Lets debate, is going to a strip club cheating? What do you consider as cheating; what are your limits?

[Anonymous]

I'd almost consider going to strip tease as a cheating. I would not be comfortable if my SO is getting shit horny over another chick who is giving him a lap dance, rubbing herself over him and makes him wanna f*ck her. Even if they dont have sex, there is not much difference for me if they would have it.

Same as if I imagine some strip tease guy slapping his huge c*ck over my face and rubbing it over my pants, making me hell horny and desiring him to f*ck me. Even if his majesty would stay limited on outside of me, I think there would not be much difference from actually having sex. It would still be something like having strong sexual moment together. Same like one night stand. Not much difference.

What one considers cheating can vary a lot. Some don't consider having sex with others cheating, only having relationship with others. Some don't consider oral sex as cheating. Some don't consider strip tease cheating. Some don't consider kissing as cheating, etc.
Whats your view?

[Cmasterson]

The thing is if you have to hide the fact you're going to a strip club it may be seen as cheating because you're purposely going behind your partners back, and lying to them. If they told you and you were fine then its not. If you're willingly going to DO something that would make your partner upset at the club it can be seen as cheating but also I think its important to know what happens at strip clubs and know whats possibly going to happen.. SO safe to say if my boyfriend went to a strip club for shits and giggles with his buddies, I'd have no problem, I WOULD have a problem if he went and made out or had sex with them, because thats not necessarily what goes on sure there's shady stuff going on, but what i'm aware of is that they watch naked/half naked chicks dance, may get a lap dance and tip them etc. I wouldn't exactly be thrilled if he got horny and let that take over his common sense and respect for me.

[Cmasterson]

To continue, a strip club- the strippers are just doing their job, if a random women one night at bar was doing the same thing It would be A TOTAL different story.

[sarahhouse]

Some don't consider having sex with others cheating, only having relationship with others. Some don't consider oral sex as cheating. Some don't consider strip tease cheating. Some don't consider kissing as cheating, etc.
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Who are these SOME's?

Sex is cheating unless you are in an open relationship.
Another relationship is definitely cheating.
Oral sex, fuck yeah, its' cheating unless like I said, you're in an open relationship.

But striptease?
In my book, no, t's not cheating.
I'm not saying I would shove a fistful of one's in my husband hand and send him to a strip club on a regular basis :D

But say a bachelor night or something?
Sure, why not.

[Regular1]

You are partly correct. A man is allowed to get his urges satisfied whenever he feels the need to. That's why the age-old concept of a mistress existed. Women, on the other hand, should keep their holes available for only one man. However, we know this doesn't happen, as women cheat much more often than men.

[sarahhouse]

@Regular1 You don't say? A man can fill any hole his want but a woman's hole is just for one man. You are so progressive and innovative, I am in awe.

[Regular1]

I'm not saying that's the way it is in real life today, but it's the way it should be. The world would be much better off. Whether you will admit it or not, women are much happier when they are put in their place by a man.

[sarahhouse]

@Regular1 I feel the truth of it right now, oh how happy it makes me that a man has put me in my place. I really hope you're trolling us cause if this is what you really believe, I hope Apocalypse is soon.

[Regular1]

Good girl. Even though insincere, you are saying the right things. Now, if you have a boyfriend, you should go and give him a surprise BJ. Just be sure and make him a sandwich immediately afterwards. You can be a decent girlfriend, it's not that difficult.

[sarahhouse]

@Regular1 And you can be a decent human being, also not that difficult.

[Asker]

Regular1 the world would be much better off for you and for men like you. Do you think women are not hurt when their men are feeling others' holes, instead of theirs? But yeah wait in your perfect world opinion or feelings of women dont matter. Sarah I had heard before (from men and women) that they dont see sex as cheating because they only see it as a mechanical act and there is no emotions between the two. So for some this is okay as long as it is for one night and they dont keep in touch with a person. That is why actually for me going to strip club or have sex with someone does not make much difference. If I could tolerate that my SO is getting hot and turned on by another woman and even physical contact with another woman than I could tolerate them having sex too. But everyone is different. I think in USA and some other countries there is more tolerating culture regarding strip clubs, correct me if I am wrong.

[Regular1]

If you do your job satisfactorily, he will never have a reason to have sex with other women or even go to strip clubs. Be a good girlfriend/wife, cook for him, clean, don't talk too much, don't argue or nag, and give him good sex at least once every 24 hours. You won't have to worry about his dick going into any other holes.

