Do guys go down on every girl or do you have to love her to go down on her?

Question

I have been dating my (long distance relationship) boyfriend for a couple of month's now and he like's to go down on me.. he told me i am the first girl he has went down on.. and we have a lot of sex when we meet the most was 11times in one night (lol)...
Do you guys go down on every girl or do u have to like really love her to go down on her? And what is with the so much sex? lol not that i am complaining but iv never been with anyone b4 that can do so many times in one night

SkinnyBuddha · Accepted Answer

I personally enjoy the hell out of it, and I certainly don't need to love the person. I actually get disappointed when I encounter a woman who doesn't want me to do it. It's just foreplay, and who doesn't like foreplay? (Actually, scratch that... I know lots of men who could care less about foreplay, I just can't personally relate to that lol).

To add to my answer, I think in many cases this is a cultural issue. Without turning this into a racial debate, I'll simply say I've observed that the average American male often enjoys doing it and doesn't need to love the person. They just like doing it. I've also had Mexican friends who thought I was crazy for enjoying it and told me it's quite uncommon in their culture (yes I'm sure there are Mexican men who enjoy it, I'm just telling you what many of my Mexican friends have told me). I've also known several men from various Muslim-centric countries who wouldn't be caught dead doing it under a year circumstances (again, I'm sure there are some Muslim men who enjoy it).

In short, I would have to say it's a pretty 50/50 subject in my experience. You either enjoy doing it and you don't need to love the person, or you cringe at the very thought of it (in which case I would imagine that you'd have to really, really, REALLY love the person to even consider it).

johnnycool · Accepted Answer

Some females have rank sourcream pussies you have to wash yourself twice after you do the deed.. don't put your mouth anywhere near that stankbox... Other girls have pussies made out of the best taste you can imagine... Sometimes you don't even want to poke those just eat um...

Justacatlady · Accepted Answer

So, my opinion will be from the opposite side. With the people I have slept with, not every guy goes down and it has nothing to do with love although I think caring for the person makes any sexual interaction better.
When you are in a new relationship and the other person has good stamina, you can have nights with high numbers like that. If you'd like a break, just say so.

ChronicThinker · Answer

Love ain't got nothing to do with pussy.

myPocketoli · Answer

3 determining factors:
1.) Is it clean? (Will it taste bad or not)
2.) Do I really want to please her? /Is it worth it?
3.) Is she comfortable with it?
If the answer to all 3 is yes I don't have to love her to go down on her

20yearsolder · Answer

As long as the appearance and smell is good, I'm eating pussy

civilianguy · Answer

Some guys like to, some just do it in hopes they get something in return. It all depends on him.

Intraluminal · Answer

I don't go down on ONSs, but that's about it.

MiamiMadness · Answer

I wouldn't go down on a ONS

Shuey · Answer

11 times in one day. the chafing must have been awful.

Kranjec · Answer

Same as women love is not needed.

winterfox10 · Answer

I have to feel a bond and deep trust to WANT to go down on a woman... I also don't ask for oral for that exact reason. Usually it's the girl's idea and then I kind of feel obligated to eat her out.

es20490446e · Answer

I only have sex with girls I wish to continue for long term, but if I go down to them is just because I like to!

RidingForever2 · Answer

I haven't ever gone down on a woman and if i suspect she had a promiscuous past im not going down on her because of HPC/genital warts. Its so widespread nowadays all these hoes have it. I dont want throat cancer.