Is it bad to send pictures to boyfriend to masturbate with?

[Anonymous]

My new boyfriend is highly active sexualy. He is pressuring me to send pics especially for my vagina. He is coming clean that he wants to jerk off on it. I am confused is it because I'm special or because he needs it? Is it a dirty or natural act? He said I can just watch porn but I need something from you. I don' want him to lose interest in real sex because of photos will that could happen? He stays away erected till 2am ( he lives far and can' visit him a lot we meet on weekend and at work).

[roman101]

If it doesn't feel wrong to you and doesn't make you feel uncomfortable, it's not bad. Nothing wrong with it when esp there;s distance. It's understandable. But never feel obligated to do it for anyone if you don't wanna do it.

Also still always be careful what kinda photos you send over the internet to whoever it is. Never take photos reveealing your identity. Your best friend, in this case boyfriend today, can be your worst enemy/nightmare tomorrow. Bad breakups and revenge porn are a thing unfortunately. Don't risk it and leave it to chance ever.

[PollsYouCanDanceOn]

As a guy with a high sex drive I'm gonna tell you my experiences with this kind of situation. Personally, I can live without pictures, but my love is 10x stronger when I'm well-stocked with pics and videos from girlfriends or friends with benefits. It's your call, but he'd appreciate it. Just know, though, that he will be keeping them. Forever.

[Asker]

Why a guy will keep such photos and he told me I will erase them and you can check my fone

[PollsYouCanDanceOn]

He'll keep them because they're hot, and he has an emotional connection which makes the physical one that much stronger. And even if they aren't on his phone, he's got them saved somewhere. There are limitless ways to store something like that while not having it on your phone, and they aren't hard to do

[Asker]

Your answer is realistic that's why I'm gonna ask you more asking for it means I'm special or just using me to jerk off? Will that make him less interested in sex and depending on photos? And will it put me in an inferior position?

[PollsYouCanDanceOn]

He's not asking because you're special, he's asking because he thinks he can get you to say yes. It could potentially go either way in terms of affecting his sex drive, but it'll most likely make him want sex more. And while it won't exactly put you in an inferior position, he could just drift over to using you for sexual pleasure if things go south. And of course blackmail is always an option, if not a rarely occuring one.

[Asker]

He's not asking because you're special, he's asking because he thinks he can get you to say yes.. that hurts. He said I can watch porn but I want something of you. Does that make sense? He is staying awake waiting hours just to get my pussy's pic to masturbate on and he has been waiting since 4 days

[PollsYouCanDanceOn]

Yeah. Porn is alright, but there's something just super hot about nudes from a girl you know. It's incredible. I'm sorry if it's not what you want to hear

[sarahsmile8839]

It is okay if you feel comfortable with it. If you feel close enough, do it. It is better than him having sex with another girl.

[ValentinaMahfud]

I would send it to a guy I can geniunely trust but even then I wouldn't put my face in any lol

[robske]

its a bit of both,

just be carefull with what you send him, if he blackmails you, with them, puts them online after a bad breakup and such
these sort of things can really backfire, and the internet never forgets

nothing wrong with trusting your man, as long as you're carefull and smart.

[RuthAnn1781]

Nah, I think that's normal

[Sabretooth]

It is normal-but that's exactly a good thing

[Sabretooth]

"Not"

[HappyWheels]

That just shows that most women don't think logically. What do you think will happen in most cases after you break up? Those nudes will be used against the girl. Duh.

[Red_Arrow]

There are dangers with that which have been discussed a lot on here. A guy can keep them for just himself, or he may show them around, or he may even post them online. Often a guy gets upset enough during the breakup to post them as revenge. So leave your face our of them. And have no identifying tats, jewelry, etc. showing in the photo.

As to whether it is "wrong" to five them to a guy, it does not even matter if he is your boyfriend. As long as you heed the info above about not being identified, then you can give them to any guy you want knowing he will use them for masturbation, if that is what you want to do.

[talk2dream]

nope

[mattai787]

If I were you I'd stop interacting with this pervert! If a guy loves you - he builds you up - he cares for you.
If a guy lusts for you - he asks for photos.
Understand the difference!

[bubbakong2006]

at least he wants pictures of you to jerk off to he’s horny and really wishes he could have you but doesn’t want to cheat probably

[thinkaloudtolive]

Just be prepared for him to possibly share them with his friends. And likely use them against you if you have a nasty breakup in the future.

[Sabretooth]

Even he doesn't-might not matter

[smølf]

It's not prudent send pictures to boyfriend to masturbate with, but if you absolutely must do so, then only use snapchat to prevent the pictures from being misused later on.

[TheChatWanderer]

U can screenshot a snap I do it all the time

[smølf]

@TheChatWanderer And this is why it is not prudent.

[KII-NGH]

Just send him something from Google and see what happens

[koltepreetam]

it depends on you to send or not... so chill out and check whether you wanna send or not...

[koltepreetam]

if you dont think its wrong then why you ask question?

[Asker]

Because im. confused I don't have an opinion I need to know more

[koltepreetam]

he can use against you so dont send

[life_forged]

It's normal but up to you if you want to send but consider this with no effort at all he could see some gorgeous demon naked online for free but would rather see you

[jersos1]

No its hot

[HappyWheels]

Don't be stupid. Once you two break up he'll just use those pictures against you. Honestly, you girls need to think through the consequences...

[Decentguy]

Just dont show your face in it, and its all good. and also if you feel stressed and very pressurized about it, like you dont feel happy doing it, then tell him how you feel, and if your boyfriend really loves you and cares about you then he would stop asking for that

[krishh0805]

Why don't you send it? It's normal!! Let him enjoy your asset!!!

[jakelecross]

If he wants those pics. He hast to send you his pics too

[Asker]

Guys don't care he would love to send pics. Hh

[jakelecross]

That is true. But i also think he shouldn't force it out of a girl

[dhruv9x]

Just avoid including your face in the pictures. Rest is good

[Sabretooth]

Yes-it's very irresponsible and foolish

[Sabretooth]

And of course it's dirty

[Sabretooth]

If you want to avoid such issues-never or send anything sexual til marriage-even then-you shouldn't send nudes-even if he doesn't share them-that doesn't mean someone won't get their hands on it

[Sabretooth]

"Never do or send''

[thegr8lion]

Nope

[bonezrx7]

No...