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Guys, What's the primary motivation behind sharing unsolicited pictures of your genitalia?

A similar question was asked yesterday Here
Almost all the people who replied Do Not share such pictures. But I want guys who share unsolicited pictures of their genitalia to answer on my question.

There really aren't any research studies looking at this question, and so all we can do right now is speculate.

Theory Number 1 :
Men love the idea of receiving such pictures from strangers, and they assume women do too. In this situation, men really are hoping and thinking that the women will be turned on and send them a pic in response.

Theory Number 2 :
Male mating strategies have always included an element of "boldness," where men who are bold and brash sometimes garner female attention they wouldn't otherwise receive if they were nice and polite. So, the "shock value" is a way for men to get attention. And negative attention is better than no attention at all.

Theory Number 3 :
It's probable that some of this connects to the fact that in an anonymous environment, people, and especially men, are likely to engage in more sexualized behaviors. Men receive a sexual thrill at the idea of an unknown woman seeing their genitalia.

Theory Number 4 :
Men fear sexual rejection, and by sending pics of their genitalia, they are almost getting "pre-approval."

Theory Number 5 :
With the increased accessibility of porn some guys think it is totally normal to send dick pics.
Any guy who’s watched porn would not be fazed by random boob and vagina pics. So, why are women so offended by a random dick pic?

Theory Number 6 :
Guys believe they are being thoughtful. They assume that women will truly appreciate that unsolicited dick pic — because, after all, there is nothing they would love more than to receive an an unexpected, naked picture of a woman.

Do you agree with any of the above mentioned theories? Or is there any other reason behind sharing pictures of your genitalia?

Share with me what is personally your motivation behind sharing unsolicited pictures of your genitalia.
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  • These are very good observations and theories, several of them (if not all) are probably correct in some (or many) cases. I've never sent an unwanted genitalia picture, the girl asked for it and i delivered. It was both because of my poor self esteem I had and I've always been turned on by the thought of pleasing girls and the feeling of girls wanting me. Exposing myself helped me conquer my great fear of being naked in the presence of others. The many compliments I received on my pictures were basically the only compliments i ever got, and so I became a little addicted to it. It's easier for me to show my dick to others than my face, it's always so much easier to say bad stuff about a face. This is my story about it... i know it's a little weird but everyone does weird stuff at some point in their lives. xD

  • I have not sent unsolicited ones.

    I'd guess it's 3, combined with a fast extreme filter on who to talk to more.

    • Fast extreme filter?

    • The ones who aren't simply in it for an exhibitionist thrill are, I presume, looking for sexting partners. It's an extremely fast way to contact masses of potential partners, and anyone who responds, you're instantly sexting. Maybe it's more efficient then working slowly - just spam 2000 women with dick picks, maybe a handful respond. It's like sending spam - it has a very low but non zero success rate combined with ability to use it a -lot-.

    • Oh woah. Okay. Thanks!

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  • You do thag only with your girlfriend. Or maybe a girl whith whom you've already talked about sex and agreed to share such pictures.

  • I suspect it's some sort of ego boost thing, makes them feel manly, or they get an adrenaline rush from it.

  • This may shed some insight into it: www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...d-crude-enthusiasm.html
    But I haven't done it so I wouldn't know for sure.

  • I gotta ask. Have you received any unsolicited dick picks since posting this? If so, a new theory emerges: the trolling dick pic?

  • Could be that this is a false narrative to begin with... like the rape statistics and its not nearly as common as people say it is.

    I love the halo effect though... Like we don't get the same shit from women.
    *Screen name* 18-24
    Why are guys so mean and nasty *pouty face*

    Anonymous 18-24
    My bf's dick is too small should I cheat on him?
    Hows my ass look?

  • Absolutely no clue, never done it.

  • Can you please ask the question in English?
    Thanks

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  • I have a more accurate theory

    Accurate Theory: They are fucking mental

  • No sure. I hate when women send me unsolicited nudes

  • Because my dick is a work of art and I need to share it.

  • It's bad enough sharing a face pic on here let alone ur junk

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