[sarahhouse]

@Regular1 Your lady must be REALLY satisfied with you :D :D :D :D

[Asker]

@Regular1 it has nothing to do with how much sex he gets at home, its about being scumbag an animal who has no higher values but does everything by instinct. Which is fuck whatever he wants and see.

[Regular1]

Actually, I have several that are REALLY satisfied with me.

[Asker]

And meanwhile thinks he deserves to be treated as superior. What a piece of garbage

[Regular1]

If you are doing your job right and giving him enough sex, he will not have the urge to get it anywhere else. If he is even able to get it up for another woman, it means you have not done your job well enough. Balls empty, belly full. No man will stray from that.

[Regular1]

Maybe you just need to find a new guy. Someone with lower standards who will be satisfied with you.

[Asker]

@Regular1 in your case also the place where brain supposed to be is empty

[Regular1]

And yet I have an advanced degree, and a half million dollars in my bank account at the current moment. Whatever makes you feel better about your pathetic life, sweetie pie.

[Asker]

My man is quite satisfied with me, that is why he has no need to go to strip clubs. Oh and bonus he loves and respects me, so do I. But you, well you dont deserve even the worse woman on this Earth. Or well maybe you do..

[sarahhouse]

@Regular1 You do give off that MILLIONAIRE vibe :D :D :D :D :D :D

[Asker]

@Regular1 money and shallow fuck is no everything in live, dirtyballs

[Regular1]

HALF millionaire (thousandaire?).

[Regular1]

I definitely agree with that. But my balls are sparkling clean.

[handyman129]

Great response

[KrisPW]

I would say that it is cheating if you don’t know about it before hand. I’ve given my blessing to my guy going for bachelor parties and such, and have never felt like he was cheating for it. He always came home after and I reaped the rewards!

[ShaunaM95]

I wouldn't say that's cheating. As long as he's honest with me about going and doesn't kiss any other girl or anything like that then I wouldn't consider it cheating.

[HeresJames1]

Strippers are in-person eye candy. Sometimes men dont wsnt to think and just want to sit back and enjoy a womans figure, but they can't do that in any other situation or women would think theyre weird. I dont think thats cheating, same as watching porn while in a relationship. On the other hand cheating is doing anything sexual with another person that isn't permitted by their spouse or S/O

[Asker]

What about lap dance and touching?

[Lultoki]

I don't think that's cheating, but that's not a classy move either

[Richareens]

Yeah, for me. Especially behind my back

[aria_kingstone]

I don't consider that cheating, but that doesn't mean I'll be cool with it :D

[kaskas19]

I would.

[MsPinkUnicorn]

Cheating is betrayal if you're partner would be okay with you going to the strip club then it's not cheating but if your partner isn't okay with you going to the strip club and you go anyways its cheating

[smiles23]

I believe it is.

[buttcrackjoe]

No touching of private part skin all else is fair

[zzzondarrr]

Anything romantic or sexual is cheating, some actions are more, some are less...

[giovannimontolivo]

Yeah its cheating. if he is sexually attracted to you he wouldn't need to go to a strip club.

[Regular1]

Different situations. If a female is doing her job and sexually satisfying hit her man, he will have no need to go to a strip club and get his dick wet in some strange poon. But if he decides to, no big deal. His girl needs to accept it and up her sex game if she wants it to stop happening. A female, on the other hand has absolutely no rights to go see naked guys. That makes her a whore who should be thrown to the curb immediately.

[Asker]

Thats the worse reply ever, what a misogynistic machist!

[Regular1]

No, it's the only honest reply that can be given. Any reply that contradicts what I've said, is a lie.

[sarahhouse]

Any reply that contradicts what I've said, is a lie. OH MY GOD :D :D :D :D :D Dude, what is your problem, really :D :D :D :D :D :D

[Regular1]

@sarahhouse I have an innate need to speak only the truth in all situations.

[Asker]

Your personal truth is not a universal truth

[sarahhouse]

Its not even his personal truth, it's pure misogynistic bullshit. He can whore around and every woman should satisfy his needs PLUS he should have one at home , willing to spread her legs EXCLUSIVELY for him. Logic is being fucked today. Fucked hard.

[Regular1]

@sarahhouse Shaming language doesn't work on me, Sugar-Tits.

[Regular1]

That's why I'm not speaking my personal truth. I am speaking Universal truths which just happen to be in line with my own personal truths.

[sarahhouse]

Thank you for making me laugh today. You did good *pat pat* Good boy.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it counts as cheating unless there's significant physical contact. I really don't mind my boyfriend looking at nude girls but absolutely no intimate touching.