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Is it bad that I fantasize about being a slut I don't mean getting slutty with my boyfriend but fucking around and I hate my self for this fantasy?

I really have lots of kinky fantasies slapping tying being face fucked gagging whipping clips degrading justcrougj things but I don't feel as terrible about them and I accept them and I love doing them but the only thing I feel ashamed about is wanting to be a whore and not just for my man I'm never going to to it I'm never gonna let other guys get me or degrade me but even wanting makes me feel bad and 2 days ago I was talking to my boyfriend and I told him I cum so hard and squirted and he was pushing to know what made me cum so hard so I said I fantasized about gangband and he didn't say anything I really dont want him to think I'm a filthy whore I didn't mean to have these fantasies or even want that
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I m not embraced with kinky stuff I love them my boyfriend loves them that part is good what I'm embraced of is wanting to be a slut and gangbang And I would never ever ever do it or let another man but my mab degrade but when I fantasies about it I hate myself
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I can't see how isn't that clear the problem is not with kinky or being degraded I get that and I love that its with " gangbang" fantasy it bad
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What if I fantasized about fucking my boyfriend and his brother does that make me bad I'm never gonna do it but even the fantasy makes me feel really slutty bc its his brother and he pretty much acts like him so its like 2 of my man ik its sick AF but I'm really trying to open up
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Doesn't everyone want to be taken? I always hoped some horny girl would come in my house and fuck me for days. I always had to seduce or get a drunk mom to have a good fuck with. I have been a neighborhood dick for some of the horny soccer moms. I hear many sexual fantasys and these are well off, beautiful horny ladies. Many times they have requested another man or more, to have sex without any restrictions or rules. This opened up a poker nite for the guys and several mom's enjoyed being stuffed with cock. It is all around so don't think your different. Perhaps there is a men's poker nite close to you. A late visit may give you an idea. Then if you still want let them know your a poker player. The hard ons will take over when you are ready to invite them in. (Poker POKE -HER in the front, Liquor LICK-HER in the rear.

    • Never gonna do it just a fantasy I would never go that low

  • It's not bad that you have fantasies. Acting on those fantasies might compromise your relationship, so you either need to forget about being with other guys, get a boyfriend who is happy with you being with other guys or just be single. Maybe being in a relationship isn't for you right now.

    • Wtf I'm happy with my relationship I didn't chose to have these fantasies and I would never do it I said I would never ever do it and I like possessive men wtf is a guy happy with me being with other guys mean

    • Wtf are you saying wtf to me for? Wtf is that about? ;) Okay, I missed the bit about you not wanting to act on these fantasies. In which case there is honestly no problem. Your fantasies are your own and they are generally seen as a perfectly safe way in which you can explore your sexuality, your likes and your limits. No amount of fantasy makes you unfaithful or makes you a slut. Only your actions can do those things.

    • I'm sorry lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it's quite common, it just depends on the extent of your fantasies and how willing you would be to make it a reality that could potentially be a problem. I have really strong fantasies and urges similar to your own. I guess you have to just learn your limitations and what pushes you over the edge. Maybe focus on playing some of these fantasies into your sex life with your boyfie to make it "fifty shades of grey" worthy 😋 just focus on him and your fantasies with him, or be open with him about your fantasies... you never know what might happen.

    • I'm not ashamed of these fantasy and we both get really kinky he ties me and stuff I'm a shamed of having gangbang fantasies

  • I'm the same way. I can only make myself cum from fantasizing about really rough, brutal hardcore fantasies. I used to beat myself up about it because I really don't want many sexual partners and haven't slept with a lot of guys but at the end of the day you have to accept yourself for who you are. Sex is a primal desire, there's really no rhyme or reason to it. Honestly, I would suggest keeping most of your fantasies to yourself because that's what they're for, YOU. Not your boyfriend or anyone else.

    • But you should fulfill the ones u can with him

    • I think my boyfriend should know and tbh he gets most of them and that's how he knows how to please me he's really kinky to but this fantasy was too much I guess I hate it

    • how about you arrange a party put Viagra in the drinks and see the magic

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  • No, there is nothing wrong with having that fantasy. No, you are not a whore for having that fantasy.

    • I'm not a whore but I'm fucking crazy and I'm tired of being crazy

  • It's only a fantasy. Fantasies are harmless unless you act on them.

    • I won't I have pretty good self control

    • Then don't worry about it. It's absolutely harmless.

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  • Ok to be honest. Any kind of repression is inevitably going to lead to fantasies, and there is SO much repression, even though we like to pretend and say we are free!

    • Off there should be repression u can't just go fuck arroundvandvdo all

    • ANd why not? Who says we can’t? chuckle...

  • No, I think that's pretty normal, you shouldn't feel bad about it

    • And his brother fantasy?

