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I'm very insecure about my breasts size. What you think?

I was always insecure about my body so I decided to lose some weight. Since last year I lost a lot of weight, I wasn't very fat or chubby, but I've always wanted to be like a skinny girl.

Now that I'm on the weight I've always wanted, I've become even more insecure and Im always thinking and obssessed with some parts of my body, besides my insecures about my big nose or legs or my flat ass, the worst issue I think It's my boobs. They were never very big, but after the weight lost I could see they become smaller, special because all my old bras are too big for me now. Plus, all my girlfriends, all of them, have really big breasts, Its a really huge difference, so everytime we go out, besides I think they are also more beautiful than me, I can see all the guys looking at them and focus really on their boobs, and Im just there... with nothing...

Also almost all my friends and family are always making comments about how skinny I am, that I look like Im sick or something, and that I was a little more pretty before... which also makes me even more insecure. I feel good like this know, I'm on the weight I've always wanted, I feel really good but people always make mean comments, like nothing Its never good enough for them, and Im feeling tired of it...

Another big insecure about my boobs and can't never stop thinking about, It's when I'm with my boyfriend during sex. He has a big fetish for boobs, always likes to play with them during foreplay and stuff, and I dont feel like it's good enough for him, because I can't stop thinking about his ex girlfriend. She has huge boobs! So everytime Im naked In front of him Im always thinking how disappointed he must be and prefers way more his exs body over mine, because Im like a flat board.

People give me your honest opinion, I know I have no boobs, but Is It that bad? Guys do you feel any attraction for breasts this small?

I'm very insecure about my breasts size. What you think?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's his fetish for bigger tits that turns you on! You know it too! I think chics wit small tits ask these questions as a SHIT TEST to see who the quality status alpha males are and who the beta males are. haha. They secretly like when the guy wants bigger tits, because in her mind, that makes him look like he is higher quality alpha male (and when you think about it, it's true). The beta dudes don't really mind (or claim not to mind). Just something I've noticed in the past (I've been with tons of women, of all types, which is how I recognized this).

    No matter how many compliments chics wit small tits get, they'll ALWAYS feel insecure and inferior to chics wit bigger tits, and I hate to be an asshole (okay, maybe not, because my asshole ways do get me laid the most haha), but it's true, guys will always want bigger than a B cup. I'm Tall, hot, successful, big cock and can get pretty much any woman I want, which I usually choose least a C cup.

    It's a 'status' thing, even women want a dude who has some muscles and has a bigger than average cock (women who say size doesn't matter are lying and we ALL know it). It's the same with dudes and tits. The average or below average beta dudes may not mind as much, but higher status alpha males will choose women with bigger breasts. Just the way it is.

    I've even noticed that I'm subconsciously more of a rough prick in the sack wit women who have smaller tits. Ironically, they seem to love that shit though (like a degradation fetish or something). They know subconsciously that I can get a higher status female with bigger breasts, so they try harder to please in the sack and do more of what I want. One plus I'll give here though, it does seem smaller breasted chics have tighter pussies.

    But aside from that, I think most guys if given the choice would definitely choose a woman wit bigger breasts. He may tell you that it doesn't matter, while secretly checkin out the chic at the next table wit big knockers. It's just like if most women were given the choice, they'd choose a dude wit a bigger cock. They may tell their boyfriend or husband size doesn't matter, while secretly having a fantasy of a guy wit a bigger package. SIZE DOES MATTER! But you're welcome to try and change my mind on that. I'm in Northern California (near SF) and I'm a successful dude. Get at me if you're up for the challenge. ;)

