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Do women actually have sexual attraction to men?

I read a question recently asking what it was that turned men and women on.
Essentially all the guys said something regarding how sexy they find the girl, her legs, shape, breasts etc
Where all the straight female's answers were essentially based on how their partner desires them, orgasms due to them etc

So are girls even sexually attracted to men?
they dont get turnes on just by hot guys, male bodies etc
I believe girls can feel romantic attraction, love etc but they don't ACTUALLY have sexual attraction to men, their sexual attraction is based on narcissistic interest in them from men.
So what do u guys think?
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Love how all the females that said they donfeel sexual attraction when further analysed gave some dumb response like their attrscted to movie stars or hair.. This doesn't count as being sexually attracted to men. Ur attracted ti the character u see him play on tv/ videos. Why are females so blind to realise they aren't sexually attracted to men themselves.
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  • All men and women attractions are different but in general men are attracted more to a woman’s physical quantities of his preference mostly related to fertility, and women find other things sexual such as confidence (relating to protection and provisions), and humor, and mischief (similar to bad boy). A woman’s sexual arousal is less visual and more of an emotional state of mind so all conditions and settings have to be right to get her there suggesting the woman is much less attracted to men’s physical attributes. Also, a woman processes stuff we never even consider so they, from our perspective, over process attributes of a potential relationship and thus take much longer to respond and also it is related to the longer time associated with orgasm. With that said I have been with different women that were attracted to and sometimes seemed to obsess (by constant fondling and/or comments) over a single thing such as my chest, my hands, my height, my looks in a suit for some reason (maybe that provision thing kicking in), and eyes but most followed the above explanation. And yeah of course the one of most interest for most, I did have women that were into my dk if not obsessive. So not all women are the same and some do find some physical attributes important but not close to as much as men do.

    • I appreciate your effrot to respond with such detail but dont u see my point? None of the things u mentioned sbove that their attracted to are specific to men.

  • I think that what you're getting at is a bit of a confirmation biased based on the fact women tend to prioritize a sense of emotion and mental attraction over raw sexual appeal. Unlike us guys, they don't seem to automatically "swoon" at the idea of a very "sexual" male- or a least, *they're a lot more discrete* about it. Honestly, I'm aiming for the latter. I think women do care, but they're not as given vs. us guys next to a hot woman (then again, I wouldn't just give in either).

    It's somewhat a good question, regardless.

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  • This is a good question, and I see a real effort to be neutral here, but let me just point out your bias really quick. You name the things women are attracted to "narcissism" and just neglect to give the things men are attracted to any label at all. Here's reality: Men are attracted to women's looks. That's "shallow."
    Women are attracted to men who are attracted to them. That's "narcissistic."
    Or it could just be what it is. We don't have to pick negative labels. Men are attracted to fertile women who make them feel needed and women like pleasing men and feeling wanted.
    There's nothing wrong with any of that. Some women are straight up evil. That is absolutely true. But there is nothing evil about the general biological and instinctual characteristics of women. And the same thing goes for men. You aren't terrible if you're attracted to a women only because of their looks.
    Attraction isn't super important in a relationship anyway. As I'm sure you're aware, the prettiest girl could be attractive to you initially until you realize she's totally insane and then what? Personality overshadowed it just like that.

    • So, you and women don't sexually attracted to men? It's only men who sexually attracted to women? If you are not attracted to men then what opposed you have sex with other women? LOL Your comment doesn't make any sense.

    • (Attraction isn't super important in a relationship anyway.) So, make a sexual relationship with a woman, you would not mind make a relationship with woman because attraction isn't important in a relationship anyway.

    • @QuerulousXytenar We like how men make us feel. Emotionally. There's not just attraction and neutral. The idea of having sex with a woman ranks lower than not attractive. It's gross to me. I can't even think about it. Just no. It's negative attractive. I said it isn't super important and went on to explain how it can be overshadowed by more important things. I never said you should toss it to the curb, come on.

