Why do girls fuck hot handsome guys casually but go with average looking guys into relationships?

[Anonymous]

Most of my girlfriends always hookup with some hot as fuck guy and always end up with an average looking guy in a relationship. Its not only my friends but probably the majority of the female population.

Why do girls have casual sex with handsome guys but go into relationships with average guys?
I somehow pity the guys cause they will always be relationship material but never hot wild casual sex.

I somewhere heard from a saying "a beautiful man will never belong to only one woman". Is this the reason why girls go for average ones but fuck handsome ones?
Poor guys...

[Anonymous]

Yeah this is true. A few reasons:

In a casual relationship women prioritize looks and sex appeal only. In a long term relationship they look for a mix of sex appeal, stability, emotional reliability etc. There are good evolutionary reasons for this.

In a casual relationship men drop their standards, period. There are evolutionary reasons for that too.

So then what’s happening is multiple things at once:
- some of the hot guys they hook up with are not actually relationship material from the girls perspective
- girls can hook up with guys who are “out of their league” from a relationship perspective but have to date back in their league.
- hot guys are less likely to want relationships at all. Since they can easily get a lot of casual sex, they’re actually giving up something to be monogamous.

From the guys perspective I would agree- being relationship material only is terrible. My advice to be honest for guys in demographics where hooking up is common is to become as hot as possible and then only form relationships out of casual sex. Essentially don’t date girls who aren’t attracted to you enough to hook up with you. That may mean slightly lowering your standards but it’s really worth it.

[DianaWest]

oh, is this why I see so many hot men with average women?

[oriontheking]

Look up "alpha fucks and beta bucks". Girls want to have casual sex with alpha males and then get pregnant by them, but they want a beta male simp to financially support them and help raise their children.

You're right, beta males can never really have casual sex, and can only get pussy by being in relationships where they support girls financially. These girls were total sluts for "Chads" (alpha males) and had casual sex with them where they did all sorts of sordid sexual acts, but when they settle down with "Normans" (beta males) for economic reasons they won't even give them oral sex and act pristine, like they weren't complete sluts in their younger years, and they use these guys for their money.

It's a sad state of affairs, but it's the human nature of girls, at least in our society. That's why if I ever settle down with a real woman, she will most likely be from a foreign country that isn't tainted by our feminism, our media, and our entertainment industry.

[azzntittiz]

A lot f people are too insecure for attractive people. If they think the guys don't worship them they will go for an unattractive one for long term. Sure you're gonna hear foolishness about these guys having poor personalities and being poor husbands, nah not true.
Also the men might have higher expectations she cannot fill, he will move on because he can, so it's him that didn't want to settle her.
I bet his wife will look like blake Lively or whatever her name is.

[witherwing]

I'm guessing the "hot handsome guys" are lacking on the personality, so they are not boyfriend material. You can stand and obnoxious guy for one night, but not for years how ever good looking they are. I don't do one night stands, so I'm just guessing here.

[katiesmuff]

Because that hot handsome dude fucks them a few times until he is tired of her pussy then moves on to the next idiot who thinks she is the one who will get him.

[AustinMan]

There's an old adage that I've seen proved over and over. There are exceptions of course but they are rare. Adage: a woman should never marry a man better looking than she is.

[DianaWest]

and yet i see so many average, even fat women, with hot men. why?

[AustinMan]

@DianaWest I don't have a good explanation. I suspect you're quite attractive.

[DianaWest]

I don't believe in casual sex. when I seek a relationship, I always get with a guy because I think he could be a potential husband. some women may think the hot guy is a player, or that he is too good for them and that he will leave the second he sees a finer girl. I know it's not true for all hot men, but they gotta prove it with their actions.

[BubblePop11]

probably cuz a hot guy wants a good fuck and a one night stand and they can't bring in more than an average joe on a regular occasion. its pretty simple

[levantine99]

SOME girls do that. i never did that nor most of my friends. maybe choose your companies better?
also don't forget we are living in an amoral society controlled by the media idols. thereare no many good examples that kids look up to today.

[levantine99]

insecure and twisted are the minds that think in such ways. if you want a shallow life you'll treat people like objects like that.

[levantine99]

so i wouldn't call only the hot guys who induldge poor but also the women who live like that.

[Quinn79]

By the same logic your ‘hot handsome guys’ are the pathetic losers.

[TheRedLemon]

Hot handsome guys probably have more insecurities and are more impractical for a serious relationship.

[patrick994]

Women choose average-looking men in order to be able to dominate in the relationship, they know that the average-looking guy not having much choice will always be available to the girls, he will offer her financial stability, affection and much more, sex with him will be boring, just the normal, boring missionary position.

In casual sex, women have a wide choice, even good-looking males lower their demands, as beautiful women hardly ever give themselves up for casual sex, average-looking girls do, the latter knowing that they will only be used for one night and will give their best, having much more transgressive and exciting sex, perhaps conceding what the poor average-looking guy would not give even if he were in love.

[CandaceG]

It's possible that the hot guys are only out for a good time and know just how handsome they are. The table of options is spread for them

[Dargil]

Ain't young love wondrous?

[Bandit74]

Because they weren't able to find a hot guy who would commit to them.

[ThatUnknownGirl]

I agree

[Bandit74]

@ThatUnknownGirl cool

[venomouskitty]

Because the hot guy fucks good but is a horrible person and the average looking one usually the safer bet for long term stuff. That's my generalized take anyway.

[Asker]

Poor average guy, loses in everything.

[R00KIE_GUY]

Probably because they can't get the emotional connection with the "hot" guys

[katiesmuff]

Emotional connection? The hot guy in general is only looking to get emotionally close to her pussy then on to the next quest.

[R00KIE_GUY]

That's what I was saying...

[katiesmuff]

Sorry guess I read that differently!

[R00KIE_GUY]

I said that the girls probably cannot get an emotion connection with the "hot" guys.

[katiesmuff]

Then I did read it right as I say it is the guy who has NO interest in making it an emotional thing for him. He only wants the pussy then move on. The girls intent was thinking she was getting a really hot boyfriend.

[R00KIE_GUY]

The question was basically, "Why do my friends fuck hot guys and date average looking guys?" To which I responded with the girls probably cannot get an emotion connection with the "hot" guys. Implying that the "hot" guys just want to have sex and the "average" guys want to have a real connection with the girls.

[genericname85]

because they know the average guy has less options and they're not confident enough around the handsome guy. they see the average guy as the safer bet.

[KristaGrym]

I've never fucked with handsome guys so I don't know and I don't care they are boring

[coffeewithcream]

Never noticed that.

[Blake0048]

Yes women have different standards fit different men. That's why if a girl refuses to hookup with me because she is looking for a relationship I will stop dealing with her. Because I know she has hooked up with plenty of hot guys she thought of as good hookup material so why should I be punished by having to wait? That's ass backwards if anything I should be able to get sex first because you do see a possibility for more than just sex. This dynamic has always frustrated me and made it difficult for me to take women seriously in a relationship.

[Jonathan1989]

Dont feel bad for us. Us men would think dang well this woman here yeah she's beautiful but can i say she can be both ways and say she got girlfriends?

[Malik00]

It's called being shallow, abusing double standards, wanting their cake and eating it too... take your pick. I got more.

[Sleepless-Scorpio]

I made sex with all kinds of girls

[ThruLens]

Why don't you ask your slutty girlfriends