Did you have the same fetish as your partner? Did you get weirded out? Or did you were okay with it?
Most Helpful Guy
I think what surprised me most (and still surprises me) is that my wife doesn't really have any fetishes or things she particularly likes in the bedroom. She's very open-minded and willing to try new things but she only acts if I initiate it. She doesn't really have anything that particularly turns her on... instead she just passively follows my lead. One time I sat her down and asked her about all kinds of fetishes. "Do you like role-play?" Reply: "sure, it's fine". "Do you like being dominant?" Reply: "sure, it's fine". "Do you like the sex toys I bought for us?" Reply: "They're okay." So I asked her: "You just say 'it's okay' to everything. But there must be something that REALLY turns you on... something that really makes you feel hot and steamy." Her reply: "Mhm... not really." So I said: "Are you saying you don't have any sexual fantasies?" Her reply: "no... not really."
I don't think there's many people like that.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Boob jobs. I think its boring and gross but I'll let it happen on occasion.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE