My boyfriend thinks his penis is too small and inadequate?

Question

Last night, my boyfriend asked me that if I could change anything about his penis, what would it be. I wanted to say "nothing", but usually when I say that in regards about his hair or his body, he gets upset and thinks I'm lying.

I wanted to avoid the stress with him accusing me of lying, so I explained how sometimes when I'm too wet down there (yes, being too wet/lubricated is a thing) I wish he was thicker or maybe half an inch longer. I then continued to explain that it was entirely my problem, about how the two times I've been two wet reasoned this thinking.

He won't stop mentioning how inadequate he believes he is and is mentioning his "tiny dick". When I try to explain why I said what I did, he accuses me of lying. I'm unbelievably frustrated.. then he insists that he'll get over it. I know he won't; it feels like a cloud looming over us and gets in the way of our relationship. Just this morning we had sex and I showed him that I obviously love the way he is, and that still wasn't enough.

What should I do? I'm tired and so frustrated dealing with his negative outlook. Everything I say, he doesn't believe.

Shane_B · Accepted Answer

This might not answer your question, but I feel the same as your boyfriend thinking that my dick is to small, but I've never been in a relationship or ever had sex to feel comfortable with my size. Which makes it hard to believe if a girl was being honest with me if she was to say its 'fine' and its one of my insecurities that holds me back from finding someone and also affects my depression, I basically want to find someone to just accept me for the way I am. But I feel like I got no hope, I'm 19 and still a virgin, and at times when I feel like I'll be single/ alone forever, I get suicidal thoughts thinking I'm never good enough for any girl/ women, and that I get seen like most other guys that just want sex, I don't see girls/ women as sex objects, but I can't seem to prove to girls/ women that not all the guys are the same.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

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Prima_Dana · Accepted Answer

You should tell him that his insecurity is bothering you and that he has no need to be insecure. If he keeps on doing this, you should leave him. He needs to get his shit together before he's in a relationship.

pepwave21 · Accepted Answer

Sad. Damn sounds like he needs some counseling if he is thinking his whole life centers on penis size.

Nihilego · Answer

I'm honestly afraid to have sex with anyone because of how small mine is... It's a sensitive topic. Most girls don't understand it.

Tron5678 · Answer

Are I satisfied with his dick? If yes? Then he shouldn't be bothered about his size. Tell him to watch less porn.

OlderGuy965 · Answer

Tell him "shut the fuck up about it, you're fine! Quit being an insecure pussy and fuck me already!". It will startle him. But he needs that kind of talk.

Wesley_5577 · Answer

Sounds to me like he has self esteem issues. At a certain point he's going to have to do something about that himself. All you can do is try to be supportive.

bigbang101 · Answer

How long is his penis? (Message me in person, I don't wanna discuss this here). Maybe I can help you...

nudeNhorny · Answer

well, obviously he is insecure enough to ask you such a question and you confirmed his fears when you said you wish it was thicker and half inch bigger.