High Libido and can't get enough?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I honestly can't get enough... I think I annoy my boyfriend with how much I ask for sex... anyone else have this issue? I feel like it's not normal.

[KnismoShade]

I had that same problem in my younger days then, found out about men with lowered testosterone levels don't have to deal with that as often so, to be quite honest I prayed to God about this and a few months later my testosterone levels dropped to the point that my doctor wanted to put me on patches to raise it back to normal but, to make a long story short I found that I liked not being in the mood 24/7 and had more time for other activities in my life. Finally, I was free to devote more time and energy to my hobbies and it was nice. Maybe you need to talk with your doctor about this and see what can be done to reduce the intensity and frequency of these feelings. I wish you luck.

[taleswapper]

If it's a problem, then it's not enough. If you're frequently distracted by being horny, if you crave physical contact, if your skin seems too tight, then you just need more sex. Without an idea of how often you and your boyfriend indulge, I can't say. At your age, I found twice a day sufficient. Since I was in the military, stationed aboard a ship, my choices were either rub one out or find a like-minded guy for FWBs. There were no women on ships then.

Talk to your partner. Ask him to help. if you're not getting enough, you might consider trying swinging, or even a poly relationship.

[kittycat119]

I do the same thing to my boyfriend when he's home. I'll literally wanna have sex and blow him all day to the point he has to force me to stop because it starts hurting him

[Asker]

Exactly!

[kittycat119]

It's i guess n my case I can't seem to get enough of him. I always want that intimacy and not having it sometimes just makes me want to more when I can

[605anon]

I mean, we're not made of steel down there. I mean every day blowjobs and sex does sound nice, but eventually we do need time to recuperate just like everyone else.

[kittycat119]

@605anon I know that. And I feel had for my guy when I always want to but sometimes I can't help myself when I see him

[605anon]

See in my situation my girl's libido is pretty low. After we moved from our apartment with two roommates (to save money) it took us about a month to have sex again. It sucked, started to make me on edge, and I was lashing out at little things. I've never lashed out at her but thanks to her sex drive only appearing on such rare occasions I understand your frustration haha.

[kittycat119]

@605anon he has a high sex drive as well. Because he also constantly wants sex. It's just sometimes I want to a little too often

[605anon]

Maybe you two need to invest in some toys for you. My girl bought herself a suction dildo but says she prefers me. I guess I won't understand entirely how we differentiate - probably the warmth and way it moves inside - but it doesn't hurt to own at least one toy. And if he's worried you're going to want something bigger than him he needs to know that you aren't going to leave him for a silly toy haha.

[kittycat119]

@605anon oh he knows and I've used toys. But Yeah I don't oddly enough like them that much. My sex drive is only turned on when it comes to him

[605anon]

Interesting, so maybe you two need to experiment with different positions or methods of sex. Examples, trying something risky like public play. If that's too daring you can always ease into it with going out with no underwear or just something revealing. Spice it up. Make it fun.

[kittycat119]

@605anon lol we already do that a lot

[605anon]

Wow, kudos to you two. Maybe you could introduce another person into the equation if you both have such high sex drives. You're bound to find even ground.

[kittycat119]

@605anon that's something I kinda wanna do. And then Again I just share. I'd get super pissed if he had sex with another girl lol

[605anon]

So MMF or MFF? My girlfriend and I have talked about finding another female (MFF) for us to play with. But with roommates that's not happening haha.

[kittycat119]

@605anon I've wanted to try a mff. No way am I letting another guy have sex with me. And the only problem with another girl would be I wouldn't want him having sex with her

[605anon]

I see your jealousy is going to get in the way haha. Maybe have a few beers and that will help you relax. Hell the thought of my girl watching me be with another girl is what got us talking about MFF in the first place.

[kittycat119]

@605anon I'd be fine with them touching but sex i couldn't fo

[605anon]

Maybe you can't imagine it now because of how much you desire him. Hell, it might wake something inside of him and give you two the time of your life haha.