  • First off, you do have boobs, they're sitting right there on your chest, looking all lovely. And there's plenty of guys that like small breasts, myself included. For most guys as long as your boobs aren't disgustingly oversized there is no complaints. Your boobs do look very nice and they're probably a lot of fun to play with. Now go and spend some quality time with your boyfriend with the boobs he no doubt loves.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Queen of small boobs, here.
    Firstly I'd like to say that your boobs fit your frame perfectly. There's enough there, and you're slender and lovely. You have a delicate, bikini body about you.
    Two, I used to be verrrryyyyu skinny. Everyone told me I was too skinny and everyone cracked jokes at me all the time. My boyfriend, now husband, actually told me I needed "bigger titties" on two occasions, and started asking people if he should feed me seafood because he heard that makes breasts grow. (It doesn't)
    So, with all the jokes and my partners dissatisfaction with my ass and boobs, I figured it was better to be super skinny because then, I just looked like a skinny girl, right? If I was a normal weight, I felt I looked disfigured.
    I started killing myself in the gym and I stopped eating. I lost my period. I ate egg whites and frozen vegetables for so long. Never corn, because corn had too many carbs. When I was hungry, I drank black coffee. I had to put pillows under myself when I slept because I was getting bed sores from my bones rubbing on the mattress. I almost died.
    BECAUSE OF HOW MUCH I HATED MY BOOBS.
    If I didn't have boobs or an ass, I just wasn't a girl?
    So I gained my weight back, and more so. I'm not overweight and I'm fit now, but it took a long time. And do you know what? People are telling me I looked better when I was thinner.
    I still have no boobs. But, I'm a magician with push up bras and I won't lie to you, men look when I wear one but they look no more than they do without one. It's just they might be looking at something else.
    You have a great body. Your boobs look good but I'm sure you won't believe it. Just remember every other part of your body has another girl looking and wishing she had it.
    As for your boyfriend, if he's making you feel like that I strongly suggest leaving. You will stay in love with him but you'll also stay hating yourself. Find someone who makes you see how great your body is. Not someone who doesn't.

  • trust me different guys are into different boob sizes. My best friend he only likes small boobs and find big ones disgusting. But there are other guys who would love u for who u are so stop stressing bbg :)

    • Yes many guys including me don't like big. 😉

  • Girl you have boobs when you are an AA cup like me then you will know what it is like to have no boobs
    honestly there is nothing wrong with the size you are and no its not bad I think they are perfect

    • Are you AS?

    • @Rockka33 - what does AS mean?

    • Are you AA?

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  • You have a lovely body. Your breast size fits your overall structure I think. As well, smaller breasts usually have more responsive nipples, and tat is my favorite part of breasts.

  • You are skinny so to me that's the size I would expect. It wouldn't bother me and I wouldn't think twice about it.

    Also you are fairly young and breast get larger in general with age as you slowly put on more weight. A young/High metabolism will keep them from growing/gaining in size.

    I've seen some sex girls with A/B cups.

  • Everyone will have their opinions on their taste. U want to be what they like or how u see urself good enough?

  • Toooooooooooo much words, simple - i prefer bigger, but if everything else is good its not a dealbreaker, i dont even care that much, if the rest of the body is shaped and good looking face.

  • I think you look perfect! I dont know for the other guys but in case it is the shape that matters and so much the size...

  • You look fine to me.

  • I'm more into butts but I mean your bust is fine, its small, but I find that to be cute in a girl. A woman with large breasts rarely has the 'cute'ness in her chest, and sometimes gravity will just fucking destroy them over time if they're big anyway.

  • can't see the face, so you do kinda look like a teenage boy. It's not the best angle or bra to use though. Black hides lines so you're right breast looks totally flat, where the left one does stick out a bit. Better lighting, better top, better angle, either way the face is the most important part. As long as you have a decent face and you aren't a bitch a small chest isn't going to keep you from finding love.

  • All boobs are great so don't stress. 😉 But if you would consider implants, don't overdue it.

    • Overdo*:/

  • your body is the perfect body type for me!

  • They're fine. (Doesn't believe me)
    They're fine. (Doesn't believe me)
    They're fine. (Doesn't believe me)
    They're fine. (Doesn't believe me)
    They're fine. (Doesn't believe me)
    They're fine. (Doesn't believe me)

    They're the worst! Christ those are awful! (Runs away crying).

    You can't win so I don't play this game. Your self esteem is not my responsibility, at this point.

  • they dont look small.

    • What is your bra size?

    • @Rockka33 i wear both b and a. i think i'm in between.

    • They're good to fondle

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  • they look great to me

  • They look wonderful to me.

  • Look perfect to me. I’m not into huge tits but those are a 10 in my book.

  • Your the size you are and it’s ok. Your not flat and your not large. Be happy the way God made you

  • Nobody worth a damn would care even if you were flat. Personality trumps all.

  • There's a little there. Lots of guys are into small boobs, even me lol. But if your that worried and want to try to make them bigger... its carbs. Bread, beef, pasta all of the stuff. And watch how much you work out your shoulders, it'll shrink your bippies!

  • You are skinny, and smaller breasts does fit that body type. I don't know if this is the natural weight for you, that's for you to decide. Just be honest to yourself about your health.

    As for boob size: I like both big and small, they both have their own charm.

  • You look good
    Don't stress

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