Guys, Do you like receiving anal stimulation from your girlfriend (rim job, pegging, etc.)?

Question

I'm a girl who is extremely adventure driven in the bedroom when it comes to my boyfriends pleasure, and I found that it drives him wild when I give him rim jobs, use my fingers on him during oral, or peg him. I have zero issue with any of these, and absolutely love performing all of these acts on him, but I feel that it is such a taboo topic that there isn't much information on how common or how many guys actually enjoy, dislike, or have experienced anal play with their partner. I have dated quite a few men, none of which told me of any personal anal fantasies involving themselves before my current SO. So I was wondering, what are your experiences and opinion on anal play for the male partner?

LesterJester · Accepted Answer

No interest at all personally speaking. An ex tried once, it didn't end well. She wanted to do it, not I.

Everybody has their interests but for me, my pooper is for just that... Pooping... And the occasional fart.

I'm well aware of the prostate stimulation thing that is up there, but I get more than enough enjoyment without having that area stimulated... And I have no interest in having fecal matter introduced into my sexual encounters, nor do I have interest in having to shoot water or some junk up my arse to try and clean the area.

Too much work for something I care little about.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

As a guy who's been blessed with an anal partner, I can tell you it's a phenomenal gift. Rim jobs with fingers is amazing.

Have you tried a prostate massage combined with balls deep blow job? He'll literally explode down your throat.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10446-prostate-massage-properly-done-supercharging-a-hj-or-bj-with-anal

ChronicThinker · Accepted Answer

My guy won't let me near his buttonhole. To use his words: "If I wanted it in my ass I'd be with a man."

wassim97 · Answer

I don’t mind trying it but no one to do it with and i will not do it with anybody

Arbalest · Answer

Yup. It’s great. I think it’s gaining popularity. Lots of straight guys are into it. There’s still lots of homophobia of course. Guys think their butt cheeks are just two big gay faggots, and having a female insert something is the equivalent of letting your naturally gay homo fag butthole get the gay erotic satisfaction it desires! Or something like that who knows what they think. I mean men have mouths just like women do, is it gay to let a woman suck your cock?

MrMysteryMan · Answer

I've had rim jobs and fingers, but not pegging. I'm not sure about that since it seems like a submissive thing. As well, it would make me feel kind of gay. But then again, whatever happens in the bedroom is a bit different than outside of it at times. I loved the rim jobs and anal fingering. So perhaps I'd like the other thing, but still not sure about it.

Let me ask you this, do you feel dominant and like he's lesser than you when you peg him? It seems the view of it is usually you're a slave boy or the woman's sub and the female is your dom and it gets into the cuckholding shit and caging the cock and stupid shit like this. So, I was wondering if this is why you like to do so?

SarahsSummer · Answer

My guy won’t let me get even a finger back there.

Cammy137 · Answer

Its something my girlfriend and I havs started exploring. Stuff like prostate play but we hope to work up to pegging

GingerGuy · Answer

I'm not into anything anal, giving or receiving. I don't judge those that are, but for me, it has one purpose and it's not a sexual one! lol

Robsinsf53 · Answer

Absolutely no interest, "butt" have fun. (pun intended)

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

I love it. I've encouraged a few partners to give it a try.

keegan12321 · Answer

Never done it before. Open to try it with the right person

HamAndCheese · Answer

Nope. You keep away from there.

Philyouup · Answer

pegging , fingering , putt plugs,, rimming.. we love it all She loves using a double headed dildo, one end in my ass, and the other in the hole she feels like filling

Arthur33 · Answer

NEVER, VADE RETRO SATANAS 😂😂

AimeeKyle · Answer

Yes, it can be really fun and feel really good. Some of the best Os I have had was from my girlfriend using a thick vibrating dildo in my backside while sucking me off….. Feels AMAZING!

drewbaby1616 · Answer

I've honestly never tried any of those things, but being pegged by a dominant female is one of the top items on my bucket list. Message me and I will tell you about my fantasies.

Zekeramone · Answer

Sometimes a finger is a nice surprise lol!

workoutbug · Answer

Im straight as fuck. Just like any girl. When it comes to the bum as long as you take your time and are gentle he's lying if says he doesn't like it. I think men as they get older arnt as worried about the gay aspect of anal play. There not going to run off and tell all there buddies he likes it. But between u and him he's not gonna stop u.

LastNightmare · Answer

i would love that for sure... I love giving and receiving rimjob

Duzurra · Answer

I enjoy rim jobs and teasing with fingers, I've thought about being pegged but sometimes it's tough getting a butt plug in, so I don't know if I could or would do it, but sometimes yeah, I'm in the mood