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What is the truth about penis size?

What is the truth about penis size?
I really want to know the truth about penis size. To me my penis looks every bit of 4-5 inches though my girlfriend says it's 6 inches. I don't think it's very thick or girth but she says it is. My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years and she has never complained about my penis size. I am a very heavy guy and I'm trying to lose weight, heard that would make me see more of my penis. The thing is I've never believed my penis was big enough, always felt that all women want big dicks , 8/9 and 10 inches and very girthy type of dicks. I've never had any confidence in myself, looks, appearance and penis size, nor do I think I'm worthy of anything nice. The penis size thing has gotten to me so much that I've contemplated suicide and told my girlfriend that she should leave me and go be with a real man, someone who can give you more than anything I can offer in sex and life. I don't know where to go in life with this, every day I'm searching for something that will validate that penis size is important and big dicks are what women want.

Please don't answer with size doesn't matter because I'm past that point, I know that a 1/2/3 incher is to small and anything above 10 is to big for most so the ends of the spectrum is what makes size matter. My question is more for the average size to above average size. Will a 5-6 be as satisfying as a 8-9? I get that stroke and skill play somewhat of a role but I feel that if I can go deeper the stroke won't matter as much. Also please be respectful.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Okay buddy lemme break this down for you. First of all, if your woman says it's perfect then it is. If you don't trust her that she is honest with you then you have other problems in your relationship. Second yes size can matter, women have a spot called the deep spot, it is right before the cervix (don't touch the cervix it hurts lol). The place of this spot is different for every woman. Some women it is in 5-6inches some it's more some it's less. Just like men have bigger or smaller dicks. If you hit the spot it is very enjoyable for the woman, but you can also do it with toys as normal sex can also be very enjoyable for women. It's a little like stimulating the p spot during sex for men, great every once in a while, but sex without is awesome too. So don't worry buddy, it's all gonna be alright. And if you want to try to reach her deep spot once, but think you can't reach it with you dick, just get a nice dildo and go to town. Or a penissleeve for instance, but don't get hung up on it, cause I think you enjoy sex even though there is no finger up your ass everytime. And in the end, the opinion that should matter to you is your gf's, cause in my opinion that is the only thing in the world that matters. Love and peace✌️

    • Also about just dicksize, I have about 5-6inches, and my girlfriend thinks I am a god in bed and my housemates definitely know when we have sex lol. My girlfriend beat friend has a boyfriend with a 8.5 inch dick but apparently he sucks in bed and can barely get her off. It's all about the mental part of a woman, I can literally make my girl shaking dripping wet by just talking in a certain way to her. And a little stimulation to her nipples I can push her over the edge. So even if I didn't have a dick, I would still be better in bed than a guy with a 8.5 inch dick ROFL

  • Most of the nerve endings are a few inches in, so they can't really feel too much of anything going past that point. My girlfriend says she enjoys when I thrust all the way in from time to time because it feels like I'm trying to "fill her up," but it doesn't seem to matter that my dick isn't huge

    I was uncomfortable about my weight and penis size (4 inches, a little over 5 after I lost some weight) but my girlfriend loses it when I'm inside her, she says I'm great so I'm fine with it now.

    Most of the "lost penis" is hiding underneath a pad of groin fat; if you become erect and feel your penis from underneath rather than above it should give you a more accurate idea of how big you are (when I say underneath, I mean where your dick is pressed into your scrotum, I found that before I lost weight the fat pad kept my erection from "springing up" and angled it down).

    If you feel like your appearance is bad; work out, get some gains, and get some self-confidence, because feeling sorry for yourself is a huge turn off.

Most Helpful Girls

  • 4 - 7 inches are ideal penis sizes
    4.5 - 5.2 inches "circumference" girth is ideal
    If you're within these limits your penis is fine, you can still make a girl cum and drip that white stuff on your dick if you want to be technical, you can be a tiny bit less but you should practice foreplay, which you should do anyways. That said a cool and smooth guy with a 4 inch / 4.5 girth dick would get me wetter then a 7 inch / 5.2 girth dick because its more mental for women.

    THAT SAID! There is such a thing as too small / big size, 3 inches is too small, 8 inches is mostly too big, 3inch girth is too small and if i can't put my fingers around your dick its too big and i don't want it in me.

    Yes bigger does feel better, more tickle room, but being sexy is 10x more important then dick size. Being insecure about your dick is infact a huge turn off.

    And so you all stfu, there is an "ideal" size. Based off charts and experience, 6.5 inches long and 5 inches in circumference is more or less the perfect dick size

    • So 7.5 x 5.5 would be considered too big for you?

