My new boyfriend has a really small penis, what to do?

[Anonymous]

My new boyfriend has a really small penis and I'm struggling with it. I can barely feel it when it goes in and I have a really tight vagina.
he's really nice but I feel like this could become an issue! Is there any other position we could try?

[hellionthesagereborn]

Well, don't thrust, at least not as you normally would, you grind, angle the strokes as the vagina doesn't have the same tactile sensations as the hands so angling it will make it feel bigger as the tip hits one side of the vagina and the top of the penis hits the other making it seem girtheir then it is. Sex will be fine but you have to do it differently then normal, again try grinding more and angled thrust (also if you lay on your stomach he can get deeper thrusts). As people said you can also try anal. Also keep in mind that sex is pretty mental and if you are fixating on the size of it then that's really going to take you out of the mood which itself will result in less pleasure. The fact is the vagina only has pleasure nerve endings going only about 4 inches into the vagina so you really don't need much. A lot of the problem could be psychological and your hyping yourself out of wanting sex and thus your not enjoying it. So try those things, different positions ones that allow for deeper thrusts and more grinding and also focus on something other then his penis, like does he have a nice face, does he have broad shoulders something for you to enjoy? Maybe some muscle what ever it is something other then his penis to keep you in the mood and allow you to let go of your preconception that you won't enjoy it which will, hopefully allow you to let go enough to enjoy it.

[coastertroy]

There's no proven way to increase penis size. Avoiding the issue will lead to breaking up or cheating, so that's not an option. Honestly, if I was smaller than average and my girl wasn't satisfied I'd want to know. Ask yourself what you would want him to do if he wasn't feeling pleasure because of something physical on you that you couldn't control. It would be hard to hear, right? But you also wouldn't want him to pretend forever either. TBH if I was really small I'd be open to getting a strap-on, I'd work on continually improving my oral skills, work on my foreplay. He can do lots of things that will make him better than most guys with big dicks... but he has to know it's an issue first.

[Anonymous]

I'd suggest trying doggy style, head down ass up with your legs outside of his. Hopefully that will get deeper penetration.
Or try cowgirl but put a pillow under his ass so it keeps his hips elevated and thrusts his dick upwards.

Also, if he's not giving oral and manual stimulation I'd suggest getting him to do that to at least get you off so you're not totally unsatisfied with the sex.

You can always try toys. They also have these like extenders that would fit over his dick.

If you haven't talked to him, you should. I mean of you don't talk to him he doesn't know there's an issue. Also, he may know how to make things better for you. It's not like his dick suddenly shrunk, I'm sure he has some thoughts on how to work with what he's got.

[Opinion Owner]

LMAO! Thanks blue downvotes! 👍🏻 You're all just making me stronger. 😈

[gurysimrat]

Ur right totally. Miss

[soul1112]

I'm not disagreeing with you, lol. I just hate the idea of toys, which kind of defeats the whole purpose of it in the first place...

[Opinion Owner]

@soul1112 if you're one of the downvotes, I appreciate you explaining why and I can understand your view. It wouldn't be my ideal choice either, I'd much rather things go smoothly and work well than NEEDING toys. However, in this situation I kind of think it has to be at least considered an option. And I wasn't meaning toys as a substitute for him but an enhancer to him. There are other things they can do, as I listed. In the end though, if he's at least making her cum dying foreplay it shouldn't be THAT much of an issue, most women don't cum from penetration anyway.

[Opinion Owner]

During*

[Opinion Owner]

And when I say enhancement I don't mean the dick sleeve thing. I mean any toy.

[burpzzzzz]

You forgot anal sex. Typically a woman's anal cavity is much tighter than a vagina.

[Opinion Owner]

@burpzzzzz well based on what she said I took it as a length issue not width issue. (Answered this at 1am, I see now what you're saying) If it is in fact girth not length then anal sex would be the other option. But that may just be an option for him, which isn't bad but she needs to get off too and not all women cum from anal sex.

[burpzzzzz]

In porn women put a short anal plug in anal cavity. Also she claimed to have a very tight vagina which should mean she would able to feel it.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Buttplug.png

[Warmapplecrumble]

Try yoni stones and do kegeals. Eventually the vagina will learn how to contract more so you can feel the penis more during sex. Vagina is a muscle it can dilate/contract when needed.

You only need the penis to go few inches in, that's where most the nerve endings are.

------
Some things like phytoestrogens, estrogens, xneoestrogens do cause impact on the male body. Keep him away from these hormones e. g. plastic, soya, alcohol, drugs, chocolate, contraception pills - coming in contact with him.

