Crush wants only friends with benefits with me?

I asked my crush out.
He rejected me and told me that he would only have a friends with benefits relationship with me.
After i asked him why he answered that he dont want to girlfriend me, other guys got me so easily and freely (i had ons and fwbs in the past) and he won't be the loser who has to girlfriend me only to get the same old shit others got for free. He dont want to waste his money and time on a girl who gives it away for free.

I was extremly sad. Then i thought that if i be friends with benefits with him he might change his opinion and so i agreed on being fwbs with him. He laughed quietly and said "no thanks, do i look so easy? Sorry but i dont give sex away so freely and easily. I will only have sex with a girlfriend. " Then he just said bye, rejected me and went home.

Why did he said this? Why didn't he accept my friends with benefits acceptance if he was the one who suggested it?
Why do guys care about it if their girlfriend gave it away for others freely and easily?
Why do guys do this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • YOur friend is just being an ass. He probably said he would only want an friends with benefits to see what you would say. So when you said yes, he turned it around and was a bit mean about it. You deserve better and not a jerk like him.
    But do find a boyfriend so you can get those urges out and be treated right.
    Don't let your EX-crush hurt you.

    • Thanks for the MHO and good luck out there. Find good guys, they are out there.

  • Grab a mitt because you're about to catch some feelings

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe because they like the chase to have sex with you or maybe they just don't like girls that have sex more then once at the certain age.

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  • We don't. He was testing you. It isn't uncommon to ask a few trick questions because trough those you can learn a person's loyalty and some other things

  • Well most of the guys don't like sluts

  • He's a jerk 👿

  • Honestly he is a jerk. Some people make others feel worst just to make themselves feel better