    • I don't think that's too bad. I mean guys like to think about twins or sisters and things like that sometimes so you're not far off, I think it's okay

    • U r right what if I slipt once and told him about it

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  • Well if you be an pornstar at least you would make money from it.

    • No thanks I got self respect

  • It is only a fantasy and I had the same. So I think it is normal.

  • What you want is to be a submissive. Your right, your boyfriend is unsettled by this but, encourage him by only calling him Sir in the bedroom. He is afraid that you will be unsatisfied by him.

    • I m not ashamed of that u don't get it I'm ashamed of gang bang fantasy and wanting to fuck many pple

    • Oh... Sorry, then allow him to select who he will allow to assist him. And all present should understand that your boyfriend is the "top dog". I recommend using Kink Inc. guidelines. He should have enough self confidence to be able to allow you to express your darkest fantasies and TRUST you enough to always come home to him. At least let you try once.

    • No fuck no I only like possessive man not into sharing just a fantasy the min he's ok with it I'm leaving

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  • It's fine to fantasize about whatever turns you on.

    • It's not bad if you have fantasies about being gang-banged. Finger your pussy and enjoy it

    • You can fantasize about fucking his brother and father while you suck his dick. It's all good. It's fantasy

    • I did fantasize about his father 2 omgggi I'm terrible but only once tho

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  • Hey, you only live one time. Make the most of it!

  • We all have fantasies, many of which we would horrify us if we actually had to live them out. Don't worry about having fantasies. They're normal and harmless.

  • “Is it bad…?” Are you kidding? Being a woman today, there is NO bad. So you just do whatever you want without conscience and he will have to adapt and kya.

  • Na it all good I enjoy and being called a whore or calling my girlfriend whore in the bed room make feel dirty and it excited.

    • Well its different for a girl lol I wouldn't mind of many girls called me a whore but I can't handle another guy calling me that besides my boyfriend and fantasizing about it makes me feel bad lol

    • Yea and hair pulled?

    • Mmm yess

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  • As long as it stays to fantasising, you are good to go. Till you really cheate on him, then you'll basically be an whore

    • I'm never gonna cheat

    • Then you won't be a hoe

  • We all have dark desires some of us just choose to control them

  • I have a lot of experience in this arena as a Dom. It's really ok to have those fantasies, and very normal in today's society. The media bombards us with sex in music, movies, TV, ads etc., but at the same time girls are brought up believing that sleeping around is a bad thing, gives you a bad reputation. The fact that you are so adamant against ever going through with these fantasies though... leads me to believe you have some soul searching to do. I'd highly recommend checking out the book The Ethical Slut. It will open your eyes to some new perspectives.
    This may be a phase you want and need to, and should go through, when you are ready and the time is right.

    • I need some soul searching to do bc I don't want to be a slut its not about society its about being stained by many pple I strongly believe everytine u sleep with a douche u take part of their bad energy it keeps going on and on until ur energy levels so fucked up sleeping around it doesn't give u just pleasure it destroys ur soul ur energy levels and scientifically ur neurotransmitters since they r highly produced in a short time just like drugs so no the won't be a slut to have fun and end up being fucked up in many ways and just the image of being degraded by many and let them treat me like shit in real life makes me sick

    • Sorry you're feeling that way, and that guys have made you feel bad about yourself. You are still very young, and have a lot of life to live. Please read that book, it should help you gain self esteem and a good perspective on sexuality. No man should define you or how you see yourself.

    • Its not man just read about sex and aural energy and u will understand

  • I also fantasize about being a slut - meaning fucking around as much as I can, as you describe it. I'm not ashamed of that but it is different because I don't get to do it so it's more of a frustration. In any ways you shouldn't feel hatred for yourself, you can accept this feeling and deal with it as much as you can with your relationship situation

  • It's seems a good thing since it's helping you to cum and making the pleasure more intense. And it's normal to feel ashamed (I feel the same about my fantasies and I already asked a question about it xD ).

  • I always say, follow your dreams!

    • Not if they r fucked I would never follow them just don't want to feel about them and I really want to know if he's thinking I'm bad now

    • Just tell him to treat you like a whore to spice thing up. He will probably understand.

    • No one really understand he actually treats me like a whore slaps me spits on me face fucks me and tie me its all degrading I love it feel abit bad about it but its not the problem the problem is with my other slut fantasy of fucking around the gangbang is it really hard to get

  • Your 20 so seems like your just raging and it's normal just might not want to indulge on some of those urges

  • Whatever float's your boat

    • by the way, a lot of women loves that. you are not alone

  • No it's all natural u just need to keep up with ur fantasies and sex

    • Keep up with my fantasies

    • Yeah fantasize harder and ask your boyfriend to full fill them

  • Perfectly normal I’d say :)

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