Tight pants, cycling, too much exercise, too much weight lifting, and unhealthy habits effect the his reproductive organ. Once damage is done I doubt it gets fixed.

----

[Warmapplecrumble]

Oyster position is the position where you can feel him very deep inside of you... try it

cdn.gurl.com/.../...ex-position-what-guys-like.jpg

[Banana-Girl]

Thank you for this information

[Warmapplecrumble]

@Banana-Girl you are welcome :-)

[COCOCHANEL]

i agree on phytoestrogens!

[Warmapplecrumble]

@COCOCHANEL thanks :-)

[yodaiam]

laughing at the two lazy bitches who think their vaginas are perfect the way they are and that it's mens responsibility to fill their loose ass vaginas.

[Poppykate]

Here is an interesting article '20 OMG Sex positions for a small penis'. I hope this helps! It should be fun trying at least!
sex.sofeminine.co.uk/.../...mall-penis-d49607.html

[Uchūjin]

Talk to him about it and try suggesting using toys and such.

[JHAYES317]

@uchujin no guy would consent to a penis extender unless they were literally micro

[NicoletteKomotov]

Get him a strap on to use. He can get one that goes over his with a vibrator in it. You'll both love it. You can even use it on him.

[Buckzor]

Why do people think this is just a solution for the masses? 1. I would never wear a strap on, 2 I would never have it used on me. EVER.

[JHAYES317]

Penis sleeve is a real thing, but a strap on would be fucked up

[djmzes]

Sex is important between. couple.
Do u feel satisfied when we have intimate relationship with him or not... is it physical or emotional.
Simple truth:
If u r with him just for sex (physical sex) then it will never work.

But if u really appreciate him as person then u would have never asked stranger their opinions...

The answer between u as couple...
Whether u respect each other and accept each other as they are...

If u see his penis not suitable for you, just left him... he will find someone else that will be. pleased with his penis...

[kushQueen]

Legs up and knees on his shoulders (if you can get your legs behind your head even better), that will get the guy as deep as he can get. Teach him how to eat pussy like a pro. And you can take it in the ass and bring a vibrator into the bedroom. I dated a guy with a small dick for a long time, he did get good at giving head, I think deep down he knows he's small

[herambvedpathak]

Do female little if the whole penis is inseted in pussy?

[Justacatlady]

You on top will get him in the furthest. But if that doesn't work and this is very important to you, you will have to have a serious talk with him.

[foreveralone22]

I'd love if I had a boyfriend with a tiny penis so it won't hurt. (I'm a virgin and scared of sex).

[IcoHollen]

My congratulations you are de first female 19yo that is still virgin

[apple24]

@IcoHollen perv.

[IcoHollen]

I'm still virgin too

[apple24]

@IcoHollen that's even worse.

[IcoHollen]

Why? I just haven't found someone I want to do it, I ain't doing it with any hoe

[apple24]

@IcoHollen no. Your no different then a john who wants to fuck just because you haven't done it before. Why you ask? There's no difference if you lose today or next year. The problem I have is this huge hype and glorify virginity as if it was the only thing that matter.

[IcoHollen]

No, love i don't care about it but is just weird seeing people older than 18 still virgin and if you are fighting against me because of this means you lost it when you were young so please don't judge with all the guys I didn't mean to say it as an offense but as a praise that she has enough self control and respect to wait until she is older

[apple24]

@IcoHollen no still a virgin and I am near my approach mid 20s. Honestly I don't think I will trust men even when I try my best to be friends. I honestly hate when people treat others like that. Like some kind of gift. I hate it.

[IcoHollen]

I never said a gift I said enough self control not to fuck like a bunny

[TheUglyMonk]

@apple24 Let me sacrifice you to the gods!

[apple24]

@TheUglyMonk son. Do you wanna die?

[TheUglyMonk]

Sorry @apple24 :( I'll behave

[jerico1]

If that's first on your list relationships can't be too important to you. There's so much more to a sexual relationship than just sticking it in, if you enjoyed everything else you'd have no problem with his small dick. What if he said my girlfriend has tiny tits what to do? Or her pussy doesn't get wet enough for me what to do? Not cool right? Look for the positive and be thankful, stop getting stuck on the negative stuff that your mind tells you is a problem. Would you rather a guy with a big dick who has nothing else to offer?

[yowzers124]

First of all what positions have you tried? And how flexible are you? Not trying to be dirty so answer those and I'll help the best I can

[ToxicKisses]

Well he still has fingers... no mater how small his dick is...

[watercolor_lions]

Have you told him this?

I am so sorry girl :/

[troychapman]

what you mean your sorry poor man he should be accepted no matter what

[COCOCHANEL]

how do you know it's not the girl who is the problem?

