The REAL question guys want to know about the size of their penis?

[Anonymous]

I have a theory when it comes to why guys are CONSTANTLY asking about what penis size is good, what is too small, too big blah blah blah blah.

What we really want to know is this..."Do women, who have had GOOD sex, with a man with a large penis... miss the feeling of that large penis (remember combined with good sex) for the rest of their lives?"

Oh no ladies. Don't start trying to skirt around the question with "well yea I had lots of guys with huge cocks and they were all awful cuz they sucked in bed! It's about the motion of the ocean boys!" or "oh no, the one guy with a big dick I had was too big, it hurt too much, no thanks I'll stick with average!" We don't want to hear that. That doesn't help our deepest darkest fears about penis size.

What I believe is the REAL fear in mens minds about their dick size, is the fear that their SO is going to secretly wish she could have that one giant cock she had that one time that blew her mind. That we will never be able to be the PINNACLE of pleasure for her, ever. Because she already had it, with a man with a huge cock that was also good in bed. That we are forever inferior due to our penis size.

That while sex may be great, that when all is said and done, she's got this little voice in her head that says "but that big one though... it really made me feel so FULL mmmm" That's a nightmare to every man. Or at least I think it is. What do you guys think?

[watercolor_lions]

This is a good theory! But at the same time, think about it the other way around: what is the hottest porn/woman you have had sex with? Does it change the fact that you are enjoying sex with your partner.

This is one of those situations where... if you two love each other, it shouldn't be as much of an issue. But if you're in it just for kicks... you might forever feel insufficient until you find someone that loves you REGARDLESS of your dick size. And even though I think sex is important, I also believe that this is the way it's always supposed to have been.

[Apoteket]

Interesting topic. I think it's the opposite with ladies as well but instead of penises it's the breasts and butt. I mean, haven't you seen posts on here with the questions like "what attracts men most, breasts or booty?"

[Asker]

That's a great point! I can't answer it for other men. But for myself, I am a giant pervert. I love all kinds of women, big boobs, small, big butt, small, skinny, thick, chubby, it's all great. So if my girlfriend is petite and thin, i'm probably looking at thick girls and yearning for a taste. But if my girl is thick, I'm looking at thin girls yearning for a taste. Of course if I love her I'll never actually do it. But that's how things go in my head anyways. Other guys seem to have super narrow taste and only like one or two body types wheras I wish I could have them all... simultaneously maybe lol.

[Apoteket]

So your theory about why men ask about their penises, are you included in that "group"?

[Asker]

Sure! But it's silly of me, because my penis is big. I constantly remind myself how lucky I am to not have a small dick. But even still, sometimes I feel like "damn, I wish it was thicker!" Even though if it was that would mean many women (supposedly) wouldn't want to have sex with me. So sometimes I do still think about it and wonder "damn, if it was thicker, would it feel way better to my SO?"

[Apoteket]

That's funny and pretty interesting, I mean, you're not insecure about it but still are (although it sounds more like you are a perfectionist rather than insecure about your penis). I mentioned before women tend to think the exact same thing, and I just got proof of it since you just told me your thoughts of an exact same situation but the opposite genders. It's pretty fascinating...:P

[Asker]

I can't say it's proof though. There's too many guys out there who ONLY like stick thin girls, and make it their job on the internet to slander any woman with more than 5% body fat by calling her fat. Then we have guys who only like chubby girls trashing on thin girls. I feel like I'm more rare but I don't know how true that is. It just seems like that's how things are, with white guys anyways. My black friends are the same as me so maybe it depends on culture or something lol.

[Apoteket]

I was reffering to your ordinary question though. But doesn't you look at thin women as well if you are with a thin woman? Or do you JUST look at women with more curves?

[Apoteket]

Don't you*

[Asker]

I look at what I don't have more often. I still like everything. But since I'm getting plenty of what I have, I tend to look at the opposite. I just wish I could have every woman whenever I wanted. Women are so beautiful and amazing I wish I could experience all of you. Yea that must make girls sick to think a guy thinks like that lol. I swear I'm not a rapist and I'd consider myself a feminist but I can't help but open my eyes, pass them through the air and a girl passes in front and boom my brain starts sending me crazy messages like "omgggg she's sooooo cute omg wtffff <33333333333." Sorry just being as honest as possible to answer your question lol.

[Asker]

Then again in a committed relationship the rest become less important. I still want to look though. But I always know that I have the one for me and I'm all set. I'll even show her off "look see my girlfriend is hot too bitch don't you wish you were in her shoes? Ha! Nah! She's way better!" Yea I don't know anything. I just exist.

[Apoteket]

Wait, what thought makes a girl sick? Lol. And hahahah that's hilarious!😂😂

[Cuteusernamehere]

I can honestly say that would never be a problem for my husband. He has been my only one 😘

[Dude55]

I'm on the fence with this one, I'm sure there's a lot of women who think like that as well as a lot of guys that think back to who had the perfect body etc but I think the worlds population aren't really that shallow.

[TotallyAlmost]

I'm the guy on the other side of the equation. Your worst nightmares are all true. :)

[CT_CD]

I agree

[Asker]

Well at least one person thinks my theory is plausible lol.

[adika63]

I have a very small cock. It’s not hard to figure out. But I would ask girls well was he bigger. And always yes. Finally I asked am I just the smallest and yes.

[Anonymous]

I have never wanted to know this.

[Asker]

I don't think it's a conscious thing whatsoever. It's all deep down in the part of your brain that you don't understand. That doesn't mean it's true. I'm just trying to figure out the root of the problem, the root of our fears, the reason why men are asking if their dicks are big enough like 100 times a day on GAG alone let alone the rest of the internet lol.

[Opinion Owner]

I think that many of the guys on here who ask about dick size are just looking for validation after watching too much porn, or maybe an ex decided to harass them over their size to get even with them. As far as I know, it's an environmental concern.

[Asker]

I'm not saying whether it's primordial or environmental. Only that it is subconscious. We all know the "truth." That being that size doesn't matter, according to women anyways. But despite "knowing" we don't seem to believe women. There's something missing. My theory is this post! I'm sure porn plays a role. It could be triggering some deep down caveman brain mechanism in our brains which makes us self conscious when we see a dick bigger than ours fucking a lot of girls. I don't know. That's a valid argument though, and another good way to put things. I don't like simple explanations, it just doesn't scratch that curiosity itch for me.