How do I cope with a 5 inch penis?

My girlfriend told me that my penis is smaller than her ex that's why she couldnt orgasm. Hoe do i cope with this? She said she got used to her exes 7 inch. I don't wanna break up with her if that's what you guys are thinking, i love her, i just need advice in how to cope up with this insecurity. Help ladies and gentle men?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Hey my man, kinda in a similar boat. Me and my girlfriend had a similar chat but we listened to this podcast together and basically you gotta find more ways to get her to orgasm. Lots of girls can't orgasm just through penetration so doing other things like just different types of foreplay and trying different ways to get her to orgasm before actual sex is always a good way to go as well

    • I hear ya man. Im glad im not the only guy with this problem. Tha js for the advice.

  • You need to figure out her body and her rhythm. You can't just stick it in there and move it in and out. Find an idea angle that hits her spots, find the motion that gets her worked up. It takes a bit of practice, but once you get it where she cums so hard it looks like she has pissed the bed, you know you got it right..

    • Ill try bondage

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  • Well since it’s average, there’s nothing wrong. She’s just a stuck up c*nt (not to be harsh).
    You’ll just have to work harder and give more stimulation. For example, clit stimulation works wonders. Maybe invest in a small vibrator or just use you fingers to rub it. It’ll help.

    • We do use toys and vibrators. It's just an issue that for some reason has manifested into problems of our relationship, i just get pissy all the time, but i can't tell her its the reason why lol

    • Well, look up other ways. I don’t think it’s her, I think it’s her

    • I didn't understand what you meant lol

  • It's all about the way you embrace your size son! Treat your penis like a problem and you better believe it will be one. Men are different and so are their penises (thank Lord) there's nothing to be insecure about.

    • So i shouldn't be insecure right? Cos i was never insecure till she brought it up. My god, i didn't even ask her lol.

    • Right! Just tell her that comparing your sex to her ex won't make yours look like his so she should just accept it and move on

    • Thats true, its not like i can do anything aboht it

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  • Get rid of the inconsiderate Whore. You are avg. size and if she is that insensitive that she said that... she doesn't deserve you.

    • In many ways sometimes i feel that way, but since i love her i try to ignore it. Im just looking for a way to cope. Gag is a way for me to cope lol. Thanks bro

  • Stuff it in her ass 😂

    • We already do that lop

  • Use the force... or learn to use toys, your fingers, your mouth, actual good penile motion or a combination of all of these.

    • Ill use the force and a light saber dildo bro.

    • Was more talking eggs. Wands. And items that can help stimulate other areas while penetrating. But hey if she's into that.

    • Haha, alright bro, im thinking of buying a sleeve, we already have a wand.

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  • If your foreplay game is on point then 5 inches is more than enough! Work on getting her almost to a point of orgasm during foreplay and then while you're inside her with your cock she'll cum. Also Google the best positions for a small penis. Although 5inches isn't too small really

    • Yeah i never really thought of mine as small, her comment just made me feel insecure, thanks bro

    • Good luck!

  • You sound like a pussy, If she's bitching about two inches then just bang her till you cum her needs don't matter.

    • Ahaha, i could do that, but i wanna make her happy. I love this girl.

    • Yea I understand but she's literally complaining that her ex was two inches bigger lengthwise five isn't far away from seven. And she's putting you down and that's wrong you shouldn't subject yourself to this or this will happen to you for the rest of your life.

    • Eye opener man

  • I am six inches.

    • Thats good bro

    • Your size isn’t that important, you need to satisfy her in bed. With other stuff, body kisses, make her orgasm and tease her.

  • Tell her your ex had a better ass or bigger boobs than she does.

    • Lol, i couldnt