[watercolor_lions]

@COCOCHANEL I was giving her the benefit of the doubt.

[watercolor_lions]

She doesn't seem like she is enjoying this post... I doubt she is lying.

[COCOCHANEL]

maybe she just doesn't know what the problem is or isn't willing to admit it. first, how does she know if she is tighter than average? if she thinks he is small and she can't feel it, that means she has been with larger and they fit in her and she felt them. if she really were ”very tight” a smaller than average penis would be more than enough.

[MadeInAmerica]

media.giphy.com/media/1PgPvWLfXGkCY/giphy.gif

Laughing at all the insecure guys asking the guy's size and measurements to see how their dick compares lol.

[Aalila]

I've been there before with an ex he had I think it's called micro penis the only position we could do was cow girl and reverse maybe try that and invest in some toys

[sarawelsh122]

Yea I was with a guy who had a micro penis. I went to feel his pants and thought he had a big one and it turned out to be a phone I had been fondling.. anyways the sex was terrible and I couldn't feel it so we parted ways. Didn't tell him it was the penis tho

[dude64bro]

Well it's not like he could have changed anything :) Good thing you didn't. People say they want honesty but they usually can't handle it.

[sarawelsh122]

Well I mean it was all around bad sex nothing to even make up foe the size. No fingering. No licking. Basically no foreplay.. so like no help there lol

[dude64bro]

Welp, he was probably just not very good in bed in general. I don't know though, cause I've accidentally made a woman squirt before with my fingers so it's not like size matters at all in that regard. There are other ways to enjoy "sex" lol

[sarawelsh122]

Yea exactly moves can be incorporated but we just obviously were not compatible sexually. I love the downvotes I got though.. a guy can't tell me he would stay with a girl if she was an incredible prude and never wanted sex at all. You wouldn't be compatible so you'd leave.

[dude64bro]

Yeah, I could see that happening to me. I've left a relationship because the sex wasn't good before, it wasn't the main reason, but it was part of it.

[sarawelsh122]

I mean first time sex okay I'll let it slide but a consistent lack of wanting to experience more or learn more meh not for me

[dude64bro]

I feel like I can usually let bad sex slide if my partner is kinky, ya know. Like willing to try new things. But after a while, it does get old that are consistently... not compatible.

[sarawelsh122]

At least kinky makes it interesting! But vanilla and bad ugh

[dude64bro]

Don't tell me it was missionary each time 😅

[sarawelsh122]

Oh it was and not even leg up on the shoulders or anything.. i think I almost fell asleep one time

[dude64bro]

See I've learned that you need to take control to change bad sex like that... indirectly 👍

[sarawelsh122]

I tried with him and he was like no I don't want to go faster. No i don't want to choke you lol. No i don't want to spank you lol

[dude64bro]

Then I... didn't know there were people like that

[sarawelsh122]

Oh ther3 is lol

[JHAYES317]

@sarawelsh122 if he had eaten you out and fingered you would that have made a difference?

[BigRayFromNC]

You have two choice here :

1) Keep sucking his dick until it gets to the size you want.
2) Purchase a large Dill Doe and use it and dump the guy with the little dick.

[Annie_Mosity]

Read up online about it, use toys, have anal... there is plenty that can be done. My ex had a tiny TINY penis but we had some of the best sex...

[wingattebaby16]

a small willy is not something you can fix.

He really should work on being the best in the world at going down on you. Oral can really make up for lack of a decent dick.

Ultimately, you are going to wish for more of something inside you. If it was me, i would cut my losses now and move on. It is easier on you and will be better on him if he knows now, instead of waiting with him thinking his little man is making you happy and rocking your world.

Just my 2 cents worth...

[JHAYES317]

That’s fucked up. So you’re saying guys with small dicks shouldn’t be in relationships because girls are always gonna wanna be with bigger dicks?

[BaileyisDarcy]

Get the fuck over it?

[klyuh]

Doggy, cowgirl, or toys are the best option. Don't make his size the issue, focus on things that would bring more pleasure to you. A guy would be much more receptive to "could we try this to help me cum easier?" rather than "we need to use this because your dick is too small", just be careful with how big you make the issue.

[RuthAnn1781]

If his dick is that big of a deal to you then maybe he isn't the guy you should be with. I mean if you really liked him then all his great qualities would overshadow his dick, not with much trouble I'm sure lol. Maybe try different positions or something like that

[Mr_Jolly]

Apparently it's quite the opposite of a big deal.

[RuthAnn1781]

Lol, oh god, that's true yeah

[Belorum]

69? 🤔

[herambvedpathak]

But it's not a part of penetration

[Belorum]

She asked for a position xD