Is Feminism promoting casual sex? Is Casual sex justified?

Is Feminism promoting casual sex? Is Casual sex justified?

I'm a virgin not by compulsion but by choice because I don't want to share my body with anyone except my wife. I don't understand how people can have casual sex.
What happened to loyalty? With women’s demand for equality we have encouraged women and men to stop being loyal. Being loyal is hard work but it gives depth and meaning.

What do women gain through one night stands or casual sex?
Approval. Social acceptance. A notch on their belt. Sexual release. Connection (often not a deep or vulnerable connection)

But what do they lose?
They lose the mystery and the gradual build up of attraction that makes a man and woman deserving of each other’s trust and investment in each other.

I also believe that the short term gratification of quick sex wears away one’s innocence in relationships and capability to be vulnerable.

"In the bigger picture, women lose sensitivity to their bodies and they can also lose depth in relationships."
Is Feminism promoting casual sex? Is Casual sex justified?


Short term involvement allows more deception to occur


Casual sex, or sex that happens too quickly – allows more deception to occur. It’s the opposite for the sexes, not the same! As many people would like it to be. This is not equal playing ground.
Is Feminism promoting casual sex? Is Casual sex justified?


If a woman decides that her rule is she’s an easygoing woman who doesn’t mind getting into bed quickly, then she leaves herself open to the full spectrum of men’s deception strategies.
LIKE. When the opportunity for casual sex presents itself, men have the most colourful and successful tactics for getting what they want.
Is Feminism promoting casual sex? Is Casual sex justified?


What are men’s deception tactics to get easy sex?
Pretending he is single, he doesn’t have any children, he is ambitious when he’s a lazy bum.
Pretending he’s interested in her emotionally (feigning an emotional connection)
Lying about his earnings and assets.
Faking confidence (real confidence reveals itself over time).
Faking good intentions, care.
Lying or not revealing what happened in his past relationships.
So be careful guys who you have sex with.
Yes Feminism promotes casual sex, casual sex not justified. screw Feminism.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I don’t get how people on this app say feminism does this or that, when that was never the goal or intention? Stop blaming everything on feminism. We live in a hookup obsessed culture - feminism just tips the scale so women who want sex like men can have that if they want. With or without feminism men have been sticking their dick in numerous women so that wouldn’t have changed.
    Casual sex is only justified if you know you can handle JUST sex. Women generally use sex to get connection/commitment from men. And tbh, it’s a bad idea. Men use commitment to get sex so generally a sex positive society benefits men in a HUGE WAY.
    If women (some women are like this) can have just sex with someone without the connection then go for it. Don’t know many who can though

  • First off, you're a virgin. Second, you're a guy. Third, you really have no right to judge anyone's ( I am including men on this too) sex life until you get your own. If you want to hold on to the V card till after marriage, that's fine. But some people feel like love is more than sex. They feel sex is there for pleasure. And just because a one night stand happened, doesn't mean it changes everything.

    And I say this as a girl who lost her virginity at the age of 24. And miraculously enough, I still have a boyfriend and still getting hit on by other men, despite the obvious cohabitation situation I am in.

  • I agree with everything you've said there. Other than a quick physical release there are far more downsides to it for a woman in my opinion. I'm not sure feminism is really responsible though, my guess is it's more to do with women rebelling against men's double standards instead of working through things together.

    • For all the extreme men out there you're going to have extreme women. It's about time people got their values back in order and stop treating each other like s**t. Problem solved. Simple.

  • WTF is this trend of connecting feminism to everything you disagree on? It's like the trend of blaming everything on millenials.

    I'm a feminist and I personally don't agree with casual sex and I would never do it, but the fact that I'm feminist has nothing to do with it. Oranges and apples...

Most Helpful Guys

  • freedom is a born human right. but - and i think this is where feminism lies and hurts women and men as a society- being able to do something doesn't mean it will have no impact on ur life... "u can have it all" is a lie, when it comes to choose u have to decide thoughtfully.

    Noone wants to marry a sl*t, post-wall, when she's ready to finally "settle down" after riding the cc for 10-15 years.. thats the harsh truth. A man can't respect someone who doesn't respect herself..

    • I would have married a s#$t you judgmental ass.

  • Yes. Feminism means having sex with a lot of guys in the name of women's liberation, dressing slutty, cheating to get another guy's penis in their pussies because they're free, having babies aborted because that's their 'right' and being superior over guys.

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  • Why would feminist women promote casual sex?
    People should stop thinking that HBO and Hollywood are documentaries based on true stories.

  • I feel like feminism is ruining almost everything. I have very strong opinions towards feminism and cannot stand it when they bring up "toxic masculinity" when a man compliments your outfit. Just because he compliments your outfit doesn't mean he is going to jump on you. They pretend like they are trying to empower women but really they are making us look like weak annoying humans who cry when men compliment or say something totally non threatening. I could go on for hours but you know... that would take hours.

  • Feminism promotes autonomy and some women then decide that what they want to do with there body is have casual sex and that’s totally fine!

    For me, I don’t like casual sex I only have with people I’ve known for a year, so it makes me angry when a “feminist” trys to tell me what I should I should I do if my body.

  • I've never had casual sex, as I've never wanted cheap relationships.

    • Beautiful

  • Third wave feminism is killing sex, with shrill harpies screaming “All men are rapists.”

  • I don't really think women gain much at all from one night stands, I believe feminism is changing people's perceptions on women having casual sex and I believe that can only be a good thing. Maybe we are losing respect for sex and even marriage but I think that is just because the world is more modern and interconnected than ever and traditional concepts of marriage have no real use.

  • FUCK THE SEXUAL LIBERATION!!!

  • Let's be honest here. You might be a virgin but we all know you jerk off so much you probably have carpal tunnel. You sound like a dude who is going to marry the first piece of ass you get and that might work but some of us might not marry or were married. Causal sex works.

  • Casual sex has proven emotional health benefits if you go about it the right way. For one it's a proven stress relief.

  • Feminists are liberals, and liberals promote casual sex.

  • Men and women have always been having casual sex. This isn't something new.

  • It's exciting and a great time.

  • No I think just in general as society becomes more secular the stigma around sex will decrease. As far as casual sex being justified as long as they're consenting adults I don't see an issue.

  • Once you understand that not everyone is like you, then you will understand why people like casual sex. I don’t do that anymore, but from 18-30 I got around like a record. No, stds I always wrapped up except with one girlfriend.
    So you’re a virgin, but you’re married? I thought you consummate on your wedding night?

  • Casual sex with no strings can be exciting and fun

  • They'll go to hell for sure👍

    • If not I'll go to hell

    • We'll* count me in.

    • Sure

  • whatever float's people boat. but casual sex is not my cup of tea, and never will be

  • I don't know because I don't follow feminism or at least the modern day kind. But I do agree sleeping around isn't good nor healthy long term.

  • Casual sex is fantastic! Just use protection and don’t do it with with someone that has a slutty history. Thus way you limit STD’s

  • Why the word justified?

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