhahaha

    • That response is exactly why it works so well. It will be funny enough to remove the tention.

  • Confess? That makes it sound sinful. It ain’t. Book of Ruth.
    Whose business is it anyhow? Your private life is your own.

  • Chances are people already know.

  • It's not a confession. It is a declaration. You declare it to those that matter by sitting them down n explaining it to them.

    • Thank youuu...

  • An awful lot would depend on the background you come from - My advice would be to go online to LGBT sites and look for stories of girls from a similar culture/background to yours and even within these sites there will be loads of friendly/helpful people to talk to. Good Luck.

  • You only have to tell the person you have romanticall feelings for.

    Who else would need to be informed?
    Or even want to be informed

    • This will help. Not everyone should now im not straight right

    • It's not a "they should not know" more a "why would I tell those people" It's your thing who you have feelings for. It's your sexlife.

    • You are so true.

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  • "Hi, I'm gay"

    • Good for you and please enjoy sucking yourself off and shooting it in your own face!!!

    • Lol I'm pretty sure only the cousin fucking inbreds could pull that kind of reaction, and thankfully they're in the minority. But that is the fear of most homosexuals, I'd wager - dramatic and quite frankly nonsensical and unlikely reactions

    • You have nothing to wager so go back to sucking yourself off and you are the real minority here as most men do not suck themselves off...

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  • You have to just kiss them

  • Accept who you are within.

  • Ok and I am not trying to be rude but I don't understand lesbians. You use a dildo a fake dick so u don't hate dick u hate men

    • I dont use dildo. I used fingers

    • Oh ok but still u get my point right. Y am confused

    • How does her being lesbian mean she hates men lmao

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  • "I am a Lesbian."
    There it's that easy.

  • just tell everyone that you are a lesbian, and dont care what anyone else thinks of you.

    • I wish i had that courage

    • look you are a adult now. no one can control your life, but only you.

    • Thankyou decentguy

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