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What does it mean when someone says "You don't look like virgin"?

I've heard it said to girls before. What does it even mean, do virgin girls look different than non virgins?
What does it mean when someone says "You don't look like virgin"?
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  • I don't there is a sure fire way to tell, but certain women move in a certain way that reveals they are very comfortable with their sexuality. It is mostly in the hips. I think that is why guys who are great dancers are so seductive to women because they move their hips so well.

    It also is the way a woman pays attention to her looks. A woman who is trying to be sexy will dress and groom herself in a way that shows her sexual side. Of course, most women will deny this and say they do it for themselves, and that is partially true, but I feel that unless one has tapped into their own sexuality, which isn't typical with virgins in general, then they aren't going to care as much about how "sexy" they are or how "sexy" they feel.

    So to answer your question, if a guy says "you don't look like a virgin", he may not necessarily mean "look", but maybe he didn't peg you as one. That means he thinks you look very attractive, well put together, have flirty mannerisms, have a that certain "way" about you that screams sexiness that would make it easy to seduce a man or attract men in general.

  • What they mean is "You look hot, so obviously tons of guys have wanted to have sex with you, and not many girls who get so much interest are still virgins beyond high school."

    • That is a typical stereotype. This has nothing to do with how one looks like. it's all based on one character. And thus, whether one is hot or cold or whatever, has nothing to do with it. So, just because one looks in a certain way, doesn't translate to mean that he or she is or is not a virgin.

    • @renewal obviously it doesn't but more often than not, guys are attracted to attractive girls. and attractive girls get more opportunity to have sex and most people usually take it.

    • yes if you got a hot body more guys are going to be trying get in your pants. and the guys going to have plenty of choices and most likely going to pick one guy

Most Helpful Girls

  • I️ didn’t lose my virginity until late in high school to my boyfriend. Long before I️ did, people were always surprised to find out I️ was a virgin; I️ guess I️ “gave off” a certain vibe that made guys think I️ wasn’t a virgin, even though I️ 100% was. Whoever says “they can tell” is full of shit. I️ was often shamed because people’s instincts about me were wrong. I️ was always a confident teenager who knew my worth and I️ guess that gave off the “nonvirgin” taste, which was undoubtedly wrong.

  • Its mean walk the hell away. From that dume ass and say well i know ur not so good by and. Dont bother. With him or guys who say that they just want to take it save it nena i gave. My gift to ass hole And o reget it been nothing. But lossers till now i have. My true 💘

  • I've had people tell me that before. Even when I was a kissless virgin until age 19. No, I'm not a flirt. No I don't really talk to people that much, just my friends. So I was like, wtf? Where are y'all getting this notion that I've been getting some lol

  • Some guys assume that a virgin should be innocent, shy and completely unaware of what's going on

    • I ain't too sure bout that. Back when I was in my teens I met quite a few girls that called themselves virgins. But they could suck the chrome off a bumper. Yeah true t hey ain't ever had a dick inside them but they sure as hell knew how to suck the hell out of one

    • @Dwill2982 I don't consider them virgins.

    • Hell me neither. That's why I said they call themselves virgins when half of em now days are nothing but a hoodrat gutter slut

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  • It means one probably gives off more promiscuous, flirty vibes and is more attractive than the average person. This is usually a way to steer the conversation more sexually and/or know your body count.

  • No, I think that’s such a stupid comment. 😂

    I could debate personalities are different, but not looks. That’s just judgmental.

  • It's just people being presumptuous based and looks and a few other things. Only the girl in question really knows.

  • "Your eyes are the windows to the soul." While many believe that there is no physical indicator of this, just like watching pornography having sex rewires your brains chemistry. There are physical changes that occur in both women and men after sex regardless of impregnation, but in the context of this question it seems like the statement was a typical uneducated stereotype. The man who said this probably felt like you were dressed in a promiscuous or revealing way. Something about your interaction with him might have come off as a bit sexual or your body language was read as sultry and sensual. There is also a psychological change that occurs after sex in both men and women and while each individual might portray this differently some people are experts at observing this changes. Men who have experience "playing the field" to borrow the colloquialism, typical are experts in this. Hope this helps. 😊

  • It means that the person who said it has no manners or is insecure and it means absolutely nothing about the person they are saying it to.

  • I mean we could also talk about how men assume women get lots of play... just for being women? A lot of guys say these things because they feel vagina = immediate sexual interest but that’s not always true

  • It means that the guy asking it is an egocentric low self-esteem asshole. Wants only virgins and is intimidated by real women. Maybe a virgin himself.

  • you probably look uptight and proper, it means nothing don't worry.

  • I think they mean innocent. 🙄

  • Me personally have never hear that phrase being used but from my perspective it sounds like to me. "You look to sweet and inoccent to have had sex.

  • they're saying you are attractive. most attractive people aren't usually virgins. you probably look confident.

  • It typically has more to do with attitude, and whether you're attractive or not. If you're attractive and confident, people are more likely to think you're not a virgin vs. being ugly and shuffling around everywhere you go.

  • Physical appearance? Nothing.

    Body language or social confidence is something different. But even then it can be wrong.

  • It means that they think you're too attractive to have not had sex before

  • Virginity is an expired and dumb concept that only exists in some men's imagination. It means you have to steer clear from the guy that said that. It's a good question but trying to understand the meaning involves understanding men that are obsessed with virginity. Waste of time. Just get away, fast. This kind of thinking has to stop, it is hurting girl and women everything.

  • Probably an awkward attempt to call you sexy. They notice your more... Arousing features, and want you to know that.

  • when a guy says it to you he's hoping you're a skank
    when a girl says it to you she's planning drama to harass and spread rumors about you

  • Means they are retarded. There will be fewer retards to deal with the older you get.

  • No and it doesn't make any sense. Unless they are dressed really provocatively.

  • I haven't got clue cause there's no such thing as looking like a virgin. I assume they must think you're experienced because your attractive or attract a lot male attention.

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