It's doesn't necessarily mean you're all those things. Some people are okay with that in their relationship and see it as normal and see it as there isn't anything wrong with it. I myself am not cool with it. I wouldn't breakup because of it though I would just be pretty hurt by it. A lot of people think it's fine and natural and a lot of people also think that it's a line that shouldn't be crossed. There are people out there who can comply to it and there are people who can't. I would rather my boyfriend be honest with me though rather than lie to save my feelings. Doesn't mean you're any of those things though, but you can't change her not wanting to be with you if you imagine other women and she can't force you to stop imagining other women
0 1 0 0Would you ever be able to get it and move on? All I want in REAL LIFE is her. I wish she would forgive me.
Its something i could deal with in a relationship but it would always be something that makes me feel insecure. I would say dont think of anyone you know. While i still dont like my partner imagining people like porn stars or anything its still better than a person in real life he sees often. And like people say it can help if you experiment more with your girlfriend that way you dont feel like imagining other girls instead imagine other scenarios with her or something. And the whole real life thing doesn't mean much, because fantasies are things you desire. You may never go after them in real life, but they are real desires in real life.
That's true but for me it was less than a fantasy. There was levels to it. For example when i fantasise about my ex girl I picture every vivid detail as if she's in bed with me. I imagine her body. Her face. Her expressions. Her touch. Just thinking about her can get me horny. Whereas I was already horny at the time. I had a hard time imaginong my girl. I was half asleep and just saw conjured up any pictures in my head to help me finish n get it done with. So in that sense would you still say I had a genuine desire to or nah?
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I don't think imagining someone else turned her away from you. I think no woman wants to be imagined that way. It's more like objectifying a woman only for sex. When you opened up to her she may have judged you not as a cheater or liar but as a person who might objectify her in the future which is negative. Some woman don't like it at all.
0 0 0 0I'm just going off your title. You could have a big imagination and tons of fantasies. Try doing some of the stuff you dream about with your girlfriend.
It's just your imagination everyone in one way or the other does it. Next time probably just don't bring it up to her. What you don't know can't hurt you.0 0 0 0
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0 2As long as you had no emotional connection with her or act on it in real life I think it’s understandable to do sometimes
0 0 0 0No, but you got a think it in order to do it.
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