My wife went to bachelorette party -stripper was told to leave but got a dance from a guy that a friend invited. Should I be upset?

My wife went to a bachelorette party with some friends. To start one of the friends tells her about going to one a few weeks before and each girl got private dance from stripper. Then the last girl the stripper told the girl to give him a hand job and she did! My wife told me that story a few days before going it. Why tell me that lol? I didn't say anything she went to party. The day of i asked her how she would get home told me was going to uber i guess. Then hour later tells me that a girlfriend got a room and would stay in hotel if that was okay. I said sure. I asked what was the night planned for? She told me go eat then drinks at hotel then bar after. I asked a hour later and said you mean dinner drinks bar then stripper? Lol. Hour later says dinner hotel for drinks stripper then bar hahahah. It’s bachelorette party so expected that. My wife went to party she told me the stripper they got was not what the wanted and they sent him home. Other friends posted snap of that. Two weeks later rubbing her feel at asked again how she fucked up toe and said she told me already. She said one her friends had a guy come over since stripper was not what they wanted gave me a lap dance and stepped on toe. I was like you never told me that lol! She said she did i would have remembered. A guy that was not a stripper gave her a dance and some other girls she said. Should i be hurt or expect it? I have never been to a crazy bachelor party.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes. As a man, you should be. If she believes she belongs to you and is yours and only yours, she should not had don't this. If not, then be ready to share her with public. Your call!

  • Yeah, somehow I would dump my girl, if she was getting striptese dances.

Most Helpful Girl

  • You again? Stop overthinking this. Really. She didn’t cheat and you’ve got nothing to worry about.

    • I know but more to it. Awhile back a night of being tipsy i told her it would be hot for her to kiss another guy. I was drunk said during sex. I was embarrassed the next day. Then two days later she brought up not sure if a opened a ticket for her to cheat now.

    • No it didn’t. But you clearly need t speak to her about it all.

    • I have talked to her but so vague. Said no but then actions seem different

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  • Don't worry about it.

  • Nah. Blow it off. Those type of parties are one off anyways.

  • Nah. This stuff happens at bachelorette parties.