This is a tough question for me. Sexual incompatibility is a big deal and can lead to unhappy marriages and even divorce. What if she has a low libido? What if she isn't interested in anything more than missionary vanilla sex? What if she has no interest in giving random blowjobs, complains her jaw hurts, and overall is a drag in the bedroom?
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Personally, I would have a tough time with it. I feel like I would like to get to know a person in every possible way, and that includes sexually before committing to marriage.
Now if the woman was perfect for me in every single other way and she expressed that she has her own kinks and things she wants to try out and is actually sexually adventurous, she is just waiting for marriage, then I'd consider it. However, it is going to be a tough sell.
Marriage, in general, is supposed to be forever. Death do us part. For better or worse. So you better get an idea of what the "worse" is going to look like (minus the sudden illness or accident). If the part of the "worse" is that your woman hates giving blowjobs but only does it to appease you and you resent her for it, that is going to be just the tip of the iceberg. If part of the "worse" is that she hates Doggystyle because it makes her feel humiliated or any other quirk that you simply couldn't know unless you had sex with her first, it isn't going to feel good knowing you are stuck with a woman who has these hangups and you wish she didn't.
I think waiting before marriage is an okay choice, but only if you know for sure that she is the one and that the sex is worth waiting for.
Honestly, that would be a deal breaker for me. I'm 25 and have never been intimate with a woman. It is something I would like to experience BEFORE marriage. I feel those types of girls don't have a strong sex drive, and I have sexual needs that need to be satisfied. Not that sex is the ONLY thing I care about, but I feel it is really important. Even if I dated a sexually active girl and we didn't have sex, I wouldn't care. But I need a woman who has a desire to be intimate as much as me. If we're waiting 'til marriage it makes me feel that she's only doing it because she's obligated. I met this AMAZING girl once, we had SO MUCH in common, but she told me she NEVER wants to have sex, which ruined the whole thing for me. I feel a woman should have a strong sex drive.
I wouldn't, no. I wouldn't wanna marry someone earlier than two years into our relationship and I wouldn't wanna be with someone for two years and not get to have sex.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes. I’d be willing to wait and see if we wanted to marry. If yes then I wouldn’t want a long engagement though.
I have no problems with that in the slightest. I even feel honored and humbled that she would choose to wait, and allow me to be the first (and hopefully first and only, because a serious relationship is usually monogamous).
My one concern with a virgin is I wonder if she has a low libido, or is very vanilla. I can do vanilla I suppose, and be happy. But I do have a high libido.
If course why not I am not the one to rush something I have gone a year with out sex so what is a couple more patience is a virtue
No. I don't plan to get married ever, so it would be clear we were looking for different things and so should go our separate ways.
yeahhh cause that's what I'm doing atm 😂
Of course. I have a hand. Any guy who says he can't wait obviously cares more about getting off than he does about you.
I am that girl!
Thats a big YES
I wouldn't love it but if she is perfect in every other way I'm not going to not date her just because she isn't down to fuck.
As long as it was in two years she wasn't waiting until 30. Shed also have to be willing to play with my junk
Yes I would, I wouldn't have an issue
Not for religious reasons? Sure
Yeah.
yeahhh... i like such girls...
Nope. Our sexualities don't match.
No because I don't believe in marriages tbh
Move on to someone not limiting themselves to a contract. Marriage is a serious commitment and it's important to be certain about sexual compatibility to be monogamous
Marriage is a good way to be forced to pay alimony, so no thanks. I don't believe in "sexual purity" either so that'd turn me off.
I want a woman who doesn't see anything wrong with sex so long as she doesn't catch an STD. Casual sex with complete strangers is fine.
Prudes can argue all they like but no victim no crime.
If I had a different career yes, yes I would
I don't want to get married so I wouldn't
Unless you mean married to someone else
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