    • Before you insult me, read what I'm gonna say to you, that is the most important thing to do before the sex, and that is foreplay. Everybody knows that is the most important act, even more than sex itself, because it allow the couple to get more horny, relaxed and ready to sex without struggling and trauma

  • My friend once taught me this sensible rule: the ideal penis size varies from girl to girl. The ideal length for a girl is the length from the base of her palm to the tip of her muddle finger. The ideal girth for her is the broadest width of her palm.

  • I prefer smaller side... 4 to 6 inches. More than that and sex isn't as good.

    • Maybe because you forgot the most important thing on a sex act, which is the Foreplay. Everyone should know that oral sex, masturbation, cuddling and massage allows both of them, specially women, to make them relaxed and horny, than any female can deal even a 12 inches cock, since he's not going too rough on her. I hope I could help you

    • That’s average, not small. Small would be below 4

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  • Size desire depends on the woman dude. But the best thing you can do is make sure that yours is clean and functional... and this means using a penis health creme. These are made to infuse the penis with essential vitamins and proteins that benefit its hygiene, blood flow, erections, skin texture and more. All guys should be using one.

    • Your talking about those penis enlargement creams?

  • I'm posting this everywhere because I think it's important- size DOESN'T MATTER!! there's nothing better than a clean, hydrated, smooth penis. get it from a penis health creme. good luck.

  • *3 to 4 inches is the average depth length of the vagina canal until the virgin tents stretches or erects up 200% that is 3 of 200%=6 inches 4 of 200%= 8 inches 3.5 of 200%=7 inches (perfect vagina range 7-8inches) The Vagina is Potential space it makes space for a member. *The Posterior Fornix: Female Cul de Sac The Throne of The King is a full deep Vaginal Orgasm Space which is 7-8 inches inside of a tented, stretched, erected vagina. A very soft very smooth "patch" just behind the cervix. The King is Crowned by a Queen there. Women needs a penis of 7-8 inches in length to reach a full deep orgasm to match the full deep orgasm in a women. "Match" meaning equal a womens pleasure giving elements. The G spot (Queens Throne) and clitoris (Queens Tiara) areas have sensation a lot but it is not full orgasm. Deep penetration is Full Deep Orgasm.(Worship of the Heavenly Temple, Glorifying the Holy Spirit)

    • You are talking baloney. It has never been properly studied in medicine for obvious ethical reasons. Even with penis size the men have to volunteer and it gives a large average of 5.1 inches. These made up numbers might explain why porn is always edited because even the incredibly well endowed performers can't match these made up numbers on the internet.

  • That it doesn't matter worth a damn unless it is really small or too big.

  • Well, it depends of every female's vagina. If she's a virgin or had sexual experiences, your medium size's member will be enough for pleasing her. However, if she's a milf, a prostitute or a Size Queen, your medium size's small for them. But of course, you must remember that foreplay's most important than sex itself

  • Mine is about 5.5 inches

  • 4 to 7 varies

  • The average flaccid length among African americans however was 93.8mm (3.7″) compared to 87.7mm (3.4″) for Caucasians, which may be responsible for the impression that Black men have greater erect dimensions. Again, I emphasize that these observations must remain tentative.

  • Bruh.. My boy is hung like an elephant, in high school rumor got around the school that he was blessed with a footlong tool. I shit you not he had a diff girl in his bed every night. So ya size matters and if you're a white dude pushing 8" or more (real 8" not push a ruler 2" into ur ballsack to give ya an extra inch hahah) but ya if you 8" or more n are of the white race and you dont got those curious 18 - 21. Year olds hormoned up curious females wanting to try it out u must be ugly asf 😂😂

    • No man has an 8 inch penis. Well someone but it would be as common as finding a man who is 8ft tall.

  • The truth is that a review of 10,000 penis measurements where the vast majority were well above average gave an average of 5.1 inches. The real average is more like 4 inches or under.

  • I have some similar experience with this and can say I'm in the same boat. I've been with over twenty women and can say I've had a lot of different experiences some awful some good. I can say I have the same questions as you and want to know. Its never worth your life though and you have someone satisfyied! I've found working with what I think is a small dick 5-6 inch kind of thin I can get girls off when I turn them off mentally and go to work. But even though I've done that many times im still Insecure and have been verbally shamed many times

  • In my experience size isn’t the most important at all! If your girl says it’s fine and it’s doing the job (only you will know if it is) then you have nothing to worry about!
    You have what you have so embrace it, some willl be bigger some will be smaller, hell some will even be curved!
    In my personal experience I’m around 7ish and I find my partner sometimes doesn’t enjoy sex and can hurt as goes too deep!
    We’re as my friend can go as hard and as deep as he likes being a big smaller so he gets his Mrs off better than I probably could so sometimes I’m envious of that..

    All in all be happy with what you have as sounds like it’s doing fine :)

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