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Guys, What would you do if you got your “FWB” pregnant?

Guys pls don’t judge me!
So 3 years ago I met this guy on Instagram. We texted for a month, met and had sex. A month passed by and we were still texting each other. I missed my period & told him. He freaked out and yelled at me. I ended up not being pregnant, so he had sex w/me one more time then stopped talking to me. He was in a 2 yr relationship after that. Fast fwd to 2017 and 2 kids later from my ex. I bumped into him again on Instagram, re-added him. He messaged me and we made plans to chill before Halloween. We had sex again, I was tipsy and he was sober. He told me he wanted to cum in my ass and I said “Yes, pls cum in all my holes”. He then said okay. Before he came I told him it wasn’t a good idea bc I’m extremely fertile. He then said “Its okay. You look so beautiful when you’re pregnant. I want you to have all my kids”. Then came in me like 3 times! Days later I start feeling weird. I checked my calendar and found out I was ovulating when we had sex. So now I’ve been freaking out and he hasn’t texted me in 2 weeks! (Since we last had sex]. Why did he say all that then disappear? He likes my comments and sees my stories but can’t fucking reply to a simple text? I know I am pregnant but what’s his deal? FML!
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  • Both of your behaviors are odd to me. Knowing he "freaked out" at the possibility the first time, why would you even risk it again? Drunk or not. I'm not judging, genuinely asking/curious. I don't think this guy cares about you at all, not even a little. If you get pregnant, my guess is it will be all on you totally. You'll never hear or see him again. "You look so beautiful when you're pregnant" LOL, really? How would he know? lol

    For me, I would NEVER risk it. But lots of guys would and don't think/care enough to take precautions. Also, I'd be concerned with STI's as well now if he was in "all your holes" lol, especially without protection! Plus who knows how many women he's been with (without protection also probably).

  • Don't plan on ever having a friends with benefits but if, I did and I didn't get her pregnant I would prefer her to go through the pregnancy and I would do everything I could to support her doing and even after, even try having a proper relationship with her and be there for the child and her.

    • Now you’re a real man. Your mama raised u right!

    • Lol he's not a real man, he's desperate. Men with standards don't swing this way.

    • That, and Christian morales. But definitely want to wait until after marriage to even have sex.

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  • lol at our life and poor decisions during sex i mean... no BC yet tell him to cum everywhere.

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  • I'd give her emotional support but make sure she end up aborting it. I'm simply not ready to have kids

    • He said he wants kids. I don't know... ugh.

    • The only way to figure it out is talk to him. Maybe if I really like the girl I'll start a relationship with her. You'll have to figure out a way to talk to him either irl or texts. Also make sure you get tested

    • Thank you for the advice. I’m def getting tested by the end of the month. Already made an appt. Thank u again! :)

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  • Come on!!! You knew he was all about getting that ass. You can't expect anything else no matter what he said. Don't be nieve

    • It’s true, I knew he just wanted to have sex. But the things he kept telling me made it sound like he was trying to get with me. Like be in a relationship with me.

    • Sorry but guys will say anything to get between those thighs

    • That’s just crazy!

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  • I would not have a "FWB" if I were in another relationship.
    If I wasn't fond of her, I would not be sleeping with her.
    I'd offer marriage.

  • Drop that free loader

    • Free loader? He came in me bc wanted to. So how does that make me a free loader? lol.

    • Nooo he is the free loader. Gets off and bails

    • It’s too late for that. He came in me and I might be pregnant. He wouldn’t get off me when he was coming in me.

  • I said things like that, too but only with my wife. And wouldn't you know, when I said those things a couple of times, she got pregnant. He sounds scared but he needs to deal with the reality of what you two have done. Making such statements, even in the heat of the moment, do carry a level of responsibility with them. For both of you. But with the prior reaction he had, his behavior certainly shouldn't have been a surprise. That still doesn't relieve him of his share of the responsibility.

  • Ah. That's a tough one. Any child I fathered would be first and foremost MY child. When it comes to people, especially children, I am very careful not to form a relationship. Because I'm like a dragon, hoarding his gold, when it comes to my people. I will not let go, and even a mother's love will not be enough to let me give them up. A woman who bore me a child but was unwilling to give me custody would be in peril.

    Knowing this about myself, I have fathered no children. The risk is simply too great.

  • He's a cunt.

  • It sounds like you're a terrible decision maker. Sounds you got pumped and dumped. What would I do if I was him? I mean I guess I'd encourage you to abort it since you're just a friends with benefits.

    • You’re right. Can’t argue with u.

  • You should lay down the line. Go to his place, and tell him straight.

    • Wish I knew where he lived. I know where he works though...

    • Meet him outside his work and lay it down.

    • Why would he do that though?

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