I have been "lucky" enough that all my bfs have been well endowed. The lube thing is good but make sure you yourself are really turned on. For first penetration get on top to control it better. You may need a safe word so he knows when to stop. Of course I always find "stop! What the hell are you doing" to be very effective. If he bites your nipples to hard bite his nipples to hard. It sounds like he is doing what ever he wants without thinking about what it feels like for you. Remember you deserve good sex as much as he does.
1 0 0 0He might be a great guy in general, but it seems that he is selfish in bed or he doesn't respect you enough. Maybe tell him you won't have sex with him untill he starts listening to you. I think that's a red flag for this guy, when he doesn't really care that he hurts you.
1 2 0 0You have to tell him ab it. Maybe get some extra lube so it would go in easier, and rubbing yourself during takes the attention off. Communicate with him tell him to go slow, better yet take control so you can do what you're comfortable with.
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Your situation is a problem most women whould want to have. But i somehow get the feeling this is right at the start of your sexual experiences because this happends a lot in that time to many people. If i`m correct, then this won`t be a problem when you grow up a bit. If i`m wrong then that`s not a reason to break up with him at all anyway but you 2 can still do other stuff to please yourselfes.
0 0 0 0If he can't "control" himself to where he doesn't hurt you anymore, then he has no interest in a relationship with you. Plain and simple, you can't say you care for someone and keep on hurting them. My ex wife and I had similar problems and the fact is I had to leave her in the lead while I was on my back. The decision is ultimately yours.
1 0 0 0Thanks for the mho. I hope everything's working out. Happy holidays.😊
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4 23You have two choices here.
1) Find a guy with a smaller dick.
2) Give up fucking.1 0 0 0Count yourself lucky lol i havnt had a cock too big in a long time🙈🙈💋
0 1 0 0Omg why? TBH I would rather have someone with a smaller cock tho because big ones hurt like hell!!!
Lol make me your boyfriend then :p
Some would already call it rape..
0 0 0 0If physically you aren't compatible that's a problem and something to talk about.
1 0 0 0It's like hulk having sex with Tinkerbell from the sounds of it
2 2 0 0My boyfriend is 'big' himself and I'll admit it hurts.
When I asked him to be more gentle he was and didn't complain but if yours doesn't stop being rough I'd just refuse to have sex with him before he's more gentle with you.2 0 0 0How big exactly if I may ask?
Miss i think you are under age, since when you are having sex. And when had first Sex
Age of consent is 14 in germany, dude.. she's 15. I think it's horrible, but, that's the age of consent in Germany, where she is
Lol he sounds dumb as fuck and very selfish. You've already told him to be gentle. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings otherwise he would've tried to be gentle.
Looks like it won't work out because he wants to be Christian Grey in bed.1 1 0 0Don't fuck him. Just date him. He sounds very selfish.
3 1 0 0Tell him after the sex is over! He needs to respect what your body is telling him... he sounds like he is selfish bed. The good news is that you can teach him different. You’re going to need to get used to his penis by using gradually larger toys. As for the rough breast play, just slap him when he bites you.
1 0 0 0Take lubrications and have dental dam for oral sex... try different positions...
1 0 0 0Tell him to take it down a notch lol
0 0 0 0If you can endure pain, then continue, I read somewhere that woman genital will adjust to penis size which she usually encounter with, so its gonna be alright, my advice, do some exercises, longer foreplay, and don't forget to bite his glans penis in case he bite your nipples
1 0 0 0Aww babe talk to him go slowly slowly sex for njoying not for licking. I can understand babe
0 0 0 1Tie him up have your fun then explain to him, maybe he unloading frustration and his level of experience on you.
1 0 0 0We have all have problems but i think you should tell him about the problem and ask if he can do It gently if doesn't listen don't let him have his way. If you still want to be with him go ahead this is only a big problem in a relationship when one spouse doesn't listen, so push him away when he doesn't listen
1 0 0 0He'll get the picture
If he cannot control himself now, then he is not showing care and respect for you. Time to unfortunately cut him loose and fine a match that will lasted to your needs and not rip you in half...
1 0 0 0I'm very big as well. Been down this road. PM me if you want some advice.
0 0 0 1You should better ask him to go slow on you. Pains also occur if you have sex for a long hours.
How long do you have sex?0 0 0 0U obviously went into elaborate detail either cause u love it or want everyone knoing it also so what u do is keep doin it break urs3lf into it love it cause u do and stip being a xrybaby u want it now and say ur nipples dont get bit bet u want them to when ur streyched tht eay tho huh
0 0 3 0If he can't control himself to satisfy your needs, then sex with him isn't going to work
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