Girls! How does it feel going from having regular sex with a larger man, then being with a man who is smaller?

So im seeing a new girl, she's talked a bit about her ex boyfriend and how much of an asshole he is... but then went on to say how great the sex was with his 8 inch penis... I'm about 5.5 inches at a push and I'm worried that she's gonna be miserable when we have sex and she might leave me because of it. She's giving a lot of signs that good sex is important to her. So ladies, if you've had experiences with men that have larger penis and then went with a guy who was smaller, how big if a difference did you feel? And did it get better over time?
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  • Personally my ex was smaller than the one before. Ex was not as well endowed as previous fb not that I measured but he did on his own no prompting from me nor did I tell him he was smaller I honestly don’t think it’s okay to say things like that. The girl your sewing shouldn’t have said any of that.

    Sex with the bigger penis was great
    Sex with my ex was even better and he was smaller. It didn’t feel much different to me but my ex knew how to use his penis and loved foreplay and made sure I was getting all the stimulation I need both from penetration and not. And honestly sex was amazing with both. I preferred my ex although he was smaller.
    With all that said after relationship with ex ended I went out with another well endowed man casually, purely for pleasure but was probably the worst sex I’ve had. Yes he filled me up and moved like one would during sex but he didn’t hit or touch the right spots making it very very very dissatisfying.
    I say it’s the motion not the size. Best advice is to get to know her. Her likes what she enjoys what make her quiver and use it to your advantage. Good luck!

  • I think you're giving this too much thought. I also think this girl needs to learn when to shut up. She'd be pissed of you went on about your ex and how tight she was. I'll never get why women think it's ok to pull this shit. Smh
    Anyway, I've been with some pretty big guys and I've also had smaller and average guys. I'm not going to say size doesn't matter at all, it does a bit, but it's usually more about width than length.
    I was with a guy that was a bit below average and I still enjoyed sex, came every time and had no issues. He wasn't the best sex I've had, that wasn't about his size though, it was about his technique and unwillingness to take directions.
    As long as you're willing to listen and give her what she needs I don't think you're going to have an issue.

    • I'm very inexperienced sexually. My only sexual partner had a very low sex drive and I'm quite the same, the girl I've been with before hated foreplay and any position that wasn't missionary... I've had sex like twice and both times it wasn't great so im very paranoid. Thanks for your opinion😊

    • We all start somewhere. Try not to get too in your head about this or it's just going to hinder you further. The other thing you need to keep in mind is, a lot of women don't cum from penetration. You need to be willing to put in the time for foreplay with most women. So you need to be willing to either get her off with your fingers or orally. The upside is no two women are just alike so while you're inexperienced you still have to learn what this particular girl likes so hopefully she will be willing to guide you through it. If you have other questions or anything you can message me. Otherwise good luck. 😉

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  • I'm sorry; I'll get to the question soon, but why in the world would she bring something like that up before you guys have had sex? Was the comment prompted?

    • I dunno, we got into a little bitching session about out exes and she was like "to give credit where it's due, the sex was phenominal" and went on to give details

    • I won't lie. It's odd. I do understand, however, getting nervous after a partner brings up a previous amazing sex life. (I'm rather inexperienced, so I could never keep up with someone who was.) But, when it comes down to it, she is likely exaggerating on the size of this guys dick. And, it really isn't about exactly what you have, especially since your penis size is on the slightly larger size of average, but how you use it and your ability to pleasure her in ways without your penis.

    • dump her... if she is giving details and bragging about the sex and cares only bout sex more then anything else she is a shallow bitch I am sorry if that upsets you! I never get detailed with that info... bout my exes to my man... anyways I had 8 and I didn't like it my man is 7 1/2 and it feels like he is ripping me appart at first then again if it is to small to feel that is not any fun either lol.. I am tiney I hurt him if we go a long time without sex haha... anyways if it is not big enough use an extender also do lots of sexual things before, during and after sex. it's the motion in the ocean... my opinion only though...

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  • extenders, sex toys come in handy if you can not please her with your member... oral sex makes me have "pleasure siezures" lol.. but I hardly ever have huge orgasims unless I do it myself lol... I care more about personality, if we have stuff in common, romace, getting my face touched, joking around together, playing ps3 and pc games sometimes together exct more then sex... I love love more then sex then again that's just me

    • if you only had sex with two people and not much of it you should watch porn they got videos on "how to" do sexual things... sex should not be supper important.. I am not that experienced was a virgin till I was 21 I am 29 now and been with one guy 4years another a year exct... but you need to tell her that and see how she is.. if she wants to teach you let her do that if she runs away she isn't worth the tears you could cry and time waisted in your room alone {my experiences anyways lol}.. be honest and see how she reacts then you will know if she really likes u or not and if she is over her exbf or not!

    • Thanks very much

  • If she likes it deep try out positions with wich you can go as deep as possible. Not all girls do however, so no panic. And lots of foreplay.