"loose" is subjective as others have commented. I would just like to put it out there, that while a "tight" vagina may put more pressure on the penis and be somewhat more pleasurable, it can also make the feelings too intense and cause the guy to ejaculate sooner. Some guys actually prefer to get into positions (such as the adjusted missionary) that allows for a "cleaner" entry to reduce stimulation for that reason.
I wouldn't suggest depending on a "huge" dick to get off though. Men with larger than 5-inch girth are uncommon.
Kegels are highly recommended, and you can use certain devices like Ben Wah balls and other vaginal exercise devices to strengthen the muscles. Bear in mind though that a woman's "looseness" is really just related to the size of the vaginal canal and its proportion with her body. Usually, a woman with wider hips will have a "wider" vagina, or a woman with a longer torso may have a deeper vagina. However, strengthening the muscles can allow you to squeeze your partner's penis and create more pressure to allow him to hit certain spots (like the clitoral ring, G, and A spots) and to give him more pleasure.
Yoga poses and squatting exercises can also tighten and tone the vulva area.
I wouldn't say it is a dealbreaker, as long as we can communicate and discuss ways to make it work for us. If she is willing to get really good at oral sex and allow me to finish that way sometimes that would be great. If she is willing to try different toys, fisting, modified positions, vagina tightening creams, and variety of other methods to experiment with that could make the sex so much more adventurous and fun regardless of vaginal tightness.
There would be ways around it.
The one thing to stress is not to shame a woman for this. What is the point? Personally, if I found it to be that much of an importance to you, I would save up the money for the vaginoplasty and help you if we were committed and in love. 3 grand might seem like a lot, but it is well worth it if it will make you happy and enjoy your sex life. And trust me when I say, most men get off on their woman's happiness and pleasure.
I’ve been at odds when this “vaginal looseness” idea. Can penetration of a large object on a consistent basis cause the vagina to not be as tight temporarily? I’m sure it does based on personal accounts of women that I’ve talked to you over the years. Also, do some women have naturally or biologically a tighter or looser feeling vagina than some even after arousal?
Ýes all round actually
I had that issue as well. I'm thinking someone with a huge dick would be best. Also doing kegel exercise every day will help, I've been doing it for a few days.
Thanks for the MHO
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Lasting longer makes the climax more enjoyable but yes, if the sex with a partner isn't good it matters to most people. I can't answer if you really are too lose and its costing you possible relationships, but its posdible, especially if their penis is on the smaller side.
Nah. Just stuff a roll of socks up in there and we're good to go.
If she's not tight, I leave her. No sense continuing if the sex isn't good.
Harsh but appreciate your honesty, so a looser vagina equates to bad sex in your opinion/experience
Yes, totally. I'm fairly well hung and if I can't get off because her vagina is too big, then can't create the intimacy that I crave and require for a successful happy relationship. It's got to be hot and sexy forever to last forever.
You can to lots and lots of kegals though and lose a ton of fat from hot yoga. That should do the trick for you. You'll be tight again in no time.
Isn't it like a muscle of some sort? So technically you can workout and increase the muscle strength.
Most guys would adjust.
I am blessed to see your consternation is derived not from self interest but in a true desire to be a blessing. That itself would make the issue a nonissue for me. A less compact vagina has much in common with a small penis in that all want to be perceived with prowess and equipment may present issues that later prove to be a blessing. For instance, no one wants to be reviled or ridiculed but if some people are so shallow and self centered that such will be an issue for them isn't it better to know now before trusting them with matters carrying more weight in terms of importance? I have heard it said the ocean is a self maintaining entity because it removes impurities through a highly complex system and perhaps that is what's occurring with you. If such realities distance those with lower character and attract those who also may be despised for similar reasons causing you both to look deeper for that more valuable how are you any worse for wear? You may trade off the more immediate for a brighter future but in finance (as well as other matters) a cost/benefits analysis is always warranted. Be yourself, be content and be blessed!
Don't over think it. It's fine.
I would date a girl with a loose vagina , wouldn't be a deal breaker
there is lots of ways to satisfy both of us sexually without worrying
about a loose vagina. I wouldn't want be judged for having a smaller
size to average size penis always ways to work things out is how i
see things.
Sadly it's all down to muscles in that area. Child birth can do a lot of damage.. It doesn't make her any less a woman...
As long as she's a nice person and has other things to offer, it's not a deal breaker.
Doesn't sound like a problem to me.
Lasting longer isn't always a good thing. I could stick my dick in a bowl of warm water and lasts forever, but it doesn't mean I'm enjoying myself. One of my FWBs has a pretty loose pussy, so I only bone her in the ass.
If your vag is that loose, give up the back door and work your oral skills. We will adapt.
Bowl of warm water lmao
Could I fit my fist in there? (I've got large fists) always wanted to do that
I would be traumatized if I had a child too.
Ripped from my a to my v so yup, traumatic🤣
Poli Grip cures all problems. Lmao
I had done many but never felt so loose, i dont think pussy can be so loose you can't feel it, they can be bit tight or loose but it can be easily manageable with many position.
I see no issues
There always other ways
Probably
It can be fixed. Talk to a doctor or gynae.
Doesn’t it go back to normal after a while?
Not always, it can get looser with age and childbirth, doesn't happen to everyone, luck of the draw. But definitely not caused by sex or lots of it
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