Sex is supposed to be fun. It is funny how a guys standards generally increase for relationships, but are more open to a variety of looks and personalities for sex, while women look for character qualities and values In lieu of dashingly good looks for relationships but will only lay the hot guys or the guys with tons of charm. It is the exact opposite in some regards.
Of course, this is what the armchair dating philosophers would have us think, but I feel dating and relationships are much more nuanced than that. People are individuals after all.
Would be awesome if more people connected in a variety of ways, both in and out of relationships, without all the expectations and assumptions, but alas, that is human nature to judge.
For example, a guy might assume that shy girl is a stuck up prude just because she isn't as assertive as her outgoing friends, but little does he know, she has the libido of a wild cat and the kinks of a pornstar. A woman might assume that shy guy is a pushover who doesn't have the balls to be with her, but he really is a good guy who is very attentive in bed, who is a great flirt if the ice was broken and has skill with his tongue and stamina for days.
At my age, I understand that knockout gorgeous looks don't equate to a woman's attitude in bed or in relationships. She might be like a mannequin in bed. I'd much rather partner up with a woman who is completely average but has the attitude of a fox who aims to please, in touch with her sexuality, and goes for what she wants.
Enthusiasm >>>>> Stunningly good looks
Kindness/Pleasing >>>>> Entitled confidence
Open/Vulnerable >>>>> Game playing
Guys are not as picky as women in general.
Think about it from an evolutionary stand-point.
A Woman's 'Job' is to make sure that her kids are the strongest possible versions, that she can get. Therefore whoever the father is, has to be a top quality male, both physically, and in terms of being a provider. This is why Height, Job, in some cases muscle mass, and penis size come into play, when choosing a partner.
A Man's 'Job' Is to repopulate the earth. Therefore it's in our nature to want to have sex as much as we can, to make as many women as we can pregnant. This gives us the biggest chance of passing on our genes, if we're NOT picky.
I'm a bit chubby so I was surprised when these 10/10 guys are messaging me
No such thing as a 10/10 Man or Woman. Human's aren't perfect. ... I bet you're chubby in the right places, though ;) haha. To be fair, you've got a really good looking face. Like... The green eyes, and blonde hair is totally my thing. ... But as I said earlier, guys aren't picky! haha ;p
So what if you are chubby that doesn't matter you seem like a great person
Well I go for guys only above 7, and in make out and in relationships.
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I would say obviously some men do, I mean just by looking at some of the quite prosperous prostitutes out there that get paid for it should answer that. But I honestly couldn't believe at first you were asking this for yourself.
The answer is right there.
The majority of guy yes, not me.
But you are not a 5 for me.
I would like to see that body, I've no idea how you look like.
I know that you're face is not a 5 lol
that video is hilarious
It's hilarious but true ask any guys lol 😂
And to really answer your question, no physically I don't go lower. BUT, I can take a woman that is more 1. Dumb 2. That risk to be unfaithful but I don't know she was otherwise it's a turn off, she lose my respect 3. Marginal, I don't date a woman that I can't bring everywhere, except if if it's because of racism or if she was Muslim and really nice and hot, otherwise I don't date someone religious, except Buddhism or like that 4. A porn star or like that, it's not lower, it's just that I don't date them 5. I could with a chubby girl if it's like Marilyn Monroe or black women that twerk with more fat but more in the curves than saggy and with cellulite.
Hmmm, not necessarily if it is because I'm horny. It would be more that her personality I agree with and we click sexually, even though her body/face isn't "ideal". Personality and attitude go a long way to improve looks and overall package if you ask me. A hottie can look like shit if her personality is shit.
I think maybe a lot of guys wouldn’t mind if it’s just sex. Though, they have to be attracted to the woman to have sex with her usually, so I’m not sure a woman who they deem a 5 would be attractive to them if they usually go for girls 7 and up. I guess I can only speak for myself.
I really enjoy giving oral, so if but for no other reason I cannot lower my standards for any reason. And as an old Navy buddy of mine used to say, I'm not going to lower my standards to up yours. lol
I think it mostly deals with the people you've surrounded yourself with would they know and would they judge me for having sex an "ugly" girl or taking advantage of her.
Personally, I wouldn't, no.
Not that I think I'm a 7-9 at all lol but to answer the question, I have lower standards for a hook up then a relationship. So I might not date a 5 but if she just wanted me for sex I'd prolly do it
I'm not one to just go out and have sex I'd rather have a connection with somebody sex is cheap without the spark if I don't like you as a person I'm not going to have sex with you no matter how hot you are
No, I need to be attracted to her to have sex. I don’t need to chase sex tha badly that I’d stick it in anything.
Ratings matter on a lot of things..
Just a number doesn’t make one fucksble or not.
It’s the person and how things unfold ahead.
Yeah, I would be less picky if I was getting sex no strings attached.
Guys see a clear difference in the girls they date seriously for marraige and girls they date for sex
Standards exist for a reason, and if having sex as a guarantee is enough to make people lower their standards, then their standards aren't well defined.
Basically if knowing you'd get sex is all it takes for someone to "settle", then their standards are unrealistic and they're lying to themselves about what they're actually looking for / think they deserve.
it does not matters if i am 9 and if she is 4 , i would treat her like a goddess, but the things will change if another girl better then 3 comes in the equation.
Were, not 'are'.
Sexual availability is part of the attraction. I've never been attracted to, say, nuns, because I just don't see them as available. Same with married women, once I know it. It shifts them into purdah; forbidden, like a sister. I can stiff find their appearance as esthetically pleasing, but there's no longer a spark.
Conversely, a woman who DOES make herself available is more enticing.
lets just say having some fun with no commitment in mind lets us not think so much about the choice of partner.
if we look for a partner, then we think way more about who we wanna be with, cause it´s gonna be a permanent decision.
I wouldn't. I don't want just sex
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