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Should women be able to “free the nipple”?

I don’t know how popular this is anymore, but it was just a random thought that popped up into my head as I was driving. I wanna know how you guys feel or see it. Should women be able to free the nipple, or should women not free the nipple? My voice: I personally don’t think it should happen. Girls nowadays complain about men cat calling, or grabbing onto them, or even random men slapping their asses when they walk by. Why would you want to walk around with your tits showing if you can’t handle a verbal calling? And what about those who are in relationships or in a marriage? Is it right to stare down or eyeball that topless woman who is walking by you and your wife/girlfriend downtown or wherever? It seems worse than porn because you could be walking around seeing people you know. That girl that’s been trying to hit up your man, she’s now walking past you and your man on the sidewalk topless. Over the years, boobs and nipples of have been very sexualized. I wouldn’t see any problem about it if people didn’t sexualize it as much as it is now. I sure as hell don’t want to see someone’s tits hanging when I decide to leave my house. Nor would I want my children to see that too. Your boobs are suppose to be for you and your man (or men if you have multiple sexual partners). Not for everyone else. I wouldn’t want my man looking at his exes boobs, or the girl he talked to before me, or the girl he works with, or the girl that flirts with him, etc. I don’t want him looking at them if they chose to “free their nipples”. I don’t think it’s appropriate at all. Regardless, you still have to wear a shirt if you go into a store or restraint. So what’s the point in constantly putting a shirt on and taking it off? Only time it should be acceptable is during breast feeding. That’s what boobs are suppose to be for, is to nurture children. Not for men to stare and sexualize and get hard one from.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well if a woman go topless it's not means that men are allowed to touch her without permission, just as men should not touch woman with cleavage or woman in bikini without permission. You said it yourself, the main purpose of boobs is to to nurture children, so they are not an real sexual organ. A topless man attract women as well, especially if he have good looking body. Don't act as if shirtless scenes are not an fanservice for women. Also boobs are sexualized more because women are force to hide them, if men are used to see boobs at around, then they are less sexualized, you can ask nudists about it. Anyway I don't have problem with 'free the nipple' and 'go topless day'. I can see why you feel threatened by it, but large part of it has to do with insecurities.

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    • If freeing the nipple stops the sexualization of boobs, then how is it suppose to be “special” for that one person you love? It’s suppose to be something private. I know my boyfriend would have a huge problem with me going out freeing my nips, but he’ll probably think it’s okay to look at the females who would free theirs. That’s unfair. Even if I’m married or if I wasn’t so insecure, I would still have a problem with my man seeing women naked who aren’t behind a screen. Going back to my first post, you said the porn stars behind the screen aren’t real and in front of us, well. These females walking around topless, are. Explain that please.

    • You right that unlike porn stars those women are fully real/not behind a screen, but on the other hand those women are not fully naked, they only topless, and those women don't do any sexual act. Also how is that not fair? maybe those women are single, or their boyfriend don't have problem with it. Who said that it suppose to be something private? people don't born with shirts. Well what makes it special is that they belong to the woman that the man loves, boobs by themselves are not that special anyway, most women are having boobs after all.

  • Women never really showed there legs 40-50 years ago.. now they are showing half there ass. If all women started going topless it would take a very short amount of time and guys wouldn't care about you nipples anymore because everyone was topless.. It would be no different then showing off your legs..

    • I still know plenty of people who still have those sexualized as well. And I don’t agree with shorts that expose a girls butt either. I was wear jeans and a sweater last night to the fair and this Carni Guy was literally checking every female that walked by. He thought he was being slick, and my boyfriend noticed it. The man looked at me and my boyfriend turned around and held eye contact with that man and almost stopped to say something to him. So, it may not become a “normal” thing after awhile..

    • well guys will always find women attractive. I'm just saying most guys are not going to be walking around with a boner just from seeing your legs.. So once the wow factor of seeing your breasts fades away they won't be getting boners from you topless either.. It might take a year or so. but it would happen

    • But what about butts. The whole “big booty” trend that went on, or that is still going on and it’s been around for over a year or few years? That hasn’t died down yet and people may not get an actual boner from it, but it could really spark some men’s minds. I wouldn’t want that happening with my man

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Most Helpful Girls

  • should women be 'able' to show parts of their body that got hypersexualized by the media?
    Yes. Last I checked, Sharia law isn't in full effect. Not in the west, at least.

    • @HaveNoName... no. I said nothing about religions other than Islam so I'm not sure where you got that part from?

    • Oh please. How convenient to wiggle out of it now.

    • @HaveNoName I'm not wiggling out of it. I'm asking you a legitimate question. C'mon- answer it. Where did I say anything about Christianity/Judaism/Hinduism?

  • In Germany they are many nudist places and you can sun topless or breastfeed without any trouble. If they are certain places I would say its okay but not everywhere

    • Agreed.

  • I wouldn't want to walk around topless, but I don't think it should be illegal or anything.

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  • While I understand that most women probably wouldn't rush to go topless in public, I think it should be their choice not to, not the government's choice.

  • Unfortunately, they've been covered up for sooooo many years, guys wouldn't know how to act if all of sudden they weren't. Car accidents would increase 10000% in one day, face slap incidents would sky rocket, and the death toll from heart failure would be astronomical.

  • Women actually can go topless in New york city if they wanted to.

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  • Most women have commented to questions I've asked about this saying "they don't consider breasts sexual", yet they won't go topless if they can? lol. I'm all for it. I think not only should it be legal everywhere, anytime, but if women actually did it, it would eventually become "normal" and accepted. People would eventually think nothing of it. Women might get "harassed" less, less rape etc. But I doubt highly there this will ever happen.

  • Free it

  • Yes! I am a big believer in this.

  • Women should be allowed to show their nipples whenever men are allowed to show theirs.

    • But men’s nipples aren’t sexualized. I pretty sure women are not going to look at a mans boob area and get a “female boner” because of it. But you have pervs, pedophiles, and just nasty men out there who will get boners here and there just because a nipple is showing. And what if they sneak a picture of you and use that to jerk off to later? As a female, that’s disgusting to even imagine. You have this pervy old man, or a normal or young aged man who is doing this. You can have a 13 year old boy taking pictures of this. As a mother or father, how is that okay?

    • If men really think they can't control themselves near a woman, then we have a rape culture.

    • There are some men who can control themselves, some who can’t, and some who choose to do as they please. Some will do it for jokes thinking it’s funny.

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  • i don´t care if you wear a bra or not but i think wearing clothes makes undressing for each other exciting and by just being undressed all the time you make undressing mundane and boring.

  • Should be able to get right.
    My girlfriend and her family at home free nipples, my girlfriend go out without bra too with any outfits.

  • I think they should, but it will never work in our culture for the very reasons you mentioned.
    Maybe it would fly in Liberal cities like San Francisco but nowhere else. But I don't think it would hurt to have topless beaches.
    But on the other hand, if they are doing it they should be aware of the risks.

  • I don't know why any guy would not want to see more nipples, I'm all for it.

  • Do it and wait a few decades - culture wouldn't sexualize areolas anymore 🙃

  • Completely agree with your stance

    • And the reason why

    • Thank you!

  • Yes we should. Any man who disagrees is gay and any woman who disagrees is a prude.

    • And you’re just going to shit talk and be fake, because you’re anonymous and don’t want anyone to know who you are. Fuck out of here cunt. I don’t need your shit comment on here 👌🏼

    • I support you

  • What do the women want?

    • Everything and we need to give it to them

    • @yehak What? I'm wondering if they WANT to free the nipple... when a spot clears up on my questions list I'll do a poll about it.

  • Fine by me, I don't mind something nice to look at once in a while. But one should touch without permission

  • Honestly? I don't care at all. If a woman wants to show her tits, I don't care. She just should expect some catcalling.

  • I support it

  • They can do what they want.

    • Why is that

    • Because the law doesn't stop murder, it justs says not to do so.

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