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Convincing a girl to do (insert sexual thing here)? Why is it that men can't understand you don't get to make that choice?

I've seen multiple questions about "how do I convince a girl to do ________?"
NO! You don't get to convince a girl to do jack shit!
You can ask for nudes you can tell her you'd love to try anal sex but you don't get to convince her to do a damn thing.
How about this, try being fucking respectful of what she thinks and feels and MAYBE you'll get what you're after.
Still a problem?
Find a different freaking girl. Stop hounding women to do shit for you.

I understand this isn't something only men do but it seems like it's a far more common thing for men to do than women.

Why is it that people can't respect other people's limits and boundaries?
I am all for pushing it but at some point you need to figure out you're getting pushed back and you're closing them off to even reconsidering your request.
Convincing a girl to do (insert sexual thing here)? Why is it that men can't understand you don't get to make that choice?
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