How long to ejaculate from blowjob?

Hello. Just wondering from just head how long does it take you to ejaculate? I went for 10 minutes and.. nothing maybe I suck? I hear about quickies.. how?
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  • Reality is blowjobs are all subjective,“blowees” are all different, (i. e. the man’s natural physiology, age, fatigue level, emotional state, last ejaculation, flaccid level at start and incredibly pertinent condom’d or not). Then of course, we cannot underestimate the “blower” influence in the whole BJ dynamic. Overall technique and skills (cupping balls, rhythm, tongue/teeth work, gag reflex); her mental state at the time, last time you bought her a new pair of stilettos and the design of her body (throat, lips, tongue etc.). Blend these two components with a fiercely important third: environment – and you have a lot of freaking variables to sift through.
    By environment I mean everything from what is the overall situation between the giver and the receiver, between the blower and the blowee (i. e. first time together tear-each-others-clothes-off in a dark parkade? ) to the specific circumstances of this blowjob (i. e. birthday sex, father’s day sex, wake up sex, shower sex, public toilet sex, quick lunch bj in the car), to the actual visuals and surroundings… maybe you are in the dark and the guy is very visual, or maybe the guy can’t really enjoy the blowjob if anxious about getting caught if in public..

    Having said all that, I think it is fair to lay some guidelines for the sake of everyone’s cocks, necks, jaws and balls alike. I can officially declare that the perfect blowjob should take between 5 and 15 minutes, enough time to get a wang fully flaccid to get up and smell the sex and also give women a reasonable cap so as to not break a neck, vertebrae or limb off their self-esteem tree.

    So does that mean that a BJ that takes more than 18 minutes is a failure? No, but it could mean that something is off. Maybe he is too anxious about getting caught in the copy room. Maybe he is too drunk. Or, yes, maybe you suck at it.

    Hope it helps in reducing your curiosity.

    Thank You !!!

  • It can vary from 5-10 minutes to 20+; all depends on what she’s doing along with it. Handjob or a finger in the booty can speed it up quite a bit...

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  • My boyfriend can go from 4 minutes to 50 minutes. It depends on my technique and some other stuff.

  • It really depends on the guy, some guys are just easier to make cum than others

    • Thank you my one friend Bragg's how fash she can make them ejaculate but maybe she is just blowing smoke

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  • I have met a few guys with amazing self control.

  • It depends on the man. If he rubbed one out a few minutes before you got started, it may take him a while. Also depends on his own sex drive. He may have a low drive or low testosterone, causing it to take longer. It could also be that you're bad at it, no offense. If you're bad at it, you can ask him for pointers on what he likes.

  • If he tells you to do something pleasurable while doing it, focus on that, listen to his tips and what he likes. Being better at it comes with experience and listening to your partner.

  • I've only Climax from to blow jobs in my life And to be honest very best blow job I ever had I never climaxed from but I really enjoyed what was being done. But it also takes me Over an hour to multiple hours to Climax from sex, We are all different. Just relax, play around with what you are doing and enjoy what you do. Enjoying what you do is not only a turn on but it leads to better oral overall.

  • Not every man's sensitivity is the same and not every woman's "professionalism" is the same either. In other words, there's no strict rule for ejaculation time.

  • When a girl is giving me a blowjob I usually cum pretty quickly. I cannot hold onto my sperm to to long when she is sucking my dick. Sometimes I think she is disappointed I came too quick but she assures me that it's fine and that she takes it as a compliment that I ejaculated in her mouth in under five minutes.

  • Totally depends how turned on I am at that point of time...

  • If I'm aroused from hand play first as fast as 2 minutes if she goes frantic.
    An ordinary blow job from first massage through ejaculation...10 minutes max.
    Chances are you need to bone up on your technique.

  • I don't cum from blowjobs. I tell partners that up front so they don't expect it to happen and or feel bad because they feel like they failed. It's not them, it's me. And I don't mind it being that way. But most guys who can take 3-10 minutes. I'd focus on using more tongue than suction, but every guy is different. Don't be afraid to check in with the guy and see what works for him and what doesn't. If you are adventurous, you might want to digitally stimulate his prostate while you do suck him. It may not make it happen quicker, but it will be more intense for him and produce more volume. Ask him first, though, as some guys just aren't into anal stimulation.

  • I love a BJ, but it's almost impossible for me to cum from it

  • Depends, I think less than 5 minutes for me.

  • On average, 6-8 minutes. The fastest was just a few seconds, but there was a big lead-up. The longest, of course, was not at all.

  • It depends if you have to build up steam from scratch, or just finsish of.

    Ask youself, how long does it take you to cum, when he is licking your pussy - it really denpensd on you mood at the time dosen't it!

  • Ah well It would take awhile for me 1 hour plus is how long

  • It depends on the sensitivity of my cock. If I masturbate or have sex prior to the blow job, it takes my a while. Usually when my wife just surprises me and decides she wants to give me a blow job around ten minutes.

  • Some of us have more control than others but most guys try to last longer in an attempt to be impressive don't let your performance determine how it felt I promise you lips on dick regardless of technique is always greatly appreciated

  • A long time 20 mins maybe I usually finish with a handjob quicker

  • Well sometimes a few minutes sometimes 10, if I control myself can keep up to an hour:d lok

  • Depends how horny I am. Normally takes ages if i haven't done anything prior. But if i get a bj after sex to finish in her mouth not in her pussy then maybe 10mins as im all worked up but every guy is different

  • When i was young, i could cum from head in just a few minutes. But about by my late 20s, i could barely ever cum from oral. Which sucks, cuz i love head. But there are certain techniques i think helps, at least for me

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