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  • Yes, just depends on the woman and the guys she's thinking bout. It's no different from when a guy sees/meet a girl and finds her sexually attractive. Women can be the same not to say that some women may not feel that way. But it can be when I see a hot guy he's sexy bet he'd b good in bed kinda thing. Sometimes the personality is sexy and sometimes certain parts of him like ass or arms are what we think about Ik several of my friends and I will talk bout guys we think bout sexually.

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • Yes, I'm one of them along with several girlfriends, there are girls that are turned on by men's body not to say that there are women out there that's have nor the emotional connection which happens when girls have a crush etc but girl look at guys too that's where the sexual attraction come in we don't have a crush we don't speak to them usually just watch and admire

    • Are u sexually attracted to girls at all?

  • Honestly I'm not even gonna sit here and explain anything to you since I can see you just keep copying and pasting the same response to everyone. Obviously you made up your mind, but maybe did ya wonder if it's just that women aren't attracted to YOU?

    Just putting it out there buddy.

    • holy shit

    • Amen.

    • Or women aren't genuinely attracted to men and for them its the emotional and narcissistic interest the guy has for her.

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  • It's not that we don't appreciate the visual, it's that we need MORE than a visual. We need the right tone of voice, the right type of touch, hell even the right kind of smell. And I've been attracted to guys who I've just met simply because they were doing something that I found attractive (laughing, rolling up sleeves, running, etc.). Women just enjoy more sensations then men do I guess.

    • No men are turned on by all those things you mentioned, the difference men are actually fully turned on by these as well as the visual aspect. Women just aren't actually turned on by men, their turned on by a man

    • Why would you ask a question about someone else's perspective and then deny their answer? You're not a woman, yet you've been denying any answer a girl gives you because you think you already know the answer. What's the point of asking the question? Are you trying to see if we're lying or something?

    • Because their answers aren't valid. How can u argue u are in fsct sexually attracted to men with the response ur turned on by movie stars or their hair? They are turned on by movie stars because they have a sense of their personality and attitude, even if it is from a role they played. And hair? Thats not even anything remotely specific down to the man. Women are just not by nature sexually attracted to men and these responses prove it

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  • You simply don't understand the differences between male and female sexuality. Male sexuality is very visual, as in a pair of hot boobs is enough for some men to get a boner. Female sexuality on the other hand is very situational. We generally need to find ourselves in a sexual situation to get aroused. So just looking at a hot guy won't do much for a woman but looking at a hot guy undress himself because they're about to have sex can be a major turn on.

    • Im aware of this but its not all females who are like this, only straight girls. Gay women are just as turned on by womens bodies as men. On the other hand, straight girls i believe they answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • That would mean that no straight women ever would be able to have a one night stand, as they couldn't be attracted to someone they don't know. But especially nowadays as women are more sexually liberated one night stands are almost a common thing. I think that lesbians are more comfortable with their sexuality and therefore it is easier for them to say if they think someone is hot. Or maybe whatever influenced their sexuality also influenced the way they perceive it.

    • Saying “women aren’t visual” implies that women don’t feel attraction to a man’s looks, hence why many guys wonder if women don’t find men attractive to begin with.

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  • sure we do

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • What you said makes no sense what so ever! Why the hell do you think we fuck guys who are in our opinion hot and we know basically nothing else about them?

    • I think he means in regards to how women a lot of times base it on "well I really like his personality" and the like. It makes sense, in a way- but don't get me wrong, I don't really believe he's right. You must have better reasons than I do. Though, I wouldn't mind if a woman simply liked a man for his raw features and attractiveness.

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  • Well duh, ofcourse there's sexual attraction.
    A guy covered in tattoos can get me all hot and bothered 😂

  • We do, but it's even stronger, not to mention better, when those feelings are returned.

    • Elaborate on "we do". Im sure u can see someone attractive and be a little interested in knowing them but this isn't sexual attraction.

  • Eh sure. But a dick alone isn't enough to be attracted to.

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • No, I do find guys I see on the street attractive too without knowing them. If I wasn't in a relationship and would be into casual sex I'd probably hit on them. So what?

    • Finding them attractive isn't the same as having sexual attraction to them though

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  • No shit Sherlock

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

  • Meh, guys bodies do turn me on if they're my type.

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • Of course. If it was just attraction to the personality, then I'd only find my boyfriends body attractive. Since I find people I have never met attractive and arousing, clearly it's not an emotional connection.

  • hell yeah

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • i'm in love with some stars bodies. never met them and no emotional connection what so ever. or maybe there is an emotional connection.. hmmm I like one for not only their looks but intelligence and caring nature

    • Thats just not the same. Your attracted to stars because they are in the spot light, their mysterious. Girls also often become attracted by the characters they play in videos/ movies, the say they talk, carry themselves etc. So its not just the man along your attracted to. So again, women dont have sexual attraction to men. They have attraction to personality and narcissistic interest in themselves.

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  • It's the personality and body combo you're attracted to. Sometimes only the body if I'm being really honest

  • My girlfriends are never attracted to "hot guys" or "male bodies". They don't work that way.

    What they are sexually attracted to is super intelligence, success, and power.

    These are evolutionary differences between men and women. Men are wired to desire a woman who is fertile, which a good body will indicate. Women are wired to desire a man who can protect and provide. Being physically strong is not as powerful as being intellectually and financially strong.

    • Exactly. Men are attracted to women. Women are attracted to things a man has or symbolises, but not the man himself.

    • No, they are attracted to the man inside the body. Men are first attracted to the body. (and the personality will either keep him or not)

    • So EXACTLY, thats my point. Women aren't sexually attracted to MEN. Its not MENN that turn them on.

  • I think they do. I’ve asked plenty of questions like this and most of the females who answered said yes they do.

    • I believe they answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to s personality.

    • I often wonder how they view men.

    • It definitely varies from woman to woman but i believe its more a mental thing that an actual instinctual attraction. Which would explain why dome women are visual and others aren't.

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  • Lmfao

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • You're funny

  • Yes but women aren't as desperate as men.

    • thank god

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • Nope. That's not true at all. I get turned on by seeing a big dick, doesn't matter if I have an emotional connection or not

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  • Because most women don't oversexualize the human body. Or should I say more so the male body.

    • Q : Do women actually have sexual attraction to men? A : Because most women don't oversexualize the human body. Or should I say more so the male body. how it is related?

    • It means women are incapable to experience sexual attraction?

    • It means the female body has been oversexualized for so many years. It has become tge norm for men and women to sexualize the female body. How many magazine covers do you see with half naked men?

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  • yes of course

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • no.. they actually turned on by men's physical appearance.. and they have fantasies too

    • No where near the level of men tho

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  • What is in your opinion sexual attraction? I don't get what u want to hear so please explain yourself. Is it a body that should arouse us? If we see a hot guy we sure think "wow he's hot" and there are sure many woman out there who would like to fuck him, so does that count as sexual attraction to you?

    • Sexual attraction is sexual attraction? Arousal, turned on, desire etc The question is do girls aftually feel sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • Im sorry to tell you but right now im sitting in front of a totaly attractive guy and yea he only attracts me couse of his appearance. I never saw him before by the way.

    • Well you are rare. Almost all the other girls have basically said women aren't naturally visual and dont sexualise the male body like that (one even said they sexualise the female body even more than the male one in their head).

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  • Well this was an entertaining thread lmao. Thumbs up!

    • Lmao do u think i have a point at all or u disagree?

  • yes we do boi

    • Are u sure its sexual attraction to men? i believe girls answer yes because they don't understand men's perspective. They think "well im turned on by my boyfriend or crush, so obviously we're attracted to men" When in reality they aren't turned on by men (their bodies and things that make men, men.) they are turned on by the emotional connection they have to a personality.

    • i am, i saw a man today and got horny by looking at him

    • And what about him turned u on? The way he carried himself, walked, moved?

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  • They can.

    • But the sexual attraction isny toward men, its toward personality.

    • 🤷‍♂️😊

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