An abortion should always be an option, no matter what circumstances.But I would like men to have some sort of rights in the decision process as well. I mean, even while it is her body, it is his little kid that is about to get killed. Why can a woman abort it without him having any chance to keep it alive? Perhaps he could imagine being a single dad, if she doesn't want to be a mother.
It’s not as simple as saying for one person it’s ok and for another it’s not because of another’s personal belief and assessment on their situation. It’s legal, there is a time limit and anything under that is their own business
so it's only ok based on if it is legal or not? it doesn't matter what people believe?
People believe different things for different personal reasons, why should one persons beliefs dictate another’s life? I don’t believe that people should have children unless they’re planned for, have enough money in the bank for 6 months off work and are married to their spouse. Does that mean anyone not in my ideal criteria should have mandated birth control until they meet it? No. It means that I’ll live by my standards and others live within theirs while staying within the legal boundaries. It’s the best that can be done
So then how would you feel if a law was passed banning abortion? would you accept that?
I wouldn’t have a choice would I
you could vote for people that support what you believe for example and possibly introduce a bill to ban or support abortion.
You’re still missing my point. People can have all the belief they want, they can support the laws they want, they can live by their own outside of those. They DON’T have the right to tell others how to live when what someone is doing is legal. What I would choose to support isn’t relevant to your question and if you push it then it’s clear you’re not up to the question you’re asking and just want to disagree with people
I'm seeking truth ultimately. And in doing so trying to understand how people reach the conclusions they reach; thats all im doing here.
And I’ve given my version of that, that while it’s within the confines of the law there is no room for right or wrong when deciding who gets to have an abortion and for what reason
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Absolutely, that child should have to have parents who thought it was a good idea to play with fire, they're clearly not responsible enough to raise a child. I'm sure there are some who would choose to keep the child and do a great job raising it but they'd have to do some serious growing up If they thought that was a good idea
Yes, because she's not equipped to be a mother at the moment so she definitely have an abortion. Babies cost major time, money, and emotions, you should be at least somewhat prepared to save both you, the father, and the child some heartache.
If you're adults you should be clear on birth control methods used. As a man the best you can do upon having sex is asking what her method is prior to the act. ALWAYS ask and be clear because condoms break and that's what morning after is for. I have an IUD to make sure but in younger days with partners still got tested even if condoms never broke every 6 months.
so is that a yes or no?
Personally I believe that abortion is murder however! There are a lot of factors to consider with being pro life- it’s not just pro life in the womb it’s pro life after the womb- the quality of life that you can offer that child after it is born.I think any woman should be able to abort a baby if she feels that she cannot handle the responsibilities of parenthood, my own personal beliefs shouldn’t affect another woman’s choices.
I think that it’s wrong she didn’t use protection when she knew what happens when you don’t.. however I think abortion is okay it’s better that than being a parent when you’re not ready. If I know I can’t raise somebody with a good life and it’s unprepared I wouldn’t be able do it especially financially and dealing with all the other stuff you don’t have together in your life yet.
Nope. It's not that hard. I'm pro choice but abortion is always a last resort. Do everything you can to prevent pregnancy if you don't want kids. Abortion isn't birth control.
If she thinks that she's not ready for the responsibility to have a child (and if she still thinks that pulling out would be a safe method to prevent pregnancy than she sure isn't) than it should be okay.
Personally I believe that abortion is wrong and should not be an option at all. There are other options other than abortion. I totally respect other people's beliefs on abortion. If my friend were to get pregnant and get an abortion I would still be her friend even though she chose something I could never dream of doing.
I think abortion should be available for every reason.
No, a baby shouldn't have to die because their parents were irresponsible idiots.
If a woman can't take care of her sexual health how do you expect her to take care of a baby? It isn't your business.
I think a woman should be free to seek an abortion regardless of exactly how she got pregnant.
No I don’t believe in abortion in any case. Its murder. It’s black and white.
Abortion is always an option, but it all depends on your and her belief system. Also be aware of what exactly an abortion is and how it will affect the both of you. Do your research.
No it should not be okay in that instance because girls should know what happens if you don't use protection
Well, after looking at the votes, don't listen to me. I mean, I'm pro life but it seems I am wrong
Irresponsibility shouldn't be promoted.
I'm always pro choice.
Yeah, but not funded by tax money please
Because why should I pay for other people being stupid
Abortion aren’t paid by your tax’s... because of the Hyde Amendment Hyde Amendment is a legislative provision barring the use of federal funds to pay for abortion except to save the life of the woman.
@Shybabe33 I never said it was, I'm just saying it should not be
I believe I don't want to be the judge of who deserves a legal abortion and who doesn't. I am not in their shoes. It's between her and her doctor.
When you hear know about a neighbor murdering someone is that not your business?
I don't believe abortion is murder.
Agree it is a fetus not a child. Also men need to stop being lazy and wrap a condom on...
@Shybabe33 maybe women should be more responsible and take bc. Don't pin this completely on men
As always a woman is blamed and shamed. It's her body and her business. Women have their reasons for having had an abortion
so its ok to end a life because a couple was irresponsible?
If you understand biology you will knowna fetus and a life aren't one in the same. This is why it is called abortion. Only uneducated christian extremists claim it is murder.
Thank you! Perfectly stated
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