[Asker]

Well... that was interesting to read

[605anon]

Haha it was interesting to talk about.

[Logorithim]

Yeah, I have had this problem as well. It can cause a lot of tension in a relationship over time and does make people think about cheating. Masturbating a lot isn't a complete substitute- I would much rather have sex until I just can't anymore.

[605anon]

A high sex drive isn't anything to feel ashamed of. Honestly you're just going with what your body wants and that's a pretty basic instinct to act upon. It's like yawning or craving food. You just need to learn to suppress so the feeling sometimes. Like if you walk past a fast food place even though you have food at home haha.

[Tony_1693]

You need to find a partner who matches your sex drive. I have an obnoxious libido as well.

[Bramlokh]

My ex had higher desires than me, be it becme more of a hassle honestly. But if I got horny ør she got me horny then i was just as willing as her. I was pretty tired from working all the time at the time which probably had some influence on the situation.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

We all have different sex drives and yours is higher just explain that to him.

[Cursewords]

If you really think you're bothering him just spend more time having fun with yourself.

[Kranjec]

Might be he has too low testosterone, try spiking it up and he will be like a rabbit. Also stopping masturbation helps also makes males last much longer and they get harder.

[Nik1hil]

i just think if you feed him right stuff, and make him exercise correctly , you can increase his stamina and libido , to fuck you straight for hours... an multiple times a day 4 times a day without getting exhausted!..

[VooDooBooDoo]

I don't see the issue

[Asker]

He doesn't want it all the time. I do.

[smølf]

The need for sex is highly individual, you simply have a higher sex drive than him.

[Bombidil]

When I was much younger and married to my first wife, I was horny all day and night. My first wife finally just told me to masturbate more often, lol. We compromised and she gave me handjobs from time to time.

[Cellestial]

He has to appreciate the treasure he has lol because guys usually wants sex from their girlfriends rather than the opposite

[jersos1]

I have this issue and this is fucking disgusting

[Asker]

Why is it disgusting?

[jersos1]

Because everytime I think of sex... sex... sex... fucking...

[LeopoldStotch]

I don't think he's annoyed, Just maybe exhausted

[disgustingweebtrash]

Respect that he might not want it all the time, you should communicate whether it annoys him or not.

[SilverRain92]

You can buy vibrators and didlo

[Asker]

I want the real deal though.

[SilverRain92]

You can sext with your boyfriend and discuss kinky and sexual topics with him

[krishh0805]

Why don't your try dildo?

[Asker]

Not the same

[krishh0805]

Does your boyfriend satisfy you?

[Asker]

No, not really

[krishh0805]

So what do you do then?

[Asker]

I just deal with it...

[krishh0805]

Why don't you go for a fuckbuddy?

[Asker]

I hate cheaters

[krishh0805]

Oh!!!

[8string]

how often do you ask for sex...

[Asker]

Once or twice a day usually?

[8string]

dump him. you could call me, im constantly horny

[Asker]

Lmao you don't even know what I look like

[8string]

well I think i gave you a pretty solid answer. sounds like your dating a weirdo anyways if you wanna fuck more than he does

[Asker]

I guess lol

[Lumberman53]

Get some help

[Anonymous]

a high libido is a of sign good health but do feel a high sexdrive when you should do other things it would be a problem. Do you think about sex all day?

[Asker]

No I don't lol, but, I think about it often.

[Opinion Owner]

ok how many times of the day you need to do your bf?

[Asker]

I'd be pretty satisfied at twice a day

[Opinion Owner]

ok and your boyfriend think it is too much to handle? have you discussed this with him?

[Asker]

Yes. He says he's just not able to reciprocate the feelings that often...

[Opinion Owner]

Do you find it annoying when he say no?

[Asker]

I just feel rejected... like he just doesn't want me

[Opinion Owner]

you simply have different libido i guess you are not the only girl with this problem

[Asker]

I'm just worried that he doesn't find me attractive I guess.

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds strange